Devi Rising Tween Girls Yoga (Ages 9-12) at Sat Nam Yoga Chicago Give your Tween Comfort, Self Reliance and Confidence by Rhea Vitalis
My yoga practice began 3 years ago, when my friend dragged my clumsy, uncoordinated self to her favorite yoga studio. While I liked the idea of flexibility, toned arms, and inner peaceâŠmeditation sounded a little bit intimidating and I could never really âfind the time.â
One class inâŠand I was hooked. Time found me. Yoga was physically, mentally, and emotionally challenging, but it was also healing, empowering, and accessible. Every time I crawled onto my mat, yoga met me where I was at. Suddenly I was equipped with a new set of tools to process my human experience.
Just a few months into my regular practice, while looking into the mirror, I realized that my self-image had dramatically shifted. My dialogue with myself, that had once been filled with self-judgment, insecurity, and fear, now had a tone of love, gratitude, and calmness. Slowly, without intending to, I had begun to heal the lingering bits of my disordered view of myself. In that moment, I knew I wanted to teach yoga to girls. What an empowering thing to be able to love yourself, to turn off your mind chatter, to let go of thoughts that donât serve you, to be grateful for your body - to be strong in every sense of the word.
The transition from young girl to teen girl is a dramatic transition. New research is filled with facts and statistics about cognitive development, physical changes, and emotional/social challenges that early adolescents are dealing with. Personally, I remember my own early adolescence as a time of constant self-actualization, deep insecurities, intense emotions, and a focus on the âimaginary audienceâ â the idea that others were judging and evaluating me
as much as I was scrutinizing myself. It was a time where the volume was turned all the way up, and the song was about me.
In addition to the internal upheaval that many young teens experience, there are also a slew of physical changes
that can be awkward, uncomfortable and confusing.
Teens grow an average of 10-11 inches and gain 50-75
Bones grow steadily in both boys and girls until puberty when there is a significant accelerationin growth.
Muscle cells increase in both in size and in number, as well as an increase in the development of the heart and lungs.
The endocrine is on overdrive with growth hormones.
Through all of this, there is an intense desire to just fit in, yet bodies are changing dramatically and in different ways at different paces.
Hips? Awkward.
No hips? Worse.
Breasts? Uncomfortable.
No breast? Mortifying!
Period? Embarrassing.
No Period? Where? When? Why?
While every girl has their own, unique experience, I think that overallâŠthere are a lot of questions, and unclear, subjective answers. Thereâs a desire to be a woman, yet a yearning to hold on to some childhood innocenceâŠA desire to fit in, yet a pull to express and self-reflect. .A general sense of âwhat the heck is going on?â and âam I alone in this?â
To top it all off, cognitively, there are major changes happening in the brain. Since the beginning of time, adults have been asking adolescents âWhat were you thinking?!â Research says that maybe the real question should be âHow were you thinking?â
Around the age of 11 in girls (12 in boys) the brain undergoes a hugely significant wave of development that explains much of the typical behaviors teens are known for (risky behavior, poor planning and reasoning, lack of foresight), and is highly influenced by behavior and environment.
This age group is inherently wired to seek high risk, high reward activities, yet the pre-frontal cortex (the part of the brain that weighs decisions, considers consequences, and controls impulses) is not yet fully developed. Teens, by nature, do not think about the future cost of their present moment high-risk decisions. Yet at the same time, risk taking is a natural, healthy, and potentially rewarding part of life. If we could create environments that allowed teens to take risks in a safe way (like yoga, sports, theater, etc), we could help them to develop traits like courage,
reliance, self-confidence, and curiosity.
In addition to developing parts of the brain, there are also parts of the brain that are being pruned. Imagine a block of clay. During adolescence, the brain starts to chip away at the synapses (connections), creating a more refined sculpture. It also begins to insulate brain pathways that are the most heavily used - making them faster and more stable. This is also a necessary part of cognitive development that can have both positive and negative consequences, depending on behavior and choices.
Teen brains are highly excitable and sensitive to everything in their environment, making them susceptible to drug, alcohol, nicotine, caffeine, and other addictions. Because addiction is essentially a form of learning and the teen brain has a much more robust habit- forming ability, the pathways that are being laid down can absolutely transcend into the adult brain. However, what if we used this hyper habit-forming stage to instill the practice of self-care, stress management, healthy self-expression, and tuning in with the body and mind? What if we nurtured acceptance, patience, healthy body-image, and intuition?
Yoga is a lifelong practice that, if started in adolescence, can create a smoother, healthier, more empowered passage into adulthood. Whether you are 10 or 30 or 50, this practice is a mirror for life. It develops a strong sense of self-awareness and tools to nurture self-acceptance. It teaches us to connect with our roots, yet also how to bend with the curves of life. It cultivates internal courage and love so that we can approach the world from our heart, instead of from our fear. It instills a set of values that transcends your story â your past, your race, your
age, your gender, your religion, your hopes, your fears, your success, your failures, your pride, your shame, your uncertainty, your joys, your sorrows. It meets you in this moment and helps you to discover who you will become and how beautiful you already are.
That is our goal with Devi Rising, a new series at Sat Nam Yoga made specifically for 9-12 year old girls. Over the next 6 weeks, we'll explore the practice of self-care and tune into our mind-body-spirit connection. We'll weave in yoga concepts that can help problem solve through emotional, physical, and developmental changes so that we feel healthy, happy, strong, and empowered. We are so excited to build a loving, safe, dynamic space to explore all of the changes, creativity, individuality, and
exploration that comes with this age all while having loads of fun!
 Sat Nam~Namaste,
 Rhea Vitalis, Tweens Yoga Specialist and Conductor of Fun
Register here:Â http://www.satnamyogachicago.com/kids-yoga/devi-rising-tween-girls-yoga
Dates: Thursdays at 4:00pm, ongoing.
Cost: $20 drop-ins welcome, $108 for 6 Week Series
Location: West Loop 1304 W. Washington Blvd. Chicago
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