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bay ❀ la she is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future {proverbs 31:25} stars in the sky

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1. Let people you love go if they need it. Doing what is best for a person even if it breaks you is what loving someone really is. 2. Forgive people who make valid apologies. Really forgive them. It will help both of you. 3. Not everyone deserves a second chance. Learn who to trust again and who to move on from. 4. Don’t exercise. Do recreational activity. Know that one is about punishing your body for not being naturally what society deems perfect, and the other is about enjoying something that coincidentally involves moving around. 5. Never deny yourself when it comes to food. Eating is not a sin and should never be associated with guilt, greed, or gluttony. 6. Eating is wonderful, delicious, joyous, experimental, strengthening, nourishing, and sociable. 7. Don’t regret any choices that you made. It was exactly what you wanted at that time and your decision would never have been any different. If it turned out badly, use the experience to learn from your mistakes, move forward, and not make them again in the future. 8. Be open and honest, always. Communicate what you are feeling to other people. It makes you look strong, not weak, and it will make your relationships deeper and more solid. 9. Write letters to people that deserve it. Write letters of love. Write letters of thanks. They will be treasured. 10. Read a lot. Always have a book by your bed. It will expand your imagination, teach you new things, and act as a place you can escape to when life is difficult. 11. Listen to people who are sad, and really hear them. Make an effort to genuinely understand them and empathise with the way they are feeling. Help them in ways you would like to be helped. 12. Honour your body. Respond to what it is telling you, always. If it needs fuel, eat. If it is tired, rest. Appreciate your body for keeping you alive even when you treated it like the enemy. 13. If you love someone, tell them. You might not get another opportunity, and you should never let yourself live with a “what if”. 14. Stand up for yourself, and stand up for others. Do not be someone who stays silent in the face of injustice. 15. Travel whenever you can. It is important, exciting, invaluable, and liberating, to explore the world. 16. Live life for yourself. Learn to say yes, and learn to say no. Don’t ever forget that you are worth a hell of a lot. Cut people out of your life who don’t appreciate that, and hold those close that do.

16 Things That I learnt in the Last Two Years

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Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. Fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love

-me when i over think things 

[oddorch]

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[slugly]

I hope you fall in love with someone who never lets you fall asleep thinking you’re unwanted.

[guarded]

[wnq-writers]

We re-open our doors for toxic people and call it seeking closure.

[rumineely]

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It’s crazy how much you’ll tolerate for someone you care about.

[realizes]

[gosh]

Introverts, in contrast, may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.

Susan Cain, Quiet  

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It terrifies you, doesn’t it? It scares the living shit out of you to love someone like her. Someone who is so much of a storm. Some days she’s stronger than you. Most days her voice is louder. She’ll say “no” once and mean it. If you don’t listen she’ll kick you out of her bed and out of her life. Maybe she’ll soften for you, between the quiet hours where the sun is just barely touching the earth, she’ll be all quiet breathing skin and open mouthed caresses. Maybe once in a while she’ll gentle herself into elastic and you’ll press open mouthed kisses to her skin without worrying about the burn. Stop living for those moments where she’s quieter. They’ll be rare. The thing is, most of the time, she’ll be on fire. You’ll have to carry the ashes of your arguments back with you, you’ll have to expect that she’ll fight you and love you at the same time. It’ll feel like loving a hurricane. So maybe, maybe you’re thinking that it’ll be easier if you just left. Maybe you’ll find a better one. Know this: if she asks you to stay, she will do it once. If you slam the door shut behind you she will shrug her shoulders, wrap herself in her own fight and wait for someone strong enough to love her. If you come back, months later, empty handed, she’ll kiss your forehead and shake her head and say ‘not today.’

Azra.T “Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in”

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