A subject I take teaches me to look at things from other perspectives and tells me that there is justification to all opinions and arguments. So right, while I may be tweeting "EverLasting Friends? More like Extremely Ludicrous Fanatics who expect their idols to expose everything about themselves & never get married" I'll now try to understand those who are really upset and see if I can put things into perspective for them.
Back when I was 12 years old, I was as crazy as you guys. I had that kind of love towards my bias too. I dreamt of marrying him, planning my life such that I can one day go to Korea and meet him. I didn't want him to be with anyone else, or I'll get mad. I thought he was perfect for me, and I for him, and we were made for each other.
But then think about it again. Doesn't it just sound utterly stupid, or if not, maybe unrealistic will do? Granted, there is 0.(insert infinite number of 0)1% chance of it happening. After all, I can't say that it's absolute zero. But really, are you going to spend your whole life and money and time on fighting for that chance? Is it worth it? Don't you have other goals in life? Not to mention there are thousands of other people who are working towards that same goal as you, and in this case there is only one idol.
And even if, though really unlikely, one day it really happens, you get together with your idol. Yay, you get the guy of your dreams. Do you honestly think that you will end up happy? To tell you bluntly, you barely know your idols. You don't know what kind of person they are in real life. You may think you do but you really don't. There is always a private life about idols they don't reveal. That is why it is also plain ridiculous to expect them to expose everything about themselves. Just take yourself as an example. Do you yourself want the whole world to know EVERYTHING about you? And don't forget their idol duty - perhaps only 3 hours they can spend with you each day, they can't reveal your relationship to the public (or you'll get bashed by others like you) and they may have filming with other actresses which involves intimate relationships. Dating an idol is really not as all rosy as you think.
Now to those who just want to keep the idols to themselves and don't want them to get married. I appeal to you to think again. Do you really love your idols? You claim you do, but why do you not want to see them happy? Do you wish to see them grow old all alone and single instead? I honestly am very very worried of this I just wish they can get married soon because it is high time. Worse, you ask them to get out of the group just because of their marriage. sigh, whatever happened to OT13? so he no longer deserves to be part of the group just because he's married? May I ask then why did you respond to Shindong differently last time?
I know it's hard to accept. I know it hurts. But how much longer do you want to live in delusion? They are going to get married sooner or later (I hope). Even if it's going to be with you, then this is addressed to the other 999 who's going to be heartbroken then. If you love him, let him go and be happy. It's okay to be sad, but don't go around bashing him or her. We are his EverLasting Friends right? We love him no matter what, till forever. If he finally finds happiness, we should be happy for him. So yeah, go ahead wipe those tears and blow your nose, but stop there and after that wish him happiness.