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17 | they/them

[nonbinary-culture]

Can we pick up “diamour” for a nonbinary partner again? Because that word was nice and pretty as heck.

It came from “diamoric”, which describes the non-straight, non-same-gender but intrinsically queer nature of relationships involving a nonbinary person (or multiple nonbinary people).

So like, a relationship between a girl and an agender person is diamoric and the agender person is the girl’s diamour!

Or, an androgyne and a genderfluid person dating are diamours!

I just love that word so much!

[prideslime-moved]

space nonbinary

x / x / x | x / x / x | x / x / x

[8-bitstories-deactivated2020062]

[thedarkperidot]

None of your trauma is your fault. ♡

[sparkytheandroid]

when i was a baby i thought big words and oxford commas and kcup coffee machines make u smart. you know what makes you smart? loving ur friends.

[haleyincarnate]

T.B. LaBerge, Unwritten Letters to You

[juansendizon]

Time doesn’t heal you when it’s already summer, and your heart still lives on the love you once had last spring.

Juansen Dizon (via juansendizon)

[sapphicsivan-blog]

I tried to sing in my own version to better use they pronouns but I can't sing and I still know your love for this song so surprise ❤❤ I hope this makes you smile @90schlo

[seedling]

it is actually really sweet when someone stays up late to talk to you

[ohnoregrettio]

Restaurants Safe Foods Masterpost

Food from my master post, this is just so you don’t have to scroll through the whole thing if you didn’t want to on my masterpost

A&W

Applebees

Arbys

Bojangles

Burger King

Bj’s

Carrabas

Cheddars

Chick-Fil-A

Chilis

Chipotle

Chuck E Cheese

Cici’s

Cracker Barrel

Culivers

Dairy Queen/Orange Julius

Denny’s

Dominos

Dunkin Donuts

Fire House Subs

Five Guys

Fuddruckers

Golden Coral

Hard Rock

In and Out Burger

IHOP

Jasons Deli

KFC

Krispy Kreme

Little Caesers

Krystals

Logans Road House

Long Horn Steak House

McAlisters Deli

McDonalds

Movie Theaters

Olive Garden

Outback Steak House

Panda Express

Panera Bread Co.

Papa Johns

Papa Murphys

Pizza Hut

Popeyes

PF Changs

Red Robins (yuUUMMM)

Ruby Tuesday

Sonic

Steak and Shake

Subway

Taco Bell

Texas Road House

Tim Hortons

Waffle House

Wendy’s

White Castle

Zaxbys

[thedaintydiarist-blog]

hello everyone, i’m back with another masterpost! this time it will be focusing on self care and your health, and how to be the best version of yourself. i do not condone eating disorders– this list is simply meant to help you make the best of a bad situation, and stay healthy (as well as offer you some beauty products that are affordable). thanks for supporting my blog! ask me anything or request a post here. enjoy the masterpost! ♥

what vitamins should you be taking?

the healthy weight for your height and age group

bmi calculators [ 1 | 2 | 3 ]

bmr/caloric needs calculator

why you need protein

why you shouldn’t drink diet soda

self care after binging and purging [ 1 | 2 ]

why you should never start purging

benefits of including probiotics in your diet

warning signs to watch out for when fasting

what does it mean when i stop getting my period? [ 1 | 2 ]

medical complications of eating disorders and symptoms [ 1 | 2 | 3 ]

how many calories does it take to gain weight?

physical signs of stress

why you should be drinking tea

low calorie sources of protein

what to do when you feel like purging

free workout videos with calorie counts

PRODUCTS:

wide selections of multivitamins [ 1 | 2 ]

multivitamin for teens

multivitamin for petite women

vitamin for a fast metabolism

calcium supplement

iron supplement

probiotic supplement

melatonin supplement for sleep

fiberone

healthychoice meals

the best apps for health and fitness

hot showers vs cold showers for your hair

hair hacks every girl should know

caring for different types of hair

how to make your hair grow faster [ 1 | 2 ]

caring for long hair

things to know before getting a perm

how an eating disorder damages your hair and how to reverse the damage

why anorexia causes hair loss

PRODUCTS:

keratindose spray to prevent breakage and split ends

repair products for damaged hair

essential oils [ 1 | 2 ]

shea butter conditioning hair repair cream

natural deep conditioner

herbal essences coconut conditioner

moisturizing oil to make your hair grow

showers and your skin

what the different locations of acne mean

how to fix dry skin [ 1 | 2 ]

