hhhh girls

18+ | f - 26 - asian | gay vent sideblog

[boyztouch]

it’s so, so cute when someone is clearly horny but is too shy to say anything about it… sweetheart, you’re not as subtle as you think. i’ll give you what you want in no time at all if you’ll just speak up about it

[ottostoast]

wdyk abt strattland yuri

[fufatronic]

femme who dolls herself up just so her butch can make a mess out of her

[xhoney-dippedx]

hmm... sleepy butch... butch who loves 2 nap... butch who gets excited every time i say im tired bc now he gets to nap w me... butch who scrambles to change into his pjs as soon as i mention laying down... butch who loves to spend as much time snuggled in bed as i do... pspsps sleepy butches

[bew-ari]

Fem Caleb x Fem Valko!?!?!

Also Fem valko with a wolf cut I mean c'mon I just had to LOL

[bloodclotbitch]

[still-trying-to-be-horny]

Ugh, I should be rubbing her clit and telling her to "speak up~" but no, apparently it's more important that I remain anti-social and isolated.

[spiribia]

i want to know who on the pokemon team was like let's put a KINKY LESBIAN COUPLE IN THE MAJOR CAST and the rest of the team were probably like whoa calm down stop shouting

[angelbabymikaa]

sorry i love sluts. i thought we all loved sluts. i thought this was the slut-loving website. my bad i guess

[spiribia]

there's a new side mission in the pokemon DLC where a trainer who has been getting stronger in the meantime to try to defeat lebanne asks you to help locate her and when you bring her to lebanne she's like ...Why are you in a maid outfit? and lebanne's like IT DOESN'T MATTER

[spiribia]

I'M BANANAS

[spiribia]

Try Tinder?

[nikoco11]

first impression

[nikoco11]

maiden in need of rescue!!! what a horrible terrifying dragon!!!!

[faroenyx]

hey so just a quick reminder to all the subs out there:

youre there to please your dom just as much as theyre there to please you. and not in the sense of “oh of course i wanna please them. im here to serve” or whatever

like

check in on their needs

make sure youre on the same page. go out of your way to make sure they’re getting what they want out of things too. ive seen so many doms just kind of resign themselves to pleasing pushy subs who only want to satisfy their doms in the most superficial of ways. folks in top-coded roles are still human

doms deserve to feel loved and secure and safe

sadists deserve to get support and reassurance

everyone deserves aftercare

being dominant can be every bit as draining as being dominated. and doms often find themselves much more easily boxed in positions where they are expected to just capitulate rather than collaborate because “theyre the one with the power”.

doms are people with needs, even if those needs are colored with a veneer of control. it is your job as their sub to make sure those needs are being met too.

anyways, thanks for hearing me out on this one. everyone go kiss your closest dom and let them know how lovely they are and how proud you are of them.

(oh also quick bonus request. dont box someone into topping or domming for you just because theyre big or string or hung or whatever. that shits lame)

[faroenyx]

oh also quick addition while im at it. theres definitely this unspoken tradeoff in the top-coded (top, dom, pred, etc.) versus bottom-coded (bottom, sub, prey, etc.) dichotomy that is so incredibly pervasive and insidiously problematic. on both ends. and its all based on the assumption that doms and subs are internally what their roles imply they are.

in being seen as lacking autonomy, sub-coded folks are described as pure, innocent, sweet and good. but in return, they are infantilized and demeaned. think about all the times youve heard someone pejoratively refer to someone as a bottom. youve almost certainly done it yourself. its such a common teasing insult and thats so weird.

meanwhile tops are seen as competent and strong, as their roles would imply. but in return, doms are cast as aggressors. as evil. as manipulative and nasty.

these are all awful things to immediately ascribe to someone who is trying to get pleasure from sex, the same as everyone else. some of the sweetest, kindest, most caring people i know are dominant sadists. some of the most competent people i know are pillow princesses. it feels so vile and reductive to just distill people based on what they do in bed.

[faroenyx]

oh and one more thing while we're on the topic of typecasting based on sexual preferences, a quick reminder that

your kinks are not a reflection of your morality or your fundamental goodness

this is a huge part of the reason that doms seem to get all those icky adjectives. the fact that doms want to express their sexual desires through things like inflicting pain or cnc does not make them dangerous. it does not make them rapists. i have seen way too many people kinkshame specifically the dominant aspect of a kink, especially in BDSM.

i hate to break it to folks, but sex isnt real life. it is controlled, discussed and planned. there are agreements and there is trust built. a large part of being a dom is making sure that you arent going too far. that you arent *really* hurting anyone. everything is consensual. that everyone still feels safe and cared (which can be really draining, especially as things get really intense).

ive seen a ton of folks exclusively shame the dom aspects of kinks. like i dont know why it needs to be spelled out, but for every sub who wants to be hurt, that only works if theres a dom on the other end. subs cant do cnc on themselves. none of it functions without both parties present. sex and kink are team sports and im tired of doms being the only ones seen as depraved for expressions that go both ways.

alright thats it for real this time. go ahead and kiss your closest dom again. give em a big ol squeeze and tell em something nice for me.

[devilmaycry3dantesawakening]

that one bit of art nomura drew of aya with a gun and her boobs out covered by a cool jacket is maybe the effortlessly hottest thing that's ever come out of the entirety of square enix's lineage.

[devilmaycry3dantesawakening]

images that give me a heart attack

[devilmaycry3dantesawakening]

these ones where she's almost showing pits are good too. like christ nomura how did you draw something so dyke-y.

[uneclipsing]

look at Diane Morgan as a knight right now. Look

[chokeonyoursorrow]

butch tits to bless ur feed

[mewnbuns]

arguing with your knight and deciding to be petty and say “shouldn’t you be addressing me from your knees only” except watching him drop down to do exactly that makes you feel like you just immediately lost ….