Unplanned

I made this because I thought I was pregnant. I never knew how relieved I was when I found out I wasn't, but also a little devastated.

[punk-mom-deactivated20201103]

[cocodomme-deactivated20181206]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[amateur]

[vanillascentedthot]

Whoever did this @Apple need a raise😂😂😂😂😂

[scared-and-young]

Post partum depression is no fucking joke.

I wanted to slit my wrists while cutting veggies when E was only 1mo old. No fucking reason, just wanted to. I got help.

Still doesn't mean I don't have bad days. Today's a bad day, get woken up immediately by my mom saying that I ignore my baby and my dog. That I don't do anything. Essentially am a bad mom.

Thing is though, that when mom's at work and I'm here by myself, I get no sleep. Ever. I need a break every now and again but apparently can't get one.

E goes to bed around 5. That's when I go to work. I get off around 10-11pm and get home about 11p-12a depending. I go to bed around 1-2a. E then wakes up at 4:30-5:30a and then will be awake for the rest of the day with 30 min naps scattered throughout.

Mom comes back from work and immediately takes a nap while I struggle to take care of E, cook dinner, and get ready for work. So when mom is off, I expect a little bit of help or a little break during E's waking hours. Nope. I get told I'm ignoring my baby and my dog for sleep.

I really don't know what to say or do anymore. I'm trying my best. My absolute best and I still can't do it well enough.

[hey-you-i-just]

Cinderella’s dress, shoes, and hairband change color with your blog!!

[justsomeghostofme-deactivated20]

This looks perfect on a white background. So pretty to see her dress being silver like it is in the film.

[dontdropthatcinnabon-blog]

Wow cinderella looks good in macaroni. 

[hey-you-i-just]

this is my favorite addition wow A+

[wow-a-url]

my background is black

[cancerously]

i was really excited about seeing this on my own blog and then i remembered my background is light blue :|

[catgirlwerewolf]

SHE LOOKS SO PRETTY IN GRAY

[plynxx]

Oh my god! It works!

[decendedinhell]

You have to reblog then tap/click on the picture to see her dress change color though. It does work!!

[asknewsboydavey-blog]

((Test))

[scared-and-young]

Get over yourself

First off, I subtweet EVERYONE so don't get your panties in a twist if I do it. Secondly, I get that you're "sick" and that you have your boyfriend wrapped around your finger but that's not gonna work on me. Thirdly, why are you gonna get mad at me for your wrong doing when YOU'RE the one at fault. There's a difference between Sunday and Monday and if you are inconsiderate, don't expect me to just leave it alone. I'd expect my roommate to be mad at me if I woke her up before she needed to get up so why is she surprised that I'm mad that she woke me up with her doing laundry.... At 7 this morning.... Bc shes been "sick" all weekend and yet her boyfriend's been here and doing all of her stuff for her. So I don't get it. Am I in the wrong for standing up for myself or am I just being a bitch and should have let this go?

[scared-and-young]

It's 8am

And my roommate had decided that now would be the BEST opportunity to do 4 loads of laundry. What the actual retail fuck.

[animatedtext]

[scared-and-young]

Happy New Year!

So I did a thing yesterday, I got my nipple pierced! So here's to a new year and a new obsession 😂

[scared-and-young]

When you and your roommate sync up periods...

[heartsandwheels]

this is eve. she’s a long hair dachshund and seven years old.

[usbdongle-deactivated20200531]

please be gentle to your pets, they trust you so much and believe that whatever youre doing for them is the best thing. they trust you to be kind and benevolent. small critter or otherwise, you have the trust of this animal, and i implore you to be gentle and decent. don’t betray that trust

[lavendersucculents]

When you guys have visited potential apartments, what kind of questions did you ask besides the basics like what rent and utilities include?

[dynastylnoire]

Here are questions I didn’t ask but should have: what does the basement look like?

What measures are taken to secure the building ?

Are the walls thin? Brief info of who lives in the building. Are they college kids? People that work through the day? Elderly? Is it a mix? Where does the garbage go?

Can I pay rent bi-weekly? What kind of fuses does the apartment use? (My fuse box is in the basement. If I blow a fuse I have to replace it myself. They screw until the box. All of which I didn’t know until it happend and I was sitting in the dark suddenly)

[audreynical2]

Who do I call for repairs? (If it’s a private rental) Am I allowed to paint the walls? Is there any additional storage? Do you do regular pest control?

[shovelandchampagne-deactivated2]

LAUNDRY FACILITIES Definitely ask about security Whether subletting is allowed (esp if you’re in college and might want to sublet for the summer) If you have a car, whether there’s parking/how much it costs What kind of heating/AC there is Procedure/response time for any maintenance How mail/packages are received/protected from theft (seriously people stealing your packages can be a huge problem) What kind of verification of your salary will they want, and in what circumstances will they accept a guarantor instead? Whether the apartment is furnished

Assuming you are in the middle of looking at/choosing between places: When does the lease start? Are you going to give preference to people based on when they can move in? Whether groups of a certain number of people get preference Really anything about who they prioritize for applications, it can save you a lot of trouble in trying to apply to places you’ll never get into

[werewolfau-deactivated20180321]

count the outlets, ask about recycling policies, ask if there’s a noise restriction (nothing loud after midnight, everything goes on the weekend, etc)

[bye9000-deactivated20170123]

What are the upfront fees for moving in? (1 month, brokers, 1 month security fee?)

Is there a credit check fee? (shouldn’t be over $25. shouldn’t even exist really but credit check fees at $125, 150? robbery)

Ask about the intercom system, ask about security cameras, ask about the locks on the front door. One place I looked at, the building was locked, and the broker jimmied the front door open with his business card. If the broker could do it, so could a rapist

Is there a live-in super? (godsends, heroes) If so ask to meet them. A lazy, ignorant, or uncaring super is a nightmare waiting to happen. An active, interested, proud one is excellent, even better if they’re union

How do I pay my rent? (Check, money order?) Can I pay online? (If check/money order mailed in is the only way, make sure to get receipts for sending the rent out every month!! Critical!! Keep your proof of payments made on time every time in case they get on some foul shit. Landlords are out  here to screw you and make money)

When does the lease renew? Can I negotiate a two-year option at a reduced monthly rate? Can I get $50, $100, $200 off the rent? (it doesn’t hurt to ask!!) Does the rent go up significantly after a year, two years? (Places with “introductory rents” or rent deals may do this to you… you may not be able to afford that apt once it goes up to its regular price!)

Is this apt rent-controlled or rent-stabilized? (NYC thing, godsend)

Have there ever been bed bugs in this apartment/in this building? (at least in nyc they are legally obligated to disclose this to you i believe)

What documents do they REALLY NEED for the application? (lots of places will want a former landlord recommendation letter… lots of places will also just let that shit slide if you have most of your packet together)

When is the apt available for moving in? Can I start the move-in process earlier than my lease start date? If so, will prorated rent be added onto my bill or no? (some places will nickel and dime you with that shit)

[gizkasparadise]

not something for asking the realtors, necessarily, but important rights you should be aware of as a tenant:

when and for what reasons are your landlords allowed to enter your home? how much of a notice should they give you before entering?

can the landlord make modifications to your home or apartment without your approval? to what extent?

what are the options and conditions for breaking your lease early if there’s an emergency? (this is ESPECIALLY important for anyone moving to a new state/considerable distance where you are not able to visit the apartment/home before you rent – students get taken advantage of ALL THE TIME with this shit)

if your first or last month at the property is a partial stay (i.e. you move in on july 15th, and rent is typically due on the first) make sure you don’t pay the full first month’s rent before you know the area laws! in many states, you are only legally required to pay for the time you are occupying the property

is renter’s insurance necessary? many apartments want at least 30k coverage, which can run a couple hundred dollars extra per year

are the landlords/property management liable for crimes on the property? for example, if your car was broken into. if not GET RENTER’S INSURANCE

[sizvideos]

A pediatrician shows how to calm a crying baby (Video)

[ladycreep-deactivated20201127]

Babies are weird. I don’t like that they cry a lot. I cry a lot and I can’t have that kind of competition in my life right now.

[kween-geetaaa]

I do this to my son and it works lol

[sharmakeswife-deactivated201809]

Reblog to save a parent

[the-headless-king]

Reblog to save a concerned uncle who has no idea what the hell they are doing. (E.g. Me)

[sizvideos]

Woman Surprise Her Girlfriend With The News She Will Be Her Kidney Donor - Watch the full video

[possessedcreampuff]

OH MY GOD THIS IS LOVE

[haphazardhappenstance-deactivat]

Update:

[tumblagay]

AHHHHHHHHHH YASSSSSS

[northcoast]

roses are red violets are blue pull my hair while I go down on u

[stability]