Unintentional Talk

The concept of "Unintentional Talk" is to share my thoughts, opinions and feelings on every day controversial issues that plague majority of us or others around us on a daily basis. Nothing is off limits here! I promise you will not always like what I have to say but You will feel something when you leave me and that’s the point! I hope you ENJOY because I am a sassy mouthed girl from New York City, so I'm going to say it anyway xO Follow us on Instagram @Sassymouthblog

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LOVE YOURSELF FIRST❣️ Happy Valentine’s Day to all, May your day be filled with love and light from within❤️🌷🌼 #shareyourlight #spreadyourlove #grow #love #feelers #healers #empath #sassysays #sassymouth #noteveryonewillunderstandyoursoul #enlightenment #awakening #compassion #lovethyself https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt3jWuQFsTi/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1rqrc2duzzd2g

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Grow, get to know yourself, your needs, your desires, your triggers, and be better for understanding, look within it’s the only place you will find growth 💭 #grow #love #shareyourlight #spreadyourlove #empath #lovethyself #compassion #empathy #healers #feelers #sassysays #sassymouth #enlightenment https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt3kCy8F_XF/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=ss79sgpos5t4

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Aspire to be a better person than yesterday this is your only responsibility, not to change others, or heal others but to love heal grow and learn for yourself ❤️💫 #grow #love #shareyourlight #spreadyourlove #enlightenment #awakening #sassysays #sassymouth https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt36OIgFqg3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=a8215ejquann

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New blog posted ! Early 🥰🥰 Check it out ! Link in bio👍🏼 “Judgmental Folks” We must be responsible for our own judgmental tendencies in order to stop allowing the spread of such closed unconscious mindsets in the world, be the change you wish to see in the world by first understanding, secondly accepting it, and finally evolving👌🏼 #enlightenment #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #boundaries #sassysays #sassymouth #judgementalpeople #awakening #donttakeitpersonal #compassion #empath #sensitive #healers #feelers #spreadyourlove #shareyourlight #love #grow https://www.instagram.com/p/BtxGaOnFjJe/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=hral8gf2eb8n

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Kissed by the universe🥰💭 #enlightenment #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sensitivechild #childofthestars #feelersoftheworld #embraceyourtruenature #blessed #sassysays #sassymouth #enlightenment #awakening https://www.instagram.com/p/Btv6ERAF78j/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=12ypv05tdfmgn

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Stop worrying, quiet your mind and Pay attention to what energy you feel, the answers are within you, everything you need is within you💭⭐️✨💫 #sassymouth #sassysays #spreadyourlove #spreadyourlight #awakening #enlightenment #starchild #empath https://www.instagram.com/p/Btlm8t4FRRP/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1swweqpdn28go

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💭💭☝️ #growing #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sharethelove #healing #empath #enlightenment #awakening #spreadyourlight #spreadyourlove #sassysays #sassymouth https://www.instagram.com/p/BthiIVgl_7x/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=adtoo5mb2i5t

