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[sangils-moved]

and.. this is my last post here! i've had this blog for most of my teenage years.. idk that i'll delete it, idk yet tho. but, i'm no longer going to be posting here. i am officially moved. 🖤 it's bittersweet. i'm in a weird place.. but i'm sorry and goodbye.

[sangils-moved]

so anyways, by the end of tomorrow i'll refollow some mutuals and archive this account and log out for good.

[sangils-moved]

❗️ remaking, officially. ❗️

okay i ’m remaking this week so like this if u want to stay mutuals.

[furiousgoldfish]

victim’s point of view of what happened is the only version that matters.

[superpaperclip]

“If someone says you hurt them, you don’t get to decide you didn’t.”

[infpisme]

[sangils-moved]

❗️ remaking, officially. ❗️

okay i ’m remaking this week so like this if u want to stay mutuals.

[ears-awake-eyes-opened]

“I asked the universe “Why so much pain?” and it whispered back, “Because you ignored red flags and now you are paying attention.””

— Lisa A. Romano

[the-courage-to-heal]

“Emotional abuse can be hard to recognize. Victims are confused and unsure of themselves. They wonder if they’re just overreacting and making a big deal out of something small. The abuser reinforces these feelings and blames their actions on anger, or blame the victim for making them act that way; or worse they say it’s okay when they do it because they’re not trying to be abusive. All of these are excuses. It’s never okay to abuse another person. Yes people can have toxic behaviors they aren’t aware of but they’ll change those behaviors when they’re pointed out. Not say they can’t control themselves when they’re angry. That’s nothing more than a cop out to avoid responsibility for one’s actions.”

— Anonymous

[sangils-moved]

❗️ remaking, officially. ❗️

okay i ’m remaking this week so like this if u want to stay mutuals.

[furiousgoldfish]

you don’t have to prove that someone is abusive in order to cut them out of your life, if they’re wasting your time and energy, draining you, making you feel miserable, putting way less effort in communicating than you are, blocking your thoughts and opinions, triggering you, making you cry, causing you pain, making you feel awful about yourself - you can cut them off with no further reason needed “I need different things in life right now” is a reason enough.

[brotherlysuggestion]

You’re entitled to your anger. You’re entitled to your bitterness. It doesn’t make you as bad as the people who hurt you. It doesn’t make you abusive to finally lash out and snap at your abusers. It’s a recognized and common tactic for abusers to accuse their victims of being the perpetrator of the toxicity and abuse. It’s not your fault though. You aren’t as bad as them just because they finally pushed you to the breaking point.

You aren’t a bad person or a “bad victim” for your justified anger. You don’t have to carry any guilt if the final straw ended in you telling someone how they hurt you.  You aren’t the bad guy for resenting the way you were treated. You aren’t deserving of it because you raised your voice or said harsh words.

You get to be upset. You get to be human.

[jaysntodd]

Fuck abusive and emotionally manipulative friends Fuck them for making you feel like shit for everything you do Fuck them for making it seem like they’re the victim Fuck them for twisting up every single situation so it seems you’re the one to blame And fuck them for using your own weaknesses against you, because you trusted them with all your secrets and worries

[doeofdevotion]

Friendships can be abusive. It took me a long time to realize that a friend can manipulate you, emotionally abuse you, gaslight you, and that the effects of that trauma can last for years after the friendship ends. Abuse also knows no distance; one of the most damaging friendships I ever had had thousands of miles between us. We haven’t spoken in years and I’m only recently discovering the depths to which that friendship has affected me to this day. I didn’t even want to admit the fact that it was abusive in nature even though she’s not in my life anymore because her hold on me is still present, and because I didn’t think friendships could be classified as abusive relationships. But they absolutely can be. Please be careful and take of yourselves and if you think a friend is crossing a line, please reach out.

[sangils-moved]

❗️ remaking, officially. ❗️

okay i 'm remaking this week so like this if u want to stay mutuals.

[sangils-moved]

hiatus

i've had this account since i was in middle school so i'm not sure what i want to do but i'm not really comfortable posting here now. i feel weird. i'm taking a small break until i figure it out. sorry.

[inkxlenses]

Cotton Candy Sky (The Ritz-Carlton, Grand Cayman) | by kevinandamanda

[virgostellium]

jin stans are so easy to please. give them one photo of jin making bedroom eyes or saying some dumb shit and theyre over the moon its such a nice life