♥ Selfship Positivity ♥

Welcome to a dedicated positivity blog for the self-shippers of Tumblr! This is a safe place to come and tell your stories about how selfshipping has helped you, or to offer words of advice to others who might be having a hard time in the community!

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For anyone who is interested, the last Saturday of every month will be Selfship Promo Saturdays!

You can tag this blog in your post or you can use the tag ss; selfship saturday so that the admins can find your posts and reblog them! This way everyone has more than one place to go and look for other self shippers to follow!

This blog will be for more than just positivity! It will be for all good things self shipping! But please remain mindful of the rules ♥

I’m still taking suggestions for events on this blog~ ♥

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So I’m thinking about some events for this blog~

One of them is something I want to do once a month. With an ever expanding community, I’d love to do a promo day where here we will reblog promos so that everyone can find new people to follow!

And of course I am open to suggestions for events! ♥

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This year, as they always have, your f/o’s:

Love you

Care about you

Want the best for you

Support you

Will be there for you

Hope this year is kind to you in every way

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I've had a mixed experience within the self ship community, but I've made a handful of very dear friends- and I love them so much. They've kept me going and inspired me to do what makes me happy. They're awesome and I can't thank them enough for that! 💖🧡[robotarmjokes]

I’m happy to hear that despite a mixed experience that you’ve found these dear friends! ♥ And it’s wonderful that they inspire you to keep doing what makes you happy! That’s super special ♥ You may not be able to thank them enough, but it’s guaranteed they know how much you appreciate them and how thankful you are for them!

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-Admin Jae

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We’re so close to the start of a new year and I’m here to tell you all in the community how proud I am of each and everyone of you! Not only that, I’m here to deliver a message that your f/o(s) love you so much and they all look forward to ringing in the new year with you! There is nobody else they’d rather be with on this day!

We’ve seen a lot of hate and negativity directed towards people, but this community makes me so proud with how quick we all are to come to the aid of others, offering support, positive messages, and reminders that no matter what, each of us is worthy of love, that our f/o(s) love us unconditionally, that we are not alone. This community has had it’s ups and downs, but together, we all bounce back and as we enter into a new year, as long as we stick together, we can keep positivity thriving in this community.

I’ve also been told to remind each and every one of you that your f/o(s) are so happy to be by your side and that you make their hearts swell with pride and joy. They get to go through a life adventure by your side and there is nothing they want more than to experience everything the world has to offer with you! This includes those family and friends you all have! They love you too and it’s such a wonderful feeling to them that you consider them so! Hold them dear, each of them care for you so deeply and all want you to know that you deserve the world. Keep your head up and keep moving forward. You’ve got this!

Let’s make 2019 a year to remember! ♥

-Admin Jae

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Shout out to the community for continuing to be supportive of one another! This blog isn’t possible without all of you. Let’s keep positivity on the rise! ♥

Let’s continue to band together and keep lifting each other up and reminding everyone, your f/o(s) love you dearly! ♥

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Update: Any shout-outs will be left blank and just posted! ♥ The only ones that will have replies is when they are tagged for people in the community ♥ Or if it’s an advice or question post ♥

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Shout out to everyone in the community. You are wonderful and valid! Also, your f/o's and I are extremely proud of you. We're over here crying from how wonderful you are. Keep going, sweetie! You're doing amazing!!

Agreed! ♥♥♥♥♥♥ Y’all got this!-Admin Jae

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Promo

Hello! My name is Jae or as some of you know me by my blog url @jaeselfships! In light of recent events, and I’m not sure if it’s done but I have created a selfship positivity blog!

This is a safe place for selfshippers to come and share their experiences with selfshipping or to reach out and offer advice or words of encouragement to those who may need it! Of course there are some rules in place as well as some dos and do not in order to keep this blog safe and welcoming for everyone!

Both posts are mobile friendly and can be found below! If you think something needs to be added to either the rules or the do and do not list, please feel free to message me with your suggestions! ♥

Rules | Do and Do not

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What can and can’t you do here?

The following post will outline what you can and can’t do on this blog in regards to sending in messages and or submitting positivity posts! ♥

Shout-outs

I encourage people to send shout-outs to other selfshippers, while I would prefer that it be a general shoutout to the community, I will not disallow shout-outs to individuals. I do want this blog to be inclusive to everyone. But please remember not to specify ships, this is for the comfort of everyone.

Post Recommendations

Do you see a post that should be on this blog that pertains to selfship positivity? Send in a link to the post and it will be reblogged here with proper credit to the OP ♥

Selfship promos

We will promote self-shippers. While this seems to go against the general rule of not specifying ships, promos are acceptable as it allows people in the community, new or old to find other blogs to follow ♥

Things that cannot be done here/won’t be tolerated

Hateful messages

Again, this is a positivity blog, so messages that are rude or hateful towards an individual or the community as a whole will not be acknowledged and the user will be blocked instantly.

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Rules

In order to keep this blog as a truly safe space for all self-shippers, there are a few rules to follow to keep this as pleasant as possible and make everyone feel welcome! ♥

Please do not specify ships when sending in asks or submissions

The reason for this is so that nobody is left feeling anxious or self-conscious about their own ships with a specific character and that everyone can browse the blog freely without worry and have an enjoyable experience

Do not send in hate

This particular rule is a no brainer. This is a positivity blog and any hate will result in being blocked from further sending anything into this blog.

Be kind to everyone

Being kind to one another on this blog is super important! This is a blog that’s purpose is for everyone to share stories of their experiences in the community as well as reach out to others and offer words of advice or encouragement if they are having a hard time.

Keep everything SFW

This is also a blog for people of all ages, so please keep everything safe for work (not that I think you all wouldn’t cause everyone is so pleasant! ♥

These are pretty straight forward and simple rules, and I hope that you will all follow them and that we can create a wonderful and safe place for all the self-shippers in this community.

Those who aren’t welcome here

TERFs, SWERFS, MAPS/NOPS, aphobes, transphobes, biphobes, panphobes, homophobes, racists, sexists, etc. THIS IS A SAFE PLACE! It isn’t for you! If I find you on here, you will be blocked immediately, no exceptions.