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TOXIC PEOPLE

Toxic people are all around us. They could be family, friends or complete strangers, Acquaintances that we interact with on a daily basis . The definition of a toxic person is someone who negativity affects you physically, emotionally, and or mentally. They can negativity affect you by criticizing you, verbal, mental or emotional abuse, spreading their own negativity, wasting your time and energy, are jealous, and manipulative, play the victim, self centered, and make you feel crazy for not accepting this behavior around you. ALOT of toxic people love the phrase "This is my personality, deal with it." You never have to deal with it. In simpler terms a toxic person can be anyone who continues to affect you in a way that Disturbs your inner peace and causes you pain suffering and conflict. Now there are multiple ways to deal with a toxic person, and this depends on who the person actually is to you. If for example if this is a stranger or an acquaintance that you do not have to deal with on a  regular basis you have every right to stay away from these people and not interact with them at all. If they cross your path, you avoid at all cost. You do not have to feel the obligation to interact with them at all in any way shape or form. If this is a friend or a friend of a friend you have every right and ability to cut them out of your life, and provide distance for yourself. However things start getting a little more complicated lets say if this is a parent, sibling or family member of your own or your significant others. This is important because you have every right and depending on the degree of toxicity you could close the door on this person and keep it moving, but more often than not it is not that simple. The toxicity could be their personality or perception of the world, which is still poisoning, however it does not come from a place of malice or it does but they are so delusional, mentally and emotionally out of touch with other people, lack of empathy for others as well as compassion that whatever the situation may be is hurting you directly. In these types of situation is very important to create and stick to boundaries with these people. Do not engage in their toxic behavior, remove yourself from the person or situation or environment whenever you feel the need too for YOUR own well being. Do not believe it is your responsibility to tolerate this kind of behavior or environment just because society tells you you have to or your conditioning has tried to manipulate you into taking care of others before your own well being. You are allow to walk away and terminate any relationship with anyone you feel does not benefit your greater good, including your own family. This is not an excuse to use when you just do not agree with someone close to you, this is only okay if the lose of this person in your life enhances your happiness, and blessings. Cutting contact with toxic people is not something you should take lightly or do in a lightly manner, but if it is warranted it will transform your life. Especially when it is a close friend or family member, it will feel miserable, almost disloyal to the person. Pause in that moment and ask yourself what about the loyalty you have to your own well being. As time goes on you come to realize you are developing a self respect for yourself and your boundaries. You are learning that true relationships do not require this level of stress and energy to survive. If someone is of your highest good, the relationship will be light, free flowing, happy, enjoyable and peaceful. You begin attracting more people of this vibration because that is what you are now allowing within and around you. you have cut out the toxic vibration of people who have only been operating on this lower frequency. This is freedom. Freedom to allow your spirit to grow thrive, learn and evolve. We attract what we tolerate. If you are unable to remove yourself from a situation lets say you are at a family event with your toxic influence and you are in a social situation or you feel they are personally being targeted to engage in toxic behavior with this person. The best way to deal with this person is to not deal with them at all. Do not react, do not get emotional do not put any of your precious energy within this person or dealing with this person. Quiet your mind, concentrate on your breathing and stay centered. Toxic people can only affect us if we allow them to inherent our personal inner space. Removing toxic relationships from our lives is a very personal event. It does not need to be explained to others, and it does not need to be advertised. In some situations it is necessary to tell a person " I cannot allow you to be present in my life any longer, what we have has come to an end, I wish you no harm, but you are just not the type of person I want in my life or around me" and that is okay. In more personal relationships it is necessary for you to speak your truth, let them know exactly where you stand and where you have drawn the boundaries.In other situations no words are necessary. Please make sure your silence is not enabling. In some situations we ignore but still allow the persons behavior to affect us in a way that disturbs our peace and way of life. This is something we have to do for ourselves by ourselves in whatever way necessary. The goal is to have and remain peaceful internally. You begin to slowly learn that some people are no good for you no matter how much you love and care about them. You do not have to let hate grow for them, or hold grudges for their behavior or situations, the best thing to do for yourself is to let it all go, including them and move on for yourself with yourself. "You can love them, forgive them, want good things for them but still move on without them" - Mandy Hale. Only you can evaluate the situation, or person you are being exposed to and deem them as toxic. Only you can create the serenity you seek by removing or distancing yourself from these toxic beings. Only you have the power to create and sustain your own inner peace. This is not an easy task by any means, but it is a necessary one to be on the right path of being respectful to what your soul needs and does not need moving forward. The wonderful blessing of practicing this for yourself is eventually you will attract so much of the right supporting loving amazing people who will help you on this journey, that you will feel the immense gain instead of the guilt of loss and uncertainty you once did.

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New blog y’all ! Toxic people ☠️☠️☠️ One of my favorites, enjoy!! #growing #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #boundaries #sharethelove #sassysays #sassymouth #toxicpeople #letgo #moveforward #enlightenment #awakening #empath #spreadyoulight #spreadyourlove #sharethelove https://www.instagram.com/p/BtgTcYtllWW/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=k55vjljc1lgp

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“The Inability to Connect”

