selfship confessions!

mod angela/amelie and mod ethan! both mods are minors (both 17) PROSHIP DNI we do not ship lifeweaver and widowmaker!

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WELCOME TO SELFSHIPSCONFESSION 💖💜

we are a selfship confession blog, we are two mods who love selfshipping and this community!

submissions are currently OPEN! we take any and all confessions, but read some of our rules and warnings before you submit anything!

♡ - absolutely NO proshippers/proship discourse!! stay away! thank you <3

♡ - absolutely no TERFs /radfem / radqueer / transmeds / exclusionists!

♡ - gushing is absolutely allowed and encouraged! though we implore you to keep your f/os private, using emojis / vague terms and pronouns as to not upset anyone who is uncomfortable with sharing!

♡ - please do not use any real names here!

♡ - venting is okay, but please do not be graphic / reveal names, and it should be related to selfshipping / the community, but do not purposely start discourse.

♡ - please have proper trigger or content warnings at the beginning of your submission if it requires any!

♡ - ethan and i will put our own personal input in the tags of the post if we want to / see it fit. if one mod says one thing, that does not mean the other agrees / holds the same values.

♡ - the only type of confession we will 100% of the time delete/block you for are 'confessions' that are toxic to or about people based souly on the fact of their sharing status, sharing or non! these are not okay and will result in you being blocked!!

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INFO ABOUT THE MODS BELOW!!! ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

MOD AMELIE / ANGELA 🕸️🕷️🦇

hello!! i am mod amelie or angela if you wish, i use widowmaker and sometimes mercy to represent myself! as i see myself/apart of my identity as them! usually, i use widowmaker!! i use she/he pronouns mainly, it/it's is also acceptable! my birthday is july 30th, and i obviously main widowmaker (around 30-40ish hours?) and mercy (around 80 hrs) in overwatch <3 i have an extensive list of f/os, i am biromantic aroace with a strong male lean.

"SPEND EVERY MOMENT GROWING INTO WHO YOU TRULY ARE!"

MOD ETHAN! 🧁🐕💜

hi! im mod ethan or arsin, whatever floats your boat! i use he/him and it/its pronouns mainly, some neos as well! my birthday is april 7th! i currently main lifeweaver and junkrat, with a little bit dva thrown in! idk my hours on them, at work typing this lol, but ik i have 60 on zen! i have a less extensive list but that will probably change as it always does! im panromantic, aceflux, agender, mascbeing, libramasc (good luck remembering all that, i barely do)

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you know that f/o i talked about previously, ynow 🖤🥀

yeah, he’s dead now in canon and i am not taking it well

like, yeah, i knew he’d die eventually, he’s the main antagonist of the manga he’s in, but it happened so quickly that i didn’t process it

yeah, comfort may be needed tonight

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Selfshipping so hard i ship my two main f/os and all my f/os are in a relationship with me 🗣️‼️ i am so peak people

— 💤🤡 anon

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I'm new to this really but I'm embarrassed to admit I selfship to my (only) friend, not because he would be weirded out or anything, (he also does but it's not serious.. I think) but because he got me into the thing I'm selfshipping from lmao

(may I please claim 🔍 if it's not taken?)

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I love my blorbos sm imma explode/p

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ACCIDENTALLY INTERACTED WITH A DOUBLE

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Helloo, hope you are doing okay, i am here to vent.

I think someone else did this take in this blog, but it pisses me off sm that the community excludes poly selfshippers, yes, my two main f/os and i date at the same time, love is not that freakin rigid people 🫩, istg i am tired of just seeing couple related templates and stuff like that, i want more poly representation please.

Also, can i be a new anon?? :3

Maybe a 💤🤡Anon

Pretty pleaseeeee

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I've recently started calling characters I used to selfship with my exes, like "Ex-Husband" Ex-F/O" etc. However, I've just realised this means that Nightmare Bonnie is now my Ex-Husband.

