For those of you on the brink of deciding polyamory doesn't work... It may be that you haven't been quite honest or perceptive about your own true feelings. It is common we think what we want is not going to happen because it would be too good to be true so we settle for the next best thing... As in the meanwhile a person who wants your life sees nothing but opportunity to live your dream because that's not what they want! You know: "I wanted to be an actor but wound up becoming a world-renowed guitarist because it was easier..." in the meanwhile in the other camp: "I wanted to be a rock star but wound up an A-list actor because it's easier..." (Both examples from real life Johnny Depp and Nuno Bettencourt.) Whatever you dream about you're likely to think "impossible". It's not. #polyamory #polyandry #polygyny #polygamy