Let’s talk about this generations inability to connect with one another without the use of social media or a technology platform. Sure we can blame the millennial, or the liberals or Silicon Valley, but let’s just for a minute look at our own personal situations and take a little bit of the responsibility ourselves. Children are taught by show and tell from their parents. So the adults of the world continue this cycle of raising children who are so tech savvy, they don’t know how to do anything that doesn’t involve technology. I remember when I was in school if I wanted to know something I had to use the encyclopedia, my delete button was the back end of my pencil, and we didn’t have white boards in school or tablets. We had computers from the dinosaur era and we got one hour a week of computer time in school. This generational wave of tech savvy’s will never know the struggle of dial up internet. Now do not get me wrong technology has improved our society tremendously, It has made great strides in medicine, education, globalization, and research. It saves us time, money, and convenience. However the internet and technology have gone from specified modern convenience to necessities like air is for breathing to most of us. We cannot go anywhere without our phones or tablets, we cant go an hour without looking at our phones or going online, checking social media, writing a social media post its become increasingly difficult to stay present in reality. The cons include obsessive compulsion, which cause health issues like stress anxiety and depression, as well as physical issues such as neck and back pain from use of actual devices. Technology has now made it a priority to one up each other, or to envy what others have or really show off, because lets be serious majority of us are flashing our new cars, money, lifestyle and status all over social media. This huge gap of social interaction with each other is leading to less empathetic, compassionate and kind characters. This form of anti socialism is also causing difficulty with criticism, critical thinking and problem solving. Which is why we are now encountering a generation that are offended by absolutely everything. Teachers cannot discipline students, parents cannot discipline their children, you may not dare share an opinion different than the opinion at hand. Social media and technology has made a generation of "know it all's", with the world of knowledge and world of opinions at their finger tips. The younger generation is incapable of solving a conflict between each other without blasting it on social media, without texting each other unkind words, there is no more thinking before speaking because there really is no such thing as speaking, real conversation. It is such an involuntary thing to send a text, no emotion or thoughts needed. They mentally have not developed the necessary brain connections in order to see a solution without the help (or harm depending on your opinion) of technology. Social media as well as technology has also created a society of zombies, that is right, you can stop waiting for the zombie apocalypse, its here! I remember growing up my father taught me, "when you look or talk to someone you look them in the eyes, you want them to feel present with you, you want them to know they have your undivided attention." This is a thing of the past, nobody makes eye contact anymore, there is no bigger thought process of conversation beside what is at their finger tips, nobody can spell without auto correct, do mental math without a calculator, or tell time unless its digital. I just want to back up a little and talk about what to me is the most damning side effect of technology, being present. Which majority of us are not mindful, we weren't prior to technology and technology has definitely made it more challenging to be present in every moment of your life because we are constantly worrying about being better, richer, smarter, fitter, etc. in the future. We have this drive to constantly upgrade our lives to compete with everyone else on our news feeds. If we are not rushing through our current present moment to get to the next future highlight, we are buried in the past, worrying and depressed about things we may have missed out on, not been able to obtain, regrets piled on top of regrets. As a society we have to stop this worrying and anticipations by practicing to be more present and mindful in the current- moment to moment. I truly believe that starts with putting down the technology and stepping into the current moment, eyes open, focused on the present, do not allow your mind to wander, just enjoy the view, walk slower, sit quietly, close your eyes and breathe in smell your surroundings, touch the surfaces around you, look at the people around you, stop obsessing about the outside world at your finger tips and just try to BE for a moment. Its harder than it sounds right? AND now comes the "life is so busy who has the time for that?" YOU do, every single one of us have the ability to shut down and shut out and just be in the moment, it takes effort to unplug in this current world. Realistically we are all guilty of this behavior, we are so programmed by the world we live in, its just an easy thing to accept, second nature but to make the effort is harder I know trust me, its also more rewarding I promise you. We have become a society of unhappy people consumed by materialism and socialism. We pray for future happiness, peace and abundance, we wait and wait for the next wave of peace and joy but in reality if you just put down the technology, step away from the social media, the binge watching of the latest Netflix original and enjoyed the world around you in this very moment you would realize how truly blessed you are, for there is happiness, peace and abundance with you right now. Happiness is not something you search for and find in the future or the past; it is something you can find in this moment, in every moment everyday.

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Being a Kind sensitive soul in this world, is strength, it’s easier to be cold and disconnected💭💭 #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sharethelove #bloggerlife #sassysays #sassymouth #strong #inawe #enlightenment #empath #healing #spreadyourlove #spreadyourlight https://www.instagram.com/p/BtWAw50lHRF/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=rma964wzn13l

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Love thisssss❤️❤️❤️❤️ @loveandlightpage #repost #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sharethelove #bloggerlife #sassysays #sassymouth #fuckyoutothesystem #besensitive #bewild #befree #donotconform #dontbeasheep #bahbah #empath #enlightenment #awakening https://www.instagram.com/p/BtUAPn3FRSH/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=17b57bkphq01j

