!read the pinned post!

🍁 🍂🍃 this 100% sfw CGLRE blog is run by a DID system; you can call us September here 🍁🍂🍃 we use this blog to cope with chronic illness, various disorders, and major trauma 🍁🍂🍃DNI IS IN THE PINNED POST - thank you for respecting us and our space.

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ABOUT

info about this blog and our sideblogs

we're a DID system. we use these blogs for comfort. this blog and our sideblogs are managed by adult protectors with bad attitudes.

we take our DNI very seriously and try to be very careful about who we reblog from and follow. if we do mess up we usually catch it pretty quickly, but mutuals can DM us if we miss anything.

this is our main blog! we have three sideblogs attached to this blog:

@sanrio-soft-pastels - a MyMelody-themed pink & sanrio CGLRE blog. we are very careful to not interact with Sanrio-themed trąumacore (or similar) blogs. we do NOT post images of clothes or models or people in general. probably the most active at the moment besides our main!

@seasonalsoft-agere - a seasonal nostalgia/regression CGLRE blog. this is a nonreligious space managed by a subsystem of anger & trauma holders. we are not anti-theist or anti-religion at all, but we grew up entirely non-religious and aren't in a place to bring those kinds of perspectives into already our tainted childhood memories, so religious blogs or overtly religious people DNI.

@soft-lil-toebeans - a kitten regression CGLRE blog. we'll only reblog from other pro-CGLRE age regressors or general cat-focused photography blogs. we won't post regression gear or cat/kitten regressors; we just post pictures of cats. if there are no cats in the image, we were probably thinking about how nice it'd be to nap there if we were a cat.

BEFORE YOU FOLLOW

info about "me", the person with DID

i am 29 years old! legally, physically, bodily, however you wanna word it. if youre not comfortable with that, please block all of our blogs! we generally try to avoid following minors before they follow us.

please use they/them pronouns primarily, no matter who you're talking to. we do not allow asks and DMs are open only to mutuals.

once in a while we'll make personal posts on all of these blogs. some of us may use the term "little" when referring to child alters, and when there's a young child alter in the front, they may have incorrect grammar, spelling errors, etc.

these terms and typing styles are more likely to be recurring on @soft-lil-toebeans and @sanrio-soft-pastels moreso than the others.

for the most part our littles and age regressors/sliders just like to spam reblog things they like, so thats what you'll mostly find. this blog in particular has no theme and is the only space you'll find text posts made by non-agere/non-little alters. we likely won't all sign our posts the same way so good luck.

DO NOT INTERACT

(NO following, NO liking, NO reblogging)

👶anti-CGLRE, anti-caregiver, or anti-little,

📖anti-ship, can't discern fiction from reality, conflates fiction with abů§e

🅿️edos, "måps" "pëårs", "cløvèrgender", etc

🚨nşfw/kīnk, cgł18/ddłg18 (even non-graphic content)

🍞alt-r!ght, "All Lives Matter" crowds, Tr*mp supporters, antisemites, rãcîsţs, Evangelists, bigøts of any and every kind

🚻TĘRFs, SWÈRFs, trůscum/transmęds, queer exclůsionists, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns, anti-gender nonconformity

🎭anti-science, anti-psychiatry, anti-ToSD, "non-disordered" plurăls, pro-plůralgang, and anyone who uses the term "sysmèd" unironically 🙃

FULL DETAILED DNI

TRIGGERS

not triggers per sé, but if you don't know why we blocked you and youre not on the DNI, it might be because...

🐶you post too many dogs!

while we don't hate dogs, seeing them makes us sad? its sort of hard to explain, but basically we always get reminded of how much people dislike cats and it 🥺 makes us sad because we relate to cats in a certain way.

🪱 you post too many bugs!

we have #bugs and other iterations filtered but even so, if we see the word over a censored post too many times its kinda 😥

🛐 you post about your spiritual or religious background.

we aren't religious in any way & we just dont like encountering such things. we will block or softblock Christians as well as witches as well as Jewish folks and various pagans, if the posts referencing their faith are constant and consistent on their blogs.

🥚your blog theme or content is simply not one we're comfortable with.

we will typically only allow completely SFW blogs, preferably other age regressors or systems, to follow us. we have a varied and complex trauma history so explaining how every individual things that bothers us does, is impossible. usually we dont know until we see it and then we immediately block the source to avoid it in the future.

thank you for reading to the bottom, and taking the time to understand 🙇💙

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Hi! Just wanted to say i hope you have a great day wherever you are!💙 :)

thank you 🥲 i really appreciate the kindness 🥰

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Hi ya'll. So, my mom completed job training woth a place that does job placement and she's going to try for a job with a bank called Fidelity Bank. I don't remember when she said she her interview with them was but they do training as well and as long as she passes their test, she'll have the job. I think its this week. Fingers crossed!!

Im the meantime, we're still staying at this hotel and my little brother can't afford to pay our way anymore because of a change in his salary. It's $81/day to stay here. If you can, please donate so we can keep this place and not lose our cats. the second mom has an offer letter, we'll be able to start looking at apartments. Theres one that we're already good to go on, but mom would rather find another place bc that one is REALLY small. if we have to, though, we have one ready to go - she just needs that offer letter and we just need to be able to hold out until then.

Thank you SO MUCH to everyone who's already donated and kept us going this long. Its the home stretch for real for real this time. I can feel it. Please share this everywