Cinderella: A Dream is a Wish your Heart Makes ⋆.𐙚 ̊
Cinderella has one of the most notable and classic rags to riches stories. Recently, it came to me that she is the blueprint for successful manifestation. Cinderella herself was not a conscious manifestor. Truthfully, it could be argued that part of her success is attributed to the fact that she was not fully conscious of the mystical processes behind her wish fulfillment. And yet, there is still so much that a conscious manifestor can learn from her story and apply to their own wishes.
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Self Value
⋆.𐙚 ̊ Cinderella is a mistreated servant within her own household. She has every right to hate her step-mother and step-sisters. She also has every right to believe them when they belittle her and make her feel lesser than. And yet, she does not. Deep down, Cinderella knows that she was born a noblewoman. She knows that at her core she is just as deserving to go to the ball as her step-sisters. Despite wearing rags and slaving away on the daily, she doesn't let that determine who she is. She also treats even those who mistreat her with kindness. She does not lash out at others or at the world. She simply holds fast to her dreams and takes her life day by day.
Grounded Presence
⋆.𐙚 ̊ In the face of life's seeming cruelty towards Cinderella, she still found joy in whatever moments and ways she could. She also treated the world with kindness, even when it was not so kind to her. Deep down, she knew that this horrible life could not last. However, she didn't go searching for when and how it would change. She didn't even truly know if it would change. She was fulfilled by her dreams within and believed that with her faith her "rainbow would come shining through". Even in her time of heartache and grief, "if you keep on believing, that dream that you wish will come true". So there was no need for her to change a thing. She granted the wish to herself within and so she need simply live her life day to day, even if it was drastically different from what she desired.
Returning to the Wish Fulfilled
⋆.𐙚 ̊ Cinderella did not have the manifestation wherewithal to know if she was doing SATS or returning to the wish fulfilled. No, she just persisted in the constant belief that, no matter what she did or how she felt, her wish would come true. Once again, Cinderella couldn't really even count on the fact that her life would ever change. Despite that, she wasn't nitpicking at her circumstances and doing every little thing she could to make her dream happen. She didn't run away from her step-mother and step-sisters. She didn't make bargains and think of all the logical solutions and what-ifs and gamble on what her life might be like if she did this, that, or the other thing.
⋆.𐙚 ̊ It's because she felt deep down that she wouldn't need to. She pushed on in spite of her life, maybe even finding some acceptance within it, and always returned to her happy place within herself. She didn't pull up her bootstraps and do all she could to forcibly move the mountain that lay between her and the shining rainbow that would lead her to the castle. She believed the mountain would move itself, or that the rainbow would shine right through it, because she willed it to. And she let it be. "Have faith in your dreams and someday your rainbow will come shining through."
Faith in Your Dreams
⋆.𐙚 ̊ The magical seeds that Cinderella planted within her dreams created a wish that could be stopped by nothing. And that's what she believed, right? "That dream that you wish will come true." "Your rainbow will come smiling through." She willed her attendance to the ball into existence. Even in the most bleak of circumstances, even in hopelessness and grief ("no matter how your heart is grieving"), she kept on believing. And so, the invitation to the ball came. Now, Cinderella saw this opportunity and took it. She made a deal with Lady Tremaine, and by dusk, she was ready to go with her step-sisters.
⋆.𐙚 ̊ Classically, the two sisters tore apart her dress in a jealous rage and they all left without her. Cinderella fell into hopelessness and grief. But, grief could not stop her wish from coming true. In fact, perhaps because Cinderella let herself feel her emotions (and, subconsciously, she had let herself grieve and feel her emotions in the past) she created no resistance for herself. She didn't react to these circumstances by planning around it. Deep down, her dream still existed, but so did her grief simultaneously. She allowed them to co-exist.
⋆.𐙚 ̊ She also had no expectations on how her wish would come to pass. She just believed that no matter what, it would. Therefore, by not limiting her wish and expecting the 3D to look a certain way, the unexpected happened. A literal fairy appeared and she got to that ball, even if garden vegetables and critters would have to take her. Even the impossible was possible, because she didn't put her imagination inside a box. And absolutely nothing could stop her wish from coming to her, in the same way that no circumstance could stop her faith in her dreams.
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Even though "Cinderella" may only be a fairy tale, there's still much that can be learned from stories. I hope that all of you keep on believing, so that the dream that you wish will come true. ❦
Hi.I feel like I’m losing my mind. I keep finding myself stuck here. I can’t give up; it feels like I’m destined to shift. But I’m overwhelmed with deep sadness and exhaustion. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this.
So, I've totally been here before too. In times like this, what I did was take a step back for a moment. In times where it felt like I was anxiously attaching myself to the idea of shifting, I knew it was time to take a small break. I know that's not the best thing to hear but, hear me out. By anxiously attaching to something, it's out of a place of lack, right? In my own life, I was unhappy with my 3D circumstances and so I was using shifting to cope with that. By having this mentality, I was subconsciously thinking that I need ___ to fix me. Basically, I was thinking from a place of "I need this thing that feels out of reach from me because I am unhappy and don't feel fulfilled". Now, that's not to say that it's impossible to shift from a shitty mental state and with a shitty 3D circumstance. But, you absolutely have to continue to think in a way that works with your emotion and not against it or else you'll be kicking yourself in the foot. Using my own experience as an example:
When I was not successfully shifting, it was because I was constantly thinking of shifting to make me feel better. The idea of my DR's was like a coping mechanism and I became consumed with the idea of it rather than actually believing I could be there. See, the difficult thing when you're not happy with your life (@'ing myself here) is that it's very, very easy to use shifting as an escape. Now, let me be clear shifting can be an escape. But, when it becomes more about the idea of it and what that looks like for you rather than being a practical thing that you can take advantage of, it starts to imprint in your subconscious mind that it's something you aren't able to do.
The last thing I want to do is give you any limiting beliefs, and what I'd definitely encourage is for you to really sit with yourself (maybe meditate) on what your idea of shifting looks like. How hard are you trying (you shouldn't be trying that hard)? What has worked the best, what has frustrated you the most? Eliminate all of the habits and methods that feel like they don't click with you. Set a limit to how much you allow yourself to try so that you don't become more frustrated with yourself. Affirm that it's something you can in fact do. Remind yourself that it's real by reading other people's success stories.
I know it can be hard. It sucks to feel like you're working towards something and it isn't happening. But, that's exactly the mindset that could be potentially holding you back. You're trying to get something. You're still looking for 3D validation rather than knowing you can do this. Trust me, I know it can be hard. That's why I had to completely overhaul my own routine after two years of nothing happening.
The biggest thing I had to learn was trust. Deep down, I let the 'failure' and the fear of it conquer me. I let the old programming determine that I wasn't capable of it. It can be very hard to have trust, especially when you're someone like me who has had a past of having their trust broken. But, this process doesn't work without you trusting yourself and the universe.
When you start to depend heavily on shifting, it no longer becomes a thing of mutual trust between you and the universe and it starts to become a thing of hope. There is a difference between hope and trust. When you hope you'll shift, it's not from a place of believing deep down that it will, and in fact has to happen. Try meditating on this maybe and take a small break. Force yourself to do some things to enjoy the current 3D you live in. It's hard, I know, but it helps. I want to emphasize that the 3D is not your enemy. Start trusting that everything around you is meant to be.
Every time you do an attempt and don't shift, affirm that 'this is a part of my journey', 'this is not final', 'everything is still working out for me'. That's the approach you need to work on having towards "failure". It is coming. Let the old program delete. Persist. It's okay to take a step back, your DR isn't going anywhere.
This is the mindset I tried to adopt. Be kind to yourself. If shifting is making you beat yourself up, like I used to, then definitely step back for a minute. You need to remind yourself that it's not this difficult, out of reach thing. You do it every second, you're just expanding the range in which you do it. Start conditioning yourself to believe that before you try again. Ease into it.
I hope this helps in some way, sending you my love and encouragement. You can do this.
I've always struggled with the concept of reality shifting. I had no problem when it came to manifesting in the “confines” of my current reality, but for some reason I could not, for the life of me, apply everything I knew when it came to making that bigger shift. I took breaks, I tried to “change” myself: I tried what felt like everything. And that was the issue.
I feel like there's a big emphasis in the community on not over-consuming or over-complicating shifting, but that often left my mind wondering why? I was supposed to “know” how to do it, “it's natural”, but my ego had disagreements. I think in the shifting community and, in a broader sense the manifestation community, has this constant reiteration of not questioning yourself, and just “letting it happen”. And of course I don't think that's bad advice necessarily. But, for me (and I'm sure others), that was something that never sat well until I learned better. It was creating so much resistance for me that ended up holding me back for longer than necessary.
Do not ignore that whisper of doubt inside of you. No, your doubts do not matter. But, that should not be conflated with ignoring them. You will doubt yourself. Your ego exists simultaneously with your highest self. Something that I did for a long time was thinking that I had to completely eliminate that in order to shift. Not only was I creating more doubts and confusion within myself, but I was imprinting in my subconscious that I had to become something in order to shift.
You can literally be the biggest skeptic on planet earth and if you still persist despite that fact, you can still shift and manifest. Imagine using that energy?
In the LOA community, it's often encouraged to “live in the end”. You're supposed to feel the feelings of having your desire, right? So, that would mean (or at least it did for me when it came to shifting) that I would have to be happy all the time, right? This can be incredibly misleading, I think, and it's funny how I let it be a factor in my own life when it came to shifting despite being a practiced manifestor. Thinking that you have to be happy all the time can be a very toxic mindset to have with yourself. First off, it can lead to a limerence relationship with shifting; conditioning yourself to believe that in order to be happy it requires being in that reality. Especially if, like me, you have a history with depression. I was basically telling myself that “I wasn't good enough to live in this reality unless I felt like ___.". It can also create a negative relationship with other emotions. No emotion is "good" or "bad". All parts of the ego exist to protect you. I have a post on this that I'd really encourage you to read if you struggle with this.
Another issue that came from my approach was, for the longest time, I was focusing on one reality that I wanted to shift to and told myself through constant affirmations and meditation that I was already there, "I've already shifted", etc. And while, YES, I knew that was true in the 4D, I was not able to shift for the entire year I persisted until I finally gave up. Do you know why it didn't work for me?
Because I wasn't able to fully convince myself that was true. And because of that, I wondered what was wrong with me. Surely, the method was fullproof, right? I told myself that it was because of my maladaptive daydreaming that I couldn't, I told myself it was because I wasn't in a good mental state that I couldn't. I started to unintentionally condition myself to think that anytime that I wasn't living in the end, I wasn't going to shift. I forgot the key part of it: letting go. But I couldn't. I had become so insistent on shifting realities and so stubborn in persisting in the way that I was doing it that it was detrimental to me. I didn't realize that I was boxing myself in: that I was telling myself, subconsciously, that I have to think like "THIS" to shift. I was also only limiting myself to the one reality that I was trying to shift to. I was limiting myself.
It was ridiculous, really, that it felt so easy to manifest everything else, but not this one thing. It was no wonder I was never shifting. It was no wonder I was constantly crashing and relapsing on self-destructive habits after having a good stint. I was ignoring my ego. I was telling myself, and living, a constant lie. I was so incredibly hard on myself and was teaching myself to believe that I wasn't good enough because I “couldn't” shift which was a problem for multiple reasons.
It was only when I reached the bottom again that I decided to stop being so hard on myself. I stopped telling myself that I had to do x,y,z. I stopped telling myself that the 3D doesn't matter. I love everyone, but I do take a big problem with telling people to ignore the 3D without expanding upon it. Yes. I could probably find a handful of my own posts where I said the same thing. Let me be clear: no, the 3D does not matter. Because it does not define you. However, do not fucking ignore it. Do not neglect yourself. Stop treating the 3D like it's your mortal enemy.
The 3D is your FRIEND. She is showing you the OLD PROGRAM. Now I want to pause to bring up another issue I had. And that is, putting all the weight on your own shoulders. “Oh, it must be my fault if the 3D isn't shifting”, “I'm not doing it right”, “This isn't working”. Stop, stop, stop.
Something that often led me astray was conflating “the 3D shows your past beliefs” with “time does not exist”. I used to be so confused by that. Okay, if time doesn't exist and everything is just a “state of being”, and if the “3D is showing my past beliefs”, how does that work? It didn't seem to matter for me when manifesting. I could tell myself that things were going on in the background and I could trust the process. But, when it came to shifting, I kept wondering when the 3D would reflect. It was harder to trust the process because it wasn't like there would be a gradual change like with manifesting. I was expecting to just wake up in the reality I was manifesting and it started to grow increasingly frustrating when I didn't and I continued to tell myself that I was in fact there.
Once again, I didn't realize I was boxing myself in. I had an EXPECTATION of what the manifestation was going to look like, while manifesting an open ended result to shifting. I kept manifesting that I was in ___ reality, but my ego was like no you fucking aren't? Basically, I was manifesting reality shifting in a way that didn't make sense for me. And by doing that, I was creating resistance.
And while, yes, manifesting that you have something in the 4D works. It IS how you can manifest with LOA. You DO have it in the 4D. It wasn't working for me when I was expecting a stark visual difference. What I'm trying to say is that, my approach to reality shifting using LOA wasn't working for me in the way that I was doing it.
So I took a step back. I got out my journal and I started thinking back on all that I knew. This is what I want to emphasize and what I think isn't said well enough by many. When we say each shifting journey is personal. WE MEAN IT. It took me way too fucking long of being stubborn with Neville Goddard's teachings and what my OWN idea of manifestation was and applying that to reality shifting before I reanalyzed.
If you are a skeptic, NOTE THAT. If you are depressed, NOTE THAT TOO. If you are telling yourself that you're in a different reality than you currently are and you're a naturally skeptic person (this is a self call out), then NO WONDER IT'S NOT WORKING. I was so stubborn in doing it one way until I had to break it down to basics and say, "Oh yeah there's more than one way to manifest so there's a lot more than one way to shift too." No kidding, right? But sometimes it's easy to forget these basics, even when you have experience.
The whole idea of over-complicating shifting (and manifestation) comes more from how much resistance you're creating for yourself and less what you do. I thought that if I tried to do "shifting attempts" then I would be over-complicating it. When in reality, I was over-complicating shifting by trying to constantly affirm something that I don't think I'd ever believe.
So, what did I do? First off, I decided that from now on I would stop telling myself I was in one reality and just "wait" for it to change. I'm sure that works for some people but it sure as hell wasn't working for me. I decided, instead, that I would meditate for a couple minutes before bed and just think about my desired reality. I would only give myself a little bit of time. By doing this, I would be affirming that it should NOT take more time than that to shift. And that, in that time, whatever I did should be enough. If when I stopped and opened my eyes I was still in my old reality, fine! All that means is that there's still more reprogramming to do. Doesn't mean that I'm doing anything wrong.
I would remind myself this at the time of the attempt and throughout the day. No matter how I felt, I would tell myself that, with enough persistence, the time would come where I WOULD shift just like that. I could also just roll over and shift in my sleep. By designating specific times to shift, I stopped letting it rule my life and beating myself up over it.
I would affirm "I believe I CAN shift", "failure does not faze me". Things like that. I also wanted to keep the "attempts" short, because I didn't want to come out of it with anxiety over not shifting. Was I allowed to be upset? YES. I stopped telling myself what I could or couldn't feel. I didn't need a reason to shift to a particular reality. I also no longer only had to focus on one reality by beginning to shift this way. If I wanted to attempt to shift to a FAME DR one night? Sure! If I wanted to attempt to shift to DCU the next? Great!
I stopped defining the "where" I needed to go and more so focused on the "how", if that makes sense. I told myself that this was about believing I can shift, NOT where I can shift. And so I persisted in this. If I decided to take a couple nights off, fine. It still was allowed to happen randomly when I slept. In fact, another thing I started to convince myself was that dreaming was a form of shifting and I sure as hell knew I could dream every night.
Of course, shifting is different than dreaming. But, I always had very vivid dreams. So, I just reminded myself that they're likely controlled by the same part of the brain and that dreaming is just a very loose, uncontrolled, and unintentional shift. And in a way, I do believe that it is. For me, a logician, I knew that I dreamed, lucid dreamed, and even astral projected once before, so it didn't seem unrealistic that shifting was real and was something I could do.
I was reprogramming my mind by doing something hands-on. By doing something measurable and tangible. Which I felt, with something like this, I needed to do. I'm a skeptic person. I have trust issues. If I created a controlled environment for myself to shift, then it could happen. And it did.
I needed trust in order to shift. I needed trust in order to manifest. My way of achieving those two things ended up being different and that's okay. I manifest a little differently than I reality shift. I stopped forcing myself to think that it all had to work the same way because I was limiting myself by doing that. I get depressed. I have trust issues. And that is okay. I still deserve to experience other realities and I don't have to do jack shit. I could have the worst day of my life and I can still meditate 5 minutes before bed and shift just like that. This is the new story I started to imprint on my subconscious.
Failure doesn't matter because I know that in the 4D this method WORKS and the universe is ALWAYS conspiring in my favor. I affirmed this. I reminded myself of this when I got doubts. My doubts were, and are, valid. All I needed to do was continue to have those attempts. Continue to believe that the 3D WILL update. That there is divine timing and have TRUST in that. To trust IS to surrender. I was finally able to surrender when it came to shifting by doing this method. And sure enough, I eventually did shift.
I hope this helps all of those who are frustrated and at their wit's end. Out of anyone else, you deserve it. You deserve it more than anyone just as you are.
Just hopping on to iterate that the 3D is so unserious y'all so just relax and try to enjoy it. Remind yourself that even the shitty stuff is serving your highest good and that no matter what, the universe is bringing your desire to you and you're set. That's literally it. The universe is ALWAYS conspiring in your favor. It's literally just projecting what you think. That being said, not every bad thing that happens means you must have thought something wrong. I think it's easy with LOA and accepting that you create reality to fall into the mindset that you create the slop too. If something happens that you genuinely didn't expect or seemingly goes against what you claimed, it's STILL working out. Sometimes things need to be cut or lost in order to gain. This may BE the path of least resistance. Just sit back and know this is how things are supposed to unfold. When you come at everything with a passive calmness that's how you know you're doing well. Manifesting should not be stressful!!!
1. a new phone (plus the phone plan being paid for as an unexpected bonus; I only affirmed this one a couple times and then let go of it, and a month later, it was offered to me)
2. BOSE headphones (manifested this one in literally a day)
3. a major argument in my family being resolved (this one took a week? I was very anxious during it but stayed persistent that there was movement despite what I was seeing and, sure enough, it worked out in the exact time frame I wanted it to)
4. an item i left at home during travels appearing in one of my bags (quite easy, saw it in my bags once I checked the second time)
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Just a few practical examples in my own life to motivate ya'll! Happy manifesting ♡♡♡
Once you realize that thinking you failed to shift is a part of your current state of consciousness and can be rewritten as well is hugeeee.
Ya'll need to get into revision more. Everything is present tense. By thinking that something went a certain way in the "past," you're basically affirming it into your current circumstance. If you failed to shift, no, you didn't.
If you continuously manifest from a place of future tense while your past "failures" are in the back of your mind, I'm sure that's going really well for you (not). Remember that feeling is a huge part of LOA. So, if you're constantly feeling like shifting is going to be something you failed at in the back of your mind... I hate to tell you, but that's exactly what's manifesting.
Remember that every single moment is present tense. Every "memory" packed into that moment is a part of the current state you occupy. You can either choose to change those memories as a part of changing your thoughts, or you can operate under the same assumption that you're a failure who can't manifest.
It's been said by me and many others that you're not TRYING to see results without (outside of yourself). Baby, you just spent how long with these thoughts in the back of your mind? You gotta persist a little bit and stop giving up when you don't see the 3D changing. You know damn well that's not how it works. And let me be the first (or, more realistically, the thousandth) to say that this is a vicious cycle of you spending one day changing your mindset, still subconsciously looking for 3D validation, not getting it and counting it as a failure, and repeat, repeat, repeat until it adds up and solidifies.
You can change this, but you gotta stand on business a little more. Does the 3D not fucking matter or does it? And are the negative thoughts about the past 3D experiences you had also not reactions? Hm...
So let's start revising. The past circumstances don't matter just as much as your current ones don't. Let's go into 2025 without limiting our limitless selves. ♡
I think it really starts to click when you realize that the only reason you feel limited in your manifestation capabilities is because you're still living in the assumption that you have human limitations. You are God experiencing human existence. Defining yourself and your capabilities by the human experience around you is giving this:
Remember: You create your bondage and your freedom. Be mindful of the little assumptions you make about things- especially when it comes to manifesting.
i manifested majority of my dream life in 3 months, simply because i stopped worrying. i stopped asking "how" or "when", i stopped wondering if i needed to take extra steps or if i needed to put in work. i stopped worrying about if i was doing the right methods or if the process was happening. i stopped asking and started doing; started affirming daily, reminding myself, stopped wavering, interrupted negative thoughts immediately during occurance and replaced them with positive ones.
i used to have no path in life, i didn't have a job, friends, a relationship, wasn't in school, depressed, struggling with an eating disorder. i was literally living the staple life that most people would absolutely dread.
i switched the entirety of my purpose around simply by telling myself otherwise. i rejected what others told me what my "reality" and replaced it with what i truly wanted. within 3 months, i was socializing more than i had in the last 3 years. i was getting opportunities i used to dream about.
and remember, it only took me 3 months because that's how long i choose for it to take. there were times where i would say "this will come next week" instead of "this will come within 0.00001 seconds". therefore, i got my results by next week instead of instantly. you choose your time period.
Because failure is much more validating. Failure will pat you on the back and say, "maybe next time, hun", it will feed you anticipation and that flutter of trepidation in your chest when you think of success, it will make you feel comfortable in that bog you settled in.
The illusion of productivity keeps you in that mindset and prevents you from facing this fear. It keeps you feeling busy so you don't feel bad about being stagnant. It tells you you're walking in strides while you actually stand still, avoiding the discomfort of fully committing to success. Just like buying a dozen of fancy pens and notebooks instead of writing a book, you busy yourself with useless tasks that keep you from actually applying.
You can shift and manifest with just an intention and without any effort, but some of you are afraid of accepting even that. Just another script for my another DR, just another playlist with dozens of subliminals (do you even listen to them more than twice before creating a new one?), just another small "check" before a big manifestation, just another hour of reading through Tumblr/Pinterest/Reddit/TikTok posts and success stories, just another pile of photographed and screenshotted angel numbers. Are you not tired?
Shifting and manifesting are mundane and trivial to the point of being innate to you. If you have an apple in your hand, do you daydream about it? Do you create playlists named "🐁 🎀 𝐼 𝒽𝒶𝓋𝑒 𝒶𝓃 𝒶𝓅𝓅𝓁𝑒 🎀 🐁"? Do you buy a special knife that you proudly call "my apple knife"? Do you create moodboards for this apple? No, if you want an apple and you have it, you bite it.
You already have and know everything there is to know, and nothing will happen unless you actually start applying. You may know that only intention works, but did you internalize this knowledge? A lot of you throw fancy manifesting lingo while still persisting in the state of lack. Remembering and knowing is not the same as applying. Don't let this mistake keep you on Shiftblr until 2030.
I want you to think of what you're attempting to manifest and what that version of yourself would look like. Walk up to a mirror then reach out and start to touch the mirror. Try to change your hair, your face, by touching the mirror. Oh, is nothing happening? Do you feel dumb?
You look it. Do you not see that this is exactly the reason you haven't manifested yet?
Stop looking in the 3D for change. How can you change your appearance by touching the reflection? You must change yourself in order for your reflection to change, yes? Oh, is it clicking now?
Once you finally let go of the need to see your 3D change (the reflection) then reality will truly shift for you. The only reason you have not shifted yet is because you are likely still doing everything in an attempt to see the 3D change. You're not truly living in the end. Yes, of course you want to physically experience your desire; you want something or else you wouldn't be here in the first place. However, you may be going about it all wrong.
Everything happens within. Go into imagination if you want to experience your desire. Let go of the need to experience it outwardly. I promise you will get more results this way, no matter how hard it may seem given the way we've all been programmed. Every time we go into imagination, we should leave feeling completely at peace and fulfilled. If you still feel a lack, then the transformation has yet to take place within us still.
Imagining should never feel strenuous. Manifesting should never feel like a chore. As soon as you try to get your desire, you've lost the plot. How can you try to get something you already are/have? Why would you try to alter the 3D when that's not how creation works?
Stop looking for methods. Stop looking for answers. Stop looking for movement in the 3D. Go within. Every. Single. Time. You feel triggered? Relax first (please don't go into imagination while you're activated, this is why Neville always used SATS in a very relaxed state). And once relaxed, remind yourself that the 3D is not final and return to living in the end. Ask yourself, what is the difference between what you are and the person that gets what you want? Did you find the answer? Good. Feel it and carry on, content in this moment.
A person who has what they want isn't looking around for it. They aren't fighting the 3D each day they wake up, asking where their desired reality is. I know you'll often hear persistence is key, and I've likely said so too. But, I think the key word here is consistency. Persisting may be misconstrued as ignoring the 3D which could unintentionally create resistance. There's nothing wrong with acknowledging the 3D, especially if you know it's not final and you are consistently living in the end. The closest you'll be to your manifestation arriving is when you've stopped looking for it and feel fulfilled despite your circumstance.
I love you all, but I can only say "(assume you) have your desire in imagination", "do not pay mind to the 3D", and "return back to imagination whenever you desire" so many times 😭
Grab a piece of paper and write down a list of all you want to manifest as if it's already occurred. This can be just for the month or a continuation of things you've been manifesting. Ex. "I made 3000 dollars in the month of September. I didn't have to work for it and it was freely given to me without expectations." "My skin has cleared up so much and has no blemishes." "I get more beautiful with each passing day."
After each item you want to manifest, write a mantra that resonates with you. Whether that be a show of gratitude or a reminder to let go. Ex. "This is already on my timeline." "This has already occurred and I release all resistance to attract it." "It is done." "I'm so thankful that I get to experience this."
After completing your list, write a final affirmation at the end and sign off on it; something to express your gratitude and willingness to release. This can be as long or short as you want just make it personal. Think of it like you're signing off a letter to the universe/your Higher Self and trusting them to deliver. Ex. "I trust that my manifestations are in my timeline and there's nothing else for me to do."
Lastly, I like to read it all aloud and, after reading my final message, I blow my intent into the paper. Whatever you choose to do, when you've finished all the writing, tear up the piece of parchment. This can be in strips or in little pieces. Then, with caution, I like to burn the pieces in a fire safe bowl at my altar. Fire is symbolic of renewal, rebirth- similar to the New Moon or the beginning of the month. However, if you're worried about safely burning these torn pieces of paper, feel free to skip this step.
Once you've either burned or merely torn the pieces of paper you wrote on, I like to blow them out into the wind. Either say an affirmation or inwardly reflect on letting these manifestations go and trust in yourself and the universe. You're ready to attract and hold no attachment to the outcome.
𝔖𝔪𝔞𝔩𝔩 ℜ𝔦𝔱𝔲𝔞𝔩𝔰 𝔲𝔰𝔦𝔫𝔤 ℭ𝔦𝔫𝔫𝔞𝔪𝔬𝔫
Cinnamon, also associated with fire, is great for attracting abundance, success, and power. It can also inspire love and lust.
Take some cinnamon and blow it through the entryway to your home so that only abundance comes in.
Sprinkle some cinnamon atop a quarter and say some affirmations before doing the same as the previous step. Repeat them three times or maybe choose three affirmations that resonate with you. Good things come in threes, as they say. After saying what you want to attract, blow the cinnamon through the threshold, off the quarter. Ex. "I attract abundance, love, and success that comes freely without any blockages for the greater good with harm to none."
Burn cinnamon scented incense, if you have it, while meditating on what you'd like to manifest this month.
Stir cinnamon into your tea with intention for what you'd like to invite this month before drinking.
Happy Manifesting!
You can do these whenever, not just beginning of the month or a New Moon. But, it's always nice to start on a clean slate.
I had received a question on how to begin manifesting and realized that it also would be beneficial to have my own "tutorial", for lack of better words, to pin on my page. For any personalized manifesting or shifting advice, feel free to send an ask on my profile.
𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝕷𝖆𝖜 𝖔𝖋 𝕬𝖘𝖘𝖚𝖒𝖕𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓
The Law of Assumption is a theory first proposed by writer, speaker, and mystic "Neville Goddard". Neville insists that we are the creator, or operant power, of our reality. Reality is "us" pushed out. He postulates that God, the universe, or whatever higher power you may believe there is; is within us. Every assumption we have about ourselves or our life's circumstance that we believe to be true has manifested into our "3D", the physical, tangible reality. Everything, good or bad, that you assume to be true manifests into the outer world. That is the Law.
So how do we take advantage of this Law? How do we actively create and take control of our physical realm? To quote Neville: "Now can you believe that you are now the man that you would like to be, though at the moment of the assumption, reason denies it?
"Can you perceive a scene, which if true, would imply the fulfillment of your desire? You can of course imagine it, but can you believe it?" What Neville is alluding to is that: in order to experience the thing we want to have (ie: money, a relationship, a career, a different life completely) we must assume to already have it. "My assumption, though false, if persisted in will harden into fact."
Everything has already happened. Everything that you can imagine exists. Time does not exist. It is a 3D construct. Nothing can exist in our 3D reality without first existing in the plane often referred to as the "4D". This is our inner world, or imagination, and where the "3D" receives information from.
