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It’s not a specific thing I want you to do to me. It’s that I crave being vulnerable to you. I want to be at your mercy and in your care.
Like… The strength of my will is a precipice. I step off, let go, and I am in free fall. Everything after this is you, your will, like the air wrapping itself around me, claiming me.
Ohhhh fffuck. My head is buzzing now.
I ache. I throb. I long. I can not concentrate on anything. I try working, reading, studying… I can not think. I can not focus. I have no will to start doing anything. I am consumed by the ache between my legs. This has to stop. I need to be denied orgasm, yet still continue living. I want to continue this. Very much. I'm loving the denial, the excitement.. But I started to feel bad about neglecting my other sides. I can't let it overtake my life. What should I do?
Remember that you can safeword. That’s important. Just because something isn’t painful doesn’t mean it’s not a limit today.
And with that knowledge, that you can tap out if needed and doing so doesn’t mean it’s a failed experience, it might be easier to take.
As for containing it, don’t. As waves of arousal hit you throughout the day, I get the sense that you are trying to be strong and wall it off but it’s much easier to let the waves pass than to resist them.
Think of your heat literally as heat. If you can pull it evenly throughout your body, it can be easier to live with and maybe even feel wonderful,l. If you try to keep it isolated and stay between your legs, it’s all concentrated down there and can be downright painful.
All of this is just reframing it in your mind, of course, so different techniques work differently in different people. :-) This is what has helped me and others have told me is helpful, but if you find a more helpful technique, please let me know!
Either way, one blog I used to read categorized denial subs as “marathoners” and “sprinters” and while each have different needs and tolerances, one type isn’t intrinsically better than the other, just different. You are finding out a lot from this, and that’s awesome all by itself! Keep that in mind and don’t beat yourself up or learn the wrong lessons. What works today might be too much tomorrow and vice versa. When “should” and “is” don’t match, choose to be fascinated, not disappointed.
I like this categorizing between “’marathoners” and “sprinters”! I’ve never thought of it that way, but I did feel a bit like “not good enough”/”not doing it right” when I can’t last as long as others. Thanks for that perspective!
“Look at me,” said Mistress. “Look at me.” I reluctantly looked up at her, and she simply shook her head and said “you’re absolutely gorgeous.” I couldn’t help but smile. She constantly reminded me that I was beautiful to her, at the most random times. It was sweet.
Then, of course, she went down on me until I came. Good times.
(Starring Mistress and I - please don’t remove my caption or Santa will never bring you a gift ever again!)
Eeeeee, I’m crying
Rope is simple and elegant; flexible and capable. But its hard. It takes knowledge, and practice and time. Time is the thing that gets many. When you start working with someone and it takes you 10 minutes to time them up well and elegantly that can seem like an eternity. Yet there are shortcuts.
Ways to fold the rope so that when you pull it through you are pulling ½ a length instead of the full length. I like how he’s created a loop around her ankles by halving the rope then halving it again before looping it around and knotting it. But you’d have to experiment to know this works. The way the ankles are pulled up she couldn’t pull out of that loose loop easily and yet it would be very quick to make.
Its why I love rope over cuffs. More flexible and creative and I think worth the extra time. If you care to take the time to learn.
Girl Interrupted: Ruined Orgasms Explained
This post discusses female ruined (or abandoned) orgasms, what they are and how to ruin an orgasm. If you have ever been curious about what a ruined female orgasm is and perhaps why anyone would want to experience one, you will have great difficulty in finding any information on the web about it. It seems no matter what search terms you enter in a web search engine like Google all the links will be pertain to ruining male orgasms. Evidently far more men than women are interested in orgasm denial and in having their orgasms ruined, or perhaps there are just heaps of Femdom women out there keen to learn how to ruin male orgasms. Regardless, if you Google “ruined orgasms” all the results you are going to get back will be about cock control.
The whole idea behind tease and denial is to subject someone to intense sexual teasing while delaying or denying her orgasm. Consequently most teases, games, and challenges prohibit you from having an orgasm without permission and will instruct you to ruin your orgasm if you happen to have an unintended climax while edging. Some tease and denial play may even have a ruined orgasm as the intended end result of a teasing session.
While subjecting a woman to a ruined orgasm may seem cruel, and to some degree it is cruel, there are good reasons for the practice when it comes to tease and denial sexual play. Denying a woman the satisfying full release of a normal orgasm can leave her still in a heightened state of sexual arousal and ready for more teasing. It can even leave her feeling even more desperate for a full and satisfying orgasm. Ruined orgasms can also serve to motivate her to be more careful to avoid unintended orgasms in the future while edging since ruined orgasms can be quite unpleasant and frustrating.
The simplest and a very effective way to ruin an orgasm is immediately stopping all stimulation just as you hit the “point of no return” after edging where orgasm becomes inevitable. Removing the stimulation at this critical point often results in an unsatisfying, weak orgasm with few muscle contractions. The hard part is stopping the stimulation at just the right moment.
If you stop too soon, you may not tip over the edge and cum at all which is not really a bad thing if no orgasm was intended anyway. Worse is that continuing the stimulation for a few seconds too long can result in an orgasm that will be enjoyable and seem not much different than any other orgasm.
To effectively ruin an orgasm by stopping stimulation, it must be stopped as closely as possible to the exact moment when you feel yourself tipping over the edge and realize you are going to cum. With practice, you will become more adept at reading the physical cues that signal the approach of climax allowing you stop the stimulation at just the precise moment, ruining the orgasm. If an orgasm feels like it just sort of dribbled away, felt unsatisfying, and you feel at least some degree of frustration, then you can be confident that you did experience a ruined orgasm.
While a ruined orgasm can feel quite different to one person than to another, individual differences aside, if you are ever left wondering whether you actually did have a ruined orgasm, you probably didn’t. You likely continued the stimulation just a second or two too long. Ruined orgasms are just one of those things you recognize when you experience one. Just like edging and many other things associated with tease and denial play, when it comes to ruined orgasms, practice makes perfect.
This is good stuff! I’d just add one tip: Rather than stopping as closely as possible to the exact moment when you feel yourself tipping over the edge, it might be more effective to stop a little before that point and let momentum carry you over.
My search for information on female orgasm control was so disappointing, I thought I must be the only one out there looking. Then I found pleasuretorture and femsubdenial and suddenly I didn’t feel so alone anymore. Thanks to all the T&D blogs out there!
:-) Thank you! I wasn’t the one who wrote this article, but addressing that feeling of being alone is a major reason why I’ve put so much energy into this blog.
Hypno Experiment: Final Update
Well, that was a short lived experiment. I am a bad slut.
A few days after my last update, I listened to the files again. I had listened to Bound Arousal on my commute home. Went about my business for the evening and then put on Cal’s Curse to hopefully fall asleep to since it was my night alone that week.
I turned it on, put on some headphones, adjusted the volume to be just loud enough for me to hear, but quiet enough that I could probably fall asleep to it, and just let myself relax. And immediately, I was so aroused. I tried really hard to ignore it and just relax and go to sleep. But there is just something about that file that turns me on like crazy! Probably the overtones of obedience and humiliation... and the fact that I hadn’t cum in a while.
After two or three cycles, I just couldn’t take it anymore. I ripped out my headphones and furiously began rubbing my clit. I was so hot and swollen already it did not take me long to get close. And then the moment was there.
The moment right before the point of no return. What I am supposed to do is stop now. I felt the thought form in my brain. Stopping is what I’m supposed to do right... now... right... now...
And I didn’t. My fingers pressed on, I felt it build up. I gasped as I tensed up and arched my back... It was a damn good orgasm, but I was so shamed and disappointed in myself after. I was going to post about it, but life got busy and I completely even forgot about the experiment.
I think Cal’s Curse is just too much like porn to me. It has the right words to turn me on and want to masturbate. Bound Arousal is... “clean” enough that I can listen to it and not be driven wildly aroused, perhaps giving it a chance to actually work on me if I listen to it more. I may try another go with only Bound Arousal.
Is this what Cal’s Curse is like to anyone else?
Hypno Experiment: First listens
Yesterday I started an experiment outlined here.
I decided I did not want to only listen to these files when I need to be in full trance and laying down, etc. (Since there is so much to do in life! Who has the time to be still!) So I started listening to Bound Arousal while prepping to cook dinner.
I had heard the file before, the guy goes pretty slow, there is no fancy sound effects, just his voice. At this point, I’ve already managed to connect going into trance/listening to these types of files with getting aroused, so I was aroused pretty much immediately. I tried to let my mind drift while prepping food on auto-pilot and I could feel myself relaxing a bit and zoning out on the repetitive tasks. (Was not using a knife at all for prep, just fyi)
I listened to Bound Arousal twice before deciding to switch over to Cal’s Curse. I had also listened to this file before, more times than the other, but had completely forgotten what the file was like. I was surprised that immediately I could feel myself zoning out in a different way.
Cal’s Curse’s induction definitely brought me further down than Bound Arousal’s. In fact, unfortunately, I had to force myself to snap out of it because I had (stupidly) decided to turn on the stove right before starting the file. This meant that I was much more consciously listening to the words of this file. I had forgotten, or did not realize how much focus was on obeying and humiliation as well as the not cumming without permission part.
I definitely think hearing the things about obeying and humiliation makes the file much more addicting and arousing to me. But the wording that should make it so you can’t cum without permission doesn’t seem to be strong enough for me. I think that is why I chose Bound Arousal to pair with this file because it so explicitly says that my hands will stop and physically not bring me to orgasm. I am still not sure how this will work yet.
I had previously thought about listening to these files on my public transportation commute to/from work, but I think Cal’s Curse might be too intense and arousing for me to do in public. I think I will save that one for when I can actually take the time to lay down quietly with it, or before I sleep and do Bound Arousal on my commute. My crowded commute... heh
Unfortunately, I mostly live with my partner and I can’t listen to this stuff around her. So I’ll probably only get one or two nights a week where I can listen to Cal’s Curse. Tonight being one of them! So off I go!
Hypno Experiment
This experiment has mostly been inspired by the brief interactions I’ve had with femsubdenial and pretty much his entire tumblr.
His tumblr introduced me to erotic hypnosis, specifically Cal’s Curse. I had never really believed much in hypnosis, I listened to it a few times, but it didn’t really have a strong affect on me. I started listening to different hypnosis files now and then, and slowly realized how to kind of let the files have more affect over me.
Anyway, as you all may have noticed, I am super into edging and tease & denial play, but I have terrible self-control and am constantly fucking up (aka I let myself cum) when I am allowed to play alone. So I recently decided to try a potentially dangerous combo of files.
I’m sure most of you are familiar with Cal’s Curse. If you listen to it enough, it should make it so you cannot orgasm without permission. The few times that I tried this file alone, I’d struggle a little, but ultimately would be able to achieve orgasm without permission. So I have decided to pair it with Bound Arousal.
Bound Arousal feels like a completely different style of hypnosis, but this file should make it so whenever you feel you are close to orgasm, your hands will automagically move away from your body and will be “bound” behind your back until you have either cooled down a bunch, or you have consciously decided to no longer attempt to have an orgasm. It seems to grant you orgasms as long as you are not masturbating (ie with a partner), but does not say anything about ever being able to orgasm through your own means.
As far as I know, I am not so susceptible to this type of hypnosis for it to take a real, permanent hold, but I am hoping it will help me have better self-control and not orgasm too soon when I just want to edge.
We shall see how this goes...
Having to ask permission to cum is the best/worst thing bc I don’t want you to say no but also please tell me no and make me beg and leave me sexually frustrated like the little whore I am
yes.
Well, that took … 3 seconds.
Don’t worry, I have plenty of time to make sure you’re being properly.
Lately I've been craving to beg. I want someone to make me plead so desperately.
its not a porn flick, make sure your sub is comfortable even in her subjugation (if for extended periods of time)
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Can have this for Christmas? Please?
want!
I need me some rainbow rope!
Well I came across your blog because of some of the bondage related posts you have. That's a big interest of mine so I was asking about those types of scenes. That's on me for not being specific enough.
I haven't been in as many of those as I would like. My current partner isn't big on rope or "creative" bondage. Mostly just functional, get my limbs out of the way and secure type things. Every once in a while I'll play with a friend who'll do cooler things, harnesses and such, but not too often. I've been suspended once too and that was awesome! :)
Have you ever experienced any of the scenes you've posted or are they still just a visual tease to you?
Hm..which scenes are you referring to?
Anything with a bio penis I probably haven't experienced, or at least not in the last 7-8 years since I've only been with women in that time. But I've probably experienced a bunch of the stuff that doesn't require a penis :P I'm actually on the market for someone with a bio penis right now so I can experience more of what I've been posting lately! haha
fuck yes. i miss being on my leash...
I want to eat your soaking wet pussy until you beg me to stop
as delicious as that sounds, i'd love if you licked my swollen pussy right to the edge of orgasm over and over and over again until I am crying out nonsensical words, and trashing about in desperation. mm yes please.