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it breaks my heart that at some point even tho me and my f/o are both the same age there will be a point where I’m older than him Ughhhhhhhhhh

Like I don’t want to leave him 😭 why does the game’s time have to be slower than irl omg

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god, watching the series where one of my familial f/o’s comes from (he’s my older brother) and i just hate to see him get hurt and belittled, like i just need to comfort him after all this and tell him that everything’s going to be fine </3

also, a more wholesome fact about this f/o, he seems very aroace to me and also i strongly headcanon him to be autistic! (just like me!)

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I think i shouldn't selfship anymore, it's starting to get too real and i am scared, what if it starts to affect my already deteriorated mental state? I don't want the man who brings me more happiness to start being used as a weapon by myself to myself, i am scared of being non sharing, and i am scared of these thoughts of; "i am going to be as horrible as my ex with this guy" A FICTIONAL GUY, my mind seems to forget that :(

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I had the worst experience with a double as a non sharer recently and I'm still traumatized ! I need to vent cause if I do on my blog, people will think I'm creating discourse even if I don't name anyone 😭

I tried mirror sharing with that double, thinking that people wouldn't have to chose who to support but basically forced myself to and I was very uncomfortable!

I was talking to the double of mine, we wanted to try being friends only for them to keep assuming I was talking about my f/o when I wasn't and we were just talking about friendship. The double also started to reblog things adding romantic tags when we agreed we didn't want to see romantic stuff and then blamed me about apparently rebloging the same thing as them. They also asked me to stop writing about the tastes and view of my life of my f/os, which they agreed upon but they didn't want moots to see them... I was also accused of talking badly about them, they even convinced their friends (which were my friends too) I was doing so, when I was just talking about dynamics and my f/os likes and dislikes on my blog !

I ended up venting on my blog when I was feeling extremely depressed and was in need of help, just said that I didn't feel respected (they knew) and the vent was pretty and emotional cause I was in crisis but I never insulated anyone or wished harm, I just expressed sadness and stated my emotions...

I then got a wave or hateful anons and harassers (all the friends of my double) and many people blocked me and to this day, some moots of mine are still friends with my harassers and it sucks but apparently if I expose them I will start discourse, when all I want is justice and to feel safe on Tumblr...

I also heard from a moot that the double has been saying that they didn't want some of their friends (which are also mine) to interact with me because apparently I spread drama about them...

I feel like this is very unfair and I don't know what to do, I thought they were a nice person...

Now I'm super paranoid about people hating me and I wish I could say the truth without people thinking that I'm creating drama 😭

🍖- Anon

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i feel like i’m the only person in the fandom who Actually understands my f/o. i could go on and on about the nuances in his character and the beautiful way he was written but it seems like everyone else reduces him to “guy with a funny voiceline who exists only to be shipped with this other character.” but also knowing the fanbase of the game he’s from why did i expect anything different

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Sometimes I regret not making any artworks about my selfship earlier and just daydreamed instead ever since I started selfshipping for months because of the usual self shipper's fear is becoming older than your f/o and I felt like I'm wasting time, not drawing my beloved f/o, it's like not taking pictures of happy time and miss it if you get what I mean like SOBS I'M SO SORRY F/O

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not me realising that when i turn 18 i might need to abandon my two romantic f/o’s who are minors (🩷⚙️ and 🎤) so that i’m not seen as a p3do

oh godd..

(all the other selfships i have with minor characters are either platonic, queerplatonic or familial so they’re fine as they’re not romantic)

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nonsharers, im gonna go explode all your doubles, you can sleep peacefully now

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im not a selfshipper but my friend is, and they've started started to ship themselves with the red tie tally hall band member as a coping mechanism. i really don't want to invalidate their trauma, but it makes me really uncomfortable that they're doing this with a real dude that groomed young fans of the band and has said slurs he can't reclaim.

what do i do? : (

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