Welcome! Come on in and stay a while. I'm a librarian by day, and a burnt-out former gifted & talented submissive brat with a praise kink and rising dom tendencies by night (but let's be real that's 24/7 too). This is a sideblog for me to explore my sexuality and kinky thoughts--if that gives you the squicks, leave now. Oh, and I'm also an atheist, anarchist, antifascist, anti-racist, intersectional feminist, and queer and trans ally, so definitely leave if any of that bothers you too.
Some rules:
CONSENT & RESPECT ARE MANDATORY. Treat me with the same care and intention that I treat you with and we'll get along just fine.
21+ ONLY. MINORS DNI - IF YOUR AGE IS NOT IN YOUR BIO/PINNED POST I WILL BLOCK YOU. Seriously kids, this is not for your protection it's for mine. Interacting with adults in adult spaces when they've explicitly told you not to is a clear violation of consent and a shitty thing to do.
BE KIND. DON'T BE A DICK. No shame, no degradation, no general assholery. Don't send me unsolicited pictures/vulgar messages or you will be blocked and deleted. See rule 1.
THIS IS NOT A DATING SITE. This is a kink blog but that is NOT a solicitation for you to hit on me. DO NOT send me sexual DMs without my consent. Don't ask me to be your domme/sub, don't share an explicit post (even if it's something I reblogged), don't tell me what you want to do to me. If your first interaction with me is immediately sexual or you send me sexual DMs without my consent, you will be blocked. I am a human being, not your fantasy. See rules 1 and 3.
PUT IN SOME EFFORT. Not really a rule, but if you send me a DM you gotta give me more to work with than "hi/how are you?/have a good weekend?/nice blog" etc. Tell me what made you want to reach out, tell me about yourself, tell me SOMETHING. Connection requires effort--make it! If you just drop one line in my DMs, I won't block you but I probably just won't respond.
If you're interested in getting to know me, please hit me up! I'm open and love meeting new people, especially intelligent and intriguing individuals.
Some tags to help you get around:
#it me - things about me/relatable posts.
#kitten rambles - my posts.
#good boy - dom things. I'm a gentle femdom so if you're looking for affection and nurturing, you're in the right place.
#i'm a good girl i promise - subby things. Bondage, choking, things that make me want to turn my brain off.
#yes please - general kinky things I enjoy.
#yearning - soft and romantic shit.
#it's more the being unknown - trauma and sad girl blogging. Thoughts of a perpetually lonely girl. (Tag is a line from 'Unknown / Nth' by Hozier.)
#pretty things - things I like.
#pretty words - quotes I like.
#cuteness overload - adorable animals. Mostly #kitties.
Have fun and enjoy!