how to deal with dry skin patches

the different types of skin and how to care for them

your diet and how it relates to your skin

things you can do to prevent acne

how to get rid of acne fast [ 1 | 2 ]

skin care hacks

what to eat for good skin

why drinking water is good for your skin

skin signs in anorexia sufferers

how to prevent acne scars before they form

PRODUCTS:

cetaphil facial cleanser for sensitive skin

vaseline intensive care products

schaf facial cleanser

overnight acne patches

sephora overnight masks collection

garnier cleansing water

blackhead peeling scrub

neutrogena hydro boost

exfoliating mask

simple foaming facial cleanser

blackhead removing nose strips

eucarin daily protection face lotion

steps to get a good night’s sleep [ 1 | 2 ]

how to meditate [ 1 | 2 ]

the skinny girl’s cravings masterlist

keeping your nails looking healthy

chapped lips? no problem

how to hide your dark eye circles with makeup [ 1 | 2 ]

how to achieve beautiful legs

for flawless bare legs

what to expect from eating disorder recovery [ 1 | 2 ]

which type of recovery is right for you? (inpatient, outpatient, partial, or residential)

how to tell your parents you have an eating disorder

what to do if you think you have an eating disorder

causes and cures for insomnia

metabolism boosters [ 1 | 2 ]

the anti-binge checklist

how to overcome a weight loss plateau

PRODUCTS:

softening cuticle oil for brittle nails

hair, skin & nails vitamin

vora fasting app

fabulous app

daylio app

vaseline lip therapy

eyebag repair cream

❤  see my complete post index here  ❤

[blackpink]

Lisa in ‘Stay’, requested by @lmaoban

[the-soul-tribe-deactivated20180]

I know that the world is a horrible place. It hurts to look closely at the way things are. I know you look at people and wonder how they could ever do the things they do. I know that you are perplexed in the face of evil done for no reason other than that it can be done. This world is ugly and broken and you feel so helpless. All you want is to mend it. All you want is to rock all the lost souls to sleep. You wonder how you could ever stretch your love wide enough to wrap around all of the pain. You wonder why people are more bad than good and why the innocent are never fought for. Sometimes you get lost in the endless sea of cries that echo through this existence. I’ll tell you what I have learned. All we can do is keep doing. All we can do is laugh when our hearts feel light. All we can do is keep living in spite of all of the hatred. We only have two hands and one heart but with them we can touch many lives. The good may not outweigh the bad but that’s because the good is lighter, not less. We can only do what we can do but that is enough. We can love all of the strays we can get our two small hands on. We can hurt and bleed for the innocent ones. That is all we can do. It will hurt because you will feel their pain. But it will be worth it. So worth it.

- Chelsea Skye // Things I will tell my daughter #2

[seventeevee]

If you are strong, everything will be OK

[taevilz]

girls in rainbow

[dazzlingkai]

sooyoung’s pretty backview✨

[artemiris]

being nonbinary is so fucking hard

every time you turn on a television, play a video game, open a fanfic, admire someone in public, or listen to music you’re presented with almost exclusively binary representation or demographics 

so you’re forced to choose, even if subconsciously. will you play the male or female character? will you like and relate with the male side character or the female villain? will that female pop singer resonate with you that male blues one? 

when you’re scrolling through instagram wanting to be as pretty as these models you’re subconsciously choosing, ‘do I want to look like these beautiful women or striking men?”

our society is so binary that 99.99% of every person in every thing whether it’s fictional or not not only fits into that binary but idealized stereotypical epitomes of those 2 genders

so maybe youre amab and transfem but every single person you see (that you recognize as deemed attractive in society) on social media or every day life or fiction adheres to extremes of that binary and you have to choose which you relate or aspire to because it is so so easy to forget you can aspire to something you never see 

or maybe youre afab transmasc and have a similar issue. 

or maybe you’re agender or genderfluid or any number of possible identities. the struggles only get more unique and difficult from one identity to the next

because even within the nonbinary community, even within queer spaces, being nb is so so so unique from person to person that it’s almost impossible to ever see yourself in another person. or who you could be, how you could express. how you could feel. 

afab androgynous and beard feminine seem to be the only two kinds of expression in the community you ever even see in number or shared by others and god knows that still pales in comparison to the binary majority  

we are all somewhere and want to be somewhere else, we all aspire to an idealized form of our potential self expression, but when you don’t see what you could be within your own community and only see men and women everywhere else it’s so hard. 

it gets so easy to feel like you have to make a choice that’s not right for you, and it’s hard to aspire to something you’ve never seen and can scarcely imagine