secrets filled with secrets

 

[czapbooks]

Jennifer Lisa’s fantastic contribution to PUPPYTEETH 4 (2014). Buy it now at Czap Books.

[singlewildasexual]

"If you don't want sex, what do you think about all day?"

[meghanwaslike]

jesus fuck, this twitter account

[youknowyouareasurvivorwhen]

you know you’re a survivor when it takes years to be able to admit out loud that you’ve been abused, and even then you still feel like you’re lying when you say it. 

[diamondheroes-deactivated201908]

[smittenkittenmn]

Some toy safety PSA posters we designed! Please circulate :)

[outforhealth]

Ask your local sex store employee — or if you’re buying online, call the info number, typically folks are very pleasant (and you asking about safety is NOT the weirdest call they’ve gotten today, guaranteed) — if the toy you’re considering is body-safe. 

[misandry-mermaid]

Silicone, glass and metal toys are the safest bet. If you buy it and it has a distinct chemically or rubbery odor, it is NOT body safe. It is possible if you already own a non-body safe toy to use it with a condom for safer play, but this is not a fool-proof method and it will still degrade and be unsafe over time. It’s always best to splurge a little to get non-toxic toys.

[therearerosesinbetweenmythighs]

[ashleighthelion]

“Take it as a compliment!” NO.

[the-goddamazon-deactivingsoon-d]

“I love a woman with meat on her bones” is also a shitty version of this.

[drst]

*snarls*

[revolutionarykoolaid]

When will it end? My heart is raw and bleeding, and yet they attack again and again. #staywoke #farfromover

[sonofbaldwin]

Think about this for a second.

[feministbatwoman]

We - and by we, I mean, white feminists - need to talk about how Dylann Storm Roof, the Charleston terrorist, used white female purity to justify murdering black people. 

“I have to do it,” he said. “You rape our women.” 

This myth - that black men rape and assault white women - has been used to justify the murder of black people for centuries. It was used to justify lynchings. It was used to justify slavery. It is still used today.  

And white feminists absolutely NEED TO REPUDIATE this myth, because white women’s tacit approval - and sometimes vocal agreement - with this myth is part of what allows this terrorism to happen. 

People like Dylann Storm believe white women need to be protected from black men. 

We don’t. 

I stand in solidarity with the black community, not with people like Dylann Storm. He does not speak for me. 

(100% inspired LaKeyma Pennyamon’s facebook post asking why white women haven’t already done this. Thank you.) 

[animalssittingoncapybaras]

[usrimajor-deactivated20240130]

community

[we-felt-young-in-a-good-way]

dreamboy420

[healingisneeded]

[shortvideosandstuff]

[thesoftghetto]

[gradientlair]

Yep! This whole bingo card is emblematic of post-mortem media violence as well; media is about protecting Whiteness and pathologizing Blackness, whether the violence is via the State or White terrorists who are automatically affiliated and in collusion because of White supremacy. There is no “lone gunman” who kills on behalf of White womanhood and White supremacy.

[5hahem]

Kills 9 people in a brutal assault. Is armed when found after a manhunt. Still isn’t placed in handcuffs. This is the definition of White privilege.

[thephotogfeminist-deactivated20]

THEY GAVE HIM A BULLET PROOF VEST. Are you fucking kidding me? Even when a white supremacist murders black people, the police are more concerned about “violent blacks taking the law into their own hands,” than the fact that a hate crime was committed and that kid is a terrorist. Fucking gross.

[knownhag]