I decided to make a little intro post so you can get to know me. I go by M (she/her)!
I've had multiple Tumblr blogs over the years, and I've had this one for a while but I wasn't really active. So now, it's a multi-fandom blog + my hobbies and interests!
Fandoms: One Direction | 5 Seconds of Summer | Sturniolo Triplets | Austin Butler (side note: I reblog fanfic that has smut/nsfw content, but I always add a mature label and tag them under "(name) smut" in case anyone is uncomfortable and doesn't want to read them.)
Youtubers: Azlia Williams | Lexi Vee | Maya Beatriz | Sienna Mirabella | KianAndJc
Hobbies + Other Interests: The Sims 4 | Movies | Shows | Books (#🪐’s library) | Plants | Pets | Football
please DNI if you engage in: hateful ideologies (e.g., racism, sexism, homophobia, etc.), obsessive shipping (e.g, Larry), hate blogs/harassment, or inappropriate content involving minors/family members
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As most of the 1D fandom can relate, Liam's death had me going down memory lane, watching old 1D videos. The band was (and still is) such a major part of my life, and it feels unreal that Liam is no longer with us. I know there's a lot of controversy going around about him; it's okay for us to mourn the memories we've shared while acknowledging that he's hurt people and also needed help himself.
I never really left the 1D or 5SOS fandoms, I just wasn't keeping up with everyone after like 2018. Honestly, Liam's death really fucked with me. It was extremely unexpected and so heartbreaking. It made me realized that I miss being active in the fandoms. I've been looking at posts from the past few years and it feels like I missed sooo much omg. So now i'm trying to catch up, so I'll be using this blog to do so (if you got this far ily)
I'm a really big advocate for mental health. I've gone through the trials and tribulations time and time again, so I know what it feels like to hit rock bottom. This blog is a safe space for anyone who wants to chat or talk about anything. Please remember to always put your mental health first, no matter what.
Feel free to stop by, send me asks, or anything you like. If you'd like to know more about me feel free to ask!
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I want to leave a little memorial here for Liam as well since part of the reason I decided to be more active with this blog is because of him.
Why did I just go into one of my households in the sims to find that my two male sims (who are roommates…) are flirting with each other…MIND YOU!! one of them is dating the girl across the hall
♡ Jaafar never lets you pay. It doesn't matter what it is: coffee, dinner, movie tickets, random snacks you grabbed while walking around. The second you reach for your purse, he's already paid for it. At some point, you stop trying because you know you're not winning that argument.
♡ Jaafar is a complete gentleman. Opening doors, pulling out your chair, helping you take off your jacket, walking on the outside of the sidewalk closest to the street. Not because he's trying to impress you, but because that's how he was raised.
♡ He was so nervous before your first date. Scared, nervous, desperate to impress you, he kept changing outfits, overthinking every little detail, and asking for advice from jermajesty that he was probably going to ignore anyway.
♡ Gym dates are very common. Sometimes you're both actually working out. Most of the other times you're spending more time talking and joking rather than exercising.
♡ Food dates are one of his favorites. Trying new restaurants, finding little spots, ordering way too much food for just two people, and stealing off of each other's plates even though you both ordered your own food. (loves to buy different types of pizza each and split it)
♡ Family day dates are a huge thing for him. Whether it's spending time with his family, attending family events like barbecues, or just hanging out together (family movie night), he loves including you in that part of his life.
♡ Movie dates are incredibly romantic with him. You're cuddled up watching something sweet and making commentary through the entire movie.
♡ He knew he wanted to marry you in the middle of your first date. He'll deny how quickly it happened if anybody asks, but years later he can still remember every detail from that night.
♡ He takes anniversaries VERY seriously. One month. Three months. Six months. One year. He remembers all of them.
♡ He loves matching outfits or color coordinating with you. He'll pretend it's an accident, but somehow the two of you always end up looking like a Pinterest board.
♡ He remembers everything. The first thing you ordered together, the first movie you watched, your favorite snacks, random stories you've told him months ago. When you ask him about it the first time, he said, “Everything about you is worth remembering” (oh lord why can't I have him)
♡ His phone is full of photos of you. Not because he wants to post them. He just likes capturing little moments that make him happy so he can look back at them. (I just thought about his ass while writing that line)
♡ His love language is quality time. He doesn't need some huge date every week. Sometimes his favorite dates are the small ones where it's just the two of you relaxing together.
Extras ♡
♡ If you're a Michael fan, he thinks it's so funny. The first time you start talking about Michael with so much excitement, he's trying so hard not to laugh because you're sitting there talking about his uncle.
♡ He smells amazingly good. The type of cologne that stays on hoodies, jackets, and car seats even days later, no matter how many people use it or wear it after him.
♡ He only lets you touch his hair and only you; everybody notices and won't stop teasing him about it, especially his brothers.
♡ Jaafar, who loves having you sit on his lap whenever the two of you are alone. At first, it starts innocently enough. You're playing with his hair while he's scrolling on his phone, your legs in his lap, his arms around your waist. Then he starts pressing kisses against your neck. One. Then another. Then another. Lower than the last. And every single time he feels you pause for a second with your hands still in his hair, he gets this little smile on his face because he knows exactly what he's doin." ♡