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Own it 💪🏼 LOVE all you are❤️ #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sharethelove #bloggerlife #sassysays #spreadyourlove #empath #enlightenment #sassymouth #blogaway #blog #loveallyouare https://www.instagram.com/p/BtTYZ0kFaPV/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1xej0tjfiur3c

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Just breathe; and keep going, you are doing great! 🥰 #spreadyourlove #shareyourlight #spirtualawakening #mindfulness #enlightement #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sassysays #sassymouth #breathe #keepgoing https://www.instagram.com/p/BtRkmaolBFn/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=lluletprlspq

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So true; we often find ourselves struggling to do the opposite; be conscious of your mind, thoughts, and emotions, once you are the master of your mind, your being is free to be it’s true nature🌱🌿💫 #likeforlikes #followforfollowback #sharethelove #bloggerlife #sassysays #sassymouth #light #masterofyourmind #enlightement #mindfulness #spirtualawakening #shareyourlight #spreadyourlove

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12 Little Known Laws Of Karma That Will Change Your Life

What is Karma? Karma is the Sanskrit word for action. It is equivalent to Newton’s law of ‘every action must have a reaction’. When we think, speak or act we initiate a force that will react accordingly. This returning force maybe modified, changed or suspended, but most people will not be able eradicate it.

This law of cause and effect is not punishment, but is wholly for the sake of education or learning.

A person may not escape the consequences of his actions, but he will suffer only if he himself has made the conditions ripe for his suffering. Ignorance of the law is no excuse whether the laws are man-made or universal. To stop being afraid and to start being empowered in the worlds of karma and reincarnation, here is what you need to know about karmic laws.

1. THE GREAT LAW

– “As you sow, so shall you reap”. This is also known as the “Law of Cause and Effect”. – Whatever we put out in the Universe is what comes back to us. – If what we want is Happiness, Peace, Love, Friendship… Then we should BE Happy, Peaceful, Loving and a True Friend.

2. THE LAW OF CREATION

– Life doesn’t just HAPPEN, it requires our participation. – We are one with the Universe, both inside and out. – Whatever surrounds us gives us clues to our inner state. – BE yourself, and surround yourself with what you want to have present in your Life.

3. THE LAW OF HUMILITY

– What you refuse to accept, will continue for you. – If what we see is an enemy, or someone with a character trait that we find to be negative, then we ourselves are not focused on a higher level of existence.

4. THE LAW OF GROWTH

– “Wherever you go, there you are”. – For us to GROW in Spirit, it is we who must change – and not the people, places or things around us. – The only given we have in our lives is OURSELVES and that is the only factor we have control over. – When we change who and what we are within our heart our life follows suit and changes too.

5. THE LAW OF RESPONSIBILITY

– Whenever there is something wrong in my life, there is something wrong in me. – We mirror what surrounds us – and what surrounds us mirrors us; this is a Universal Truth. – We must take responsibility what is in our life.

6.THE LAW OF CONNECTION

– Even if something we do seems inconsequential, it is very important that it gets done as everything in the Universe is connected. – Each step leads to the next step, and so forth and so on. – Someone must do the initial work to get a job done. – Neither the first step nor the last are of greater significance, – As they were both needed to accomplish the task. – Past-Present-Future they are all connected…

7. THE LAW OF FOCUS

– You can not think of two things at the same time. – When our focus is on Spiritual Values, it is impossible for us to have lower thoughts such as greed or anger.

8. THE LAW OF GIVING AND HOSPITALITY

– If you believe something to be true,then sometime in your life you will be called upon to demonstrate that particular truth. – Here is where we put what we CLAIM that we have learned, into actual

9. PRACTICE. THE LAW OF HERE AND NOW

– Looking backward to examine what was, prevents us from being totally in the HERE AND NOW. – Old thoughts, old patterns of behavior, old dreams… – Prevent us from having new ones.

10. THE LAW OF CHANGE

– History repeats itself until we learn the lessons that we need to change our path.

11. THE LAW OF PATIENCE AND REWARD

– All Rewards require initial toil. – Rewards of lasting value require patient and persistent toil. – True joy follows doing what we’re suppose to be doing, and waiting for the reward to come in on its own time.

12. THE LAW OF SIGNIFICANCE AND INSPIRATION

– You get back from something whatever YOU have put into it. – The true value of something is a direct result of the energy and intent that is put into it. – Every personal contribution is also a contribution to the Whole. – Lack luster contributions have no impact on the Whole, nor do they work to diminish it. – Loving contributions bring life to, and inspire, the Whole.