𝕳𝖔𝖜 𝖙𝖔 𝕸𝖆𝖓𝖎𝖋𝖊𝖘𝖙 𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝕷𝖆𝖜
1. I want something. Be specific. "I want $1000. I want to be in a relationship with so-and-so."
2. Imagine that you have it. Imagine a scene and the feelings associated with having your desire. Feel the money in your hand. Give life to the image you have of it. If you cannot visualize, that's okay. The feeling is the important part anyway.
3. Know it is done. That was the shift. Now you just wait for the 3D to bring you your manifestation. Persist in knowing it is done regardless of the ways the 3D might try to dissuade you. Regardless of how your mind might make you second guess yourself. This is the time to affirm. This is the time to meditate.
It really is this simple. Ease? Well, that depends on how difficult you make it. Keep in mind that everything in our 3D reality is based on our assumptions. This is the Law. The Law doesn't care how bad you want something. You must believe that you have it and persist in knowing it is coming.
There is always a delay when manifesting. It can take time for the 3D to process information that is coming from higher planes. Whether that be two seconds or two weeks, it's enough time for doubts to accumulate. You MUST know that if you truly have something that nothing is changing that. I'm going to tell you something I wish I heard early on:
To believe you have your desire is to know you have it now, as you are. As imperfect or "undeserving" you may think you are; that doesn't matter. You do not have to work hard for your desire. You don't have to do a million methods. You don't have to go on this big journey and learn everything before you can do it. You can start now. You already started as soon as you became conscious.
For beginners, I do encourage you to start small in your journey. I'm not discouraging you from manifesting big things. Just be mindful that you've gone your whole life being programmed to think "it can't be that easy to get ____." Well, it is. However, when we manifest things we are really attached to or seem really big; early on it might create an environment where we are less likely to believe in our capabilities. Even experienced manifesters get doubts. So, baby steps are always good.
But, don't let me tell you what you can and can't do. If you have an incredible self-concept and believe you can have whatever you want then please don't let me stop you! It's all up to what you believe in. Even doubts, or beliefs that you think are limiting you, aren't. Again, I want to re-emphasize that you don't have to become the person that has your desire. You already have it as you are. Embody it.
Even experienced manifesters still get doubts. I literally just manifested something and the result happened so quick I literally doubted my capabilites even though the proof was right in front of me. It almost manifested too quickly.
All that to say, your doubts don't change the fact you are capable of manifesting successfully. It's innate to you. You do it consciously or not. Big or small, whether the 3D has reflected or not, don't let the doubts dissuade you from knowing your power. Choose your thoughts.
There seems to be a disconnect in the shifting community. I see some say that "shifting is something that takes practice, keep persisting and you'll get there." Though yes that's true, it's made to be some grand journey. But I ask you, when does this journey fucking end? Are you to remain on said journey forever? When the 3D doesn't reflect where you're aiming to shift, does that mean you have failed?
Get up!
You want to be like the shifters that seem to shift repeatedly with ease. Or, hell, maybe you think so little of yourself that you wish that you could just shift once. When, I implore you, will you decide that you're the shifter you aspire to be? Do you believe that change will simply occur, as if by some unseen hand, during this so-called "process"?
Words of wisdom: if you are to become a master shifter in the future, something must have brought you there. What could that be, I wonder? Because it is certainly not wishing that you might be. In truth, there is no disconnect between your future self and your present self. Step into that future self. Decide you are that now. That is the act that bridges the gap between your future and perceived present self.
The past serves to guide us to the future. The 3D that doesn't reflect your desire is but a step along the way. Decide, right now, that you are your future self. Because you are. There is no separation, only a perceived one. You are merely playing out the remnants of past thoughts and beliefs that you once let crowd your mind. This does not fucking change the fact that you have already shifted or that you are a master shifter. Cease your doubting and stop this vicious cycle. If doubts or frustrations arise, meditate. You really need to learn how to observe your emotions rather than react to them. I have a couple posts about that on my page. You need not believe every thought that crosses your mind, remember that.
You are your future, master-shifter self. Embrace it. Affirm from the future tense. "I have shifted countless times. I cannot believe I once thought shifting was difficult. Now I shift with ease." You are your own greatest obstacle. Remember that. The "hard" part of shifting is overcoming that. You decide when that change occurs. Like a computer, the mind can be reprogrammed. Begin and decide now.