Aspiring sugar baby and escort ;)

[gayjimothy]

a scientist and an icon

[starcrossedcherik]

But how can you leave out the line where our girl says “You didnt really think I was in love with you?”

Shit was iconic

[gayjimothy]

here you go:

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[yesatlbrownsugar]

Delicious

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Tips on manipulating men ?

You might not like my answer; but read. Read MULTIPLE works. The goal of manipulation is to change people’s perception of you. 

I feel like everyone recommends Ho Tactics and it seems to have been effective. I couldn’t make it past the first chapter though, so I never read it. The works of Robert Greene have great strategy (The Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Power, 33 Strategies of War) and are a gateway. 

My advice would be to look into Philosophy, Psychology & Sociology which make up Social Engineering (strategy, deception, etc.). To get the ball rolling, here are some works that I recommend in no particular order:

The Prince – Niccolò Machiavelli

The Art of War – Sun Tzu

Hagakure – Yamamoto Tsunetomo

Strategy - B.H. Liddell Hart

On War - Carl von Clauswitz

Influence: Science and Practice (The Psychology of Persuasion) – Robert Cialdini

How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie

Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking – Chris Hadnagy

Covert Persuasion: Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game – Kevin Hogan & James Speakman

Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again – David J. Lieberman

Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World - Jack Weatherford

The Art of Worldly Wisdom - Baltasar Gracián y Morales

It’s Not All About Me: The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone – Robin Dreeke

What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People – Joe Navarro

Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage – Paul Ekman

A very important thing before you even get into manipulation is learning how to control yourself and understanding why you think and act the way you do. Here’s some recommendations:

Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind – Al Ries & Jack Trout

Thinking, Fast and Slow –  Daniel Kahneman

Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely

The Social Animal – David Brooks

The Laws of Human Nature – Robert Greene

Philosophy also plays a major role. I quite enjoy the works, and apply some of the philosophical outlooks of Thucydides, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Zeno of Citium. 

I don’t know if you were more referring to physical presentation, or body language, etc. for manipulation, but this is pretty solid. You don’t have to read everything, but be sure to read something. 

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[yo-daddys-my-bitch]

May the 10 of Pentacles bless your account with more money than you can spend. 💵✨

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

10 of Pentz came thruuu

[violaslayvis]

Omg this actually works!!! Thank you 10 of Pentacles!!!

[borkdork]

I could seriously use this money right now….

[ashashi-corner]

Please give me my refund of 400$ soon…

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

I feel obligated to reblog this every time it shows up in my dash

[hermes-is-my-homeboy]

No bragging, just 100% floored and grateful. Work hard, maintain a positive attitude, and believe that anything can happen.

[mchashimi]

So I reblogged this exactly a week ago because I thought it was funny and uh lo and behold, a family friend wrote me a big ol’ check just to help me out of a tough financial spot AND my bank refunded me $32 for fees they’d originally taken out. SO UH YEAH. Reblogging this again in hopes that it brings equally good fortune to my followers.

[penprp]

Sure why not? Jobs bring in money and prosperity…

[leradny]

I NEED TO FIX MY CAR DOOR

[getlostpeeves]

It fucking WORKED.

[modelinterrupted]

Yessss

[sassypostperfection]

To finally update you😅

I'm sorry I too so long to update, it's been really busy since. So when I left that bar to go to another because it was so dry, I decided I was going to try the exclusive members only bar.

When I got the doors, I was stopped by a bouncer but since I was already tipsy, I flirted with him talking about I just wanted one drink and to see the bar while touching his chest gently.

Then he told me to go wait downstairs, he knows someone who can let me in as a members guest. Two men walk out who barely spoke English and escorted me in.

In the vvip cigar room was some African gent smoking a cigar waiting and now I'm beginning to sober up since I was the only girl in the room. He had a translator and he offered to take me out to a luxury then do what I need to get done and get my paper.

I agreed and we left. We were in Vip and I asked a friend to call so he knew that people knew where I was, with who etc.

The thing is, he is such a gentleman and I know men can play this off well but I enjoyed his presence. We went back to his hotel suite

And ended up spending the rest of the night there with him. In the morning he gave me my coming for the hours spent in the hotel

I liked how he paid me in dollars since our currency exchange rate was $1 =R16. Good news for me.

He ended up asking me to stay for the duration of his which was for the next 3 days.

I'm going to be honest here with all of you, I have never been treated like that before.

Facials, shopping, breakfasts, dinners, being chauffeured in RR. It was all new to me, best feeling ever. I made sure he didn't see that though.

He asked me if we could have a long distance relationship, he can take care of me whereever he is in the world. I said yes, of course🤭🤭

This was honestly beginners luck. I didn't not get any LV's or Chanels or anything like that but I am going to be the spoilt gf.

The week following this weekend, I found an IT and business mogule. He made it clear he is all about sex, no relationships and I told him, I'm all about that paper and no relationships either. We had a good session, got my doug and went straight home. This weekend, I'm not going to freestyle because what's currently happening in my country. I'll do so when it's all safe

[sassypostperfection]

NoLeap of faith, I'm doing it. Wish me luck

Today decided to take a leap of faith, I'm going freestyling, I know I will get people willing to pay to have all of this.

So anyways, the bar I came too cause its always popping with international boo's and monied boo's, is dead all because the bar has a function. I have to go somewhere else now 😭😭.

The bar tender thinks I'm cute, this is my second cosmo and I'm getting tipsy since I havent eaten yet. After this, I'm going to eat then hoe

I'll keep all of you updated on my first night of freestyle escorting. I havent had sex since last year November, I'm horny af😩

This cosmo is so strong, I'm hella tipsy. I'm eyeing this inks man like a nigga don't exist 😂😂. He's on business meeting and I'm distracting him. 🤣🤣 Yaaaasss daddy, look at me🤤☺️

[alwaysbewoke]

RESPECT!

[psychedelicfelon]

Freddie Oversteegen is her name.

[okayysophia]

Saw this on Essence Magazine’s Snapchat and thought it would be helpful💕

[tumblunni]

Yeah seriously, sex education never told me any of this in school. Little me was panicked seeing the dark coloured bits and i had no clue that’s just the normal colour blood goes when its clotted or dried.

[alchemyfarie]

the pink slide is the same as the grey one? so i googled it and it seems pink is usually just anemia, low estrogen, or some other lack of nutrients.

or if its spotting between periods it could be from ovulation, or even caused by implantation (when a fertilized egg attaches to the uterus lining a few days after conception)

[bando--grand-scamyon]

I feel like more people need to see/know this

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[emotionalempowerer-blog]

Please, reblog! IIt’s called self defense. Apart from having here, in the US, one of the highest cases of homicide and rape in the world and high rate of GBV, think about how this could help your mother or sister

[buttalicious602]

Yes indeed#💯💯💯💯💯

[chanelsugababy]

All black sugar baby style guide requested by anonymous.

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

Resources on Manifesting, Dating/Marrying Rich, Etiquette, Finances, and Upgrading Yourself

I’ve been reading like crazy lately, and these are things I think are highly beneficial for the future in these topics. There are PDFs for a lot of the books! I’ve also linked Youtube channels, products to buy if need be, blogs, websites, etc. There are far more resources I have but I don’t wanna share my good secrets lol. This is also enough in one post. I wanna put y’all on. 💞

Keep reading

[rosyhips96-deactivated20200207]

How do you all handle jealousy in the sex industry?

[exxxotic-bitch-deactivated20220]

Let them hoes stay mad 💯👌🏽 focus on the bag 🤑🤑🤑

[smartass-stripper]

Offer your thoughts and prayers and go make your money.

[rosyhips96-deactivated20200207]

Omigod you guys are awesome. Thank you