Self Made

Transman | Gamer Nerd | Lover of Self Care

[selfmadeislandboy]

Went out into nature and embraced my body! Enjoy.

[selfmadeislandboy]

I know I haven't been happy with my body lately with the lack of selfies I have recently. I've gained about 10lbs since my surgery and I am mad at myself. I started smoking again but am already on my way to quitting again. Once things start settling down more I want to go back to the gym, and start to cut out sugars again. One step at a time.

[selfmadeislandboy]

I know I'm very lucky to be able to have too surgery but I'm still struggling to love my body. I feel like I'm wasting this surgery by being overweight and not eating well. I also know that is untrue. Life has ups and downs and when I'm feeling better mentally ill be able to focus on myself physically. I do like these photos tho. Nearly 6 months Post op.

[selfmadeislandboy]

8-9 weeks post op top surgery. Feeling good and sexy in these photos. Enjoy.

[selfmadeislandboy]

Comparison photo. I know I look unhappy in the bottom photo but I am very happy, I was just exhausted.

[selfmadeislandboy]

Just over 2 weeks post op. First time I've seen my nipples and I'm pretty happy so far with how everything looks. Doc says it's all looking really good but to keep an eye on my left nipple.

[selfmadeislandboy]

Welp, it happened. I am 2 days (not even) post op. Things went moderately well. They found a hematoma (pooling of blood) so I had to go back into the or to get that fixed but everything is good now. I can't believe it has happened. I'm honestly a lot less impatient then I thought I would be. I expected to be whiny and wanting to see everything but I'm really focused on healing and making sure I don't do dumb things. My partner has been incredible, and is also making sure I don't do dumb things. But yes hope you all are doing well and having all the fun you can!

[selfmadeislandboy]

Okay, I dunno where to look or who to go to so here I am tumblr. So, after years and years of insecurity I've realized what my issues is when my partner(s) have talked about their sexual experiences with cis men. It's the ability that cis men have the ability to have spontaneous, penetrative sex. I don't have the privilege. I can't just whip out a penis when I'm out and about to sleep with my partner. (I have not had bottom surgery, nor do I want it as of right now) The reason I hate this so much is because I love trying new things sexually and that includes places. I've talked to my partner about it but I'm the first trans person she's been with so she didn't really have many ideas either. I have a realistic stp but it's much too small and not stiff enough. Does anyone have any ideas or things they've tried to be able to have spontaneous sex as a trans man? Any idea is a good idea at this point. Thank you!

Tldr: how as a trans man (no bottom surgery) be able to have spontaneous penetrative sex with their partner without carrying a dildo in their pocket?

[selfmadeislandboy]

Can't believe I'm just over 6 weeks until top surgery. It's so crazy to me. I've just started to love my body but still feel chest dysphoria daily. I know it's going to be so emotional and amazing but the recovery is weighing on me.

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[dommewitchybitch]

Someone please

[aquajoggers]

[dommewitchybitch]

100% me as a partner

[codyraymond]

i’m not always horny but i kinda am tho

[reifaun-deactivated20150704]

whatever at least I give good head

[selfmadeislandboy]

https://gf.me/u/y97pvy

Top Surgery & Recovery Fund, organized by James Bayes

I'm James. I'm a nearly 30 year old female to male Transman.  I've been waiting for top surge… James Bayes needs your support for Top Surge

Thank you to everyone that has either shared my link or donated to my GoFundMe. The amount of support I've recieved from strangers and friends already has been overwhelming. I know everyone's going through hell this year, so the fact people are so generous is so incredible to me.

[brazybunny]

I love spontaneous sex like oh...we just cooking now we fucking

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requested by puckstruck

[selfmadeislandboy]

Top surgery is finally happening for me! Please share, and donate only if you can/like too. Thank you for all the support ❤️

Top Surgery & Recovery Fund, organized by James Bayes

I'm James. I'm a nearly 30 year old female to male Transman.  I've been waiting for top surge… James Bayes needs your support for Top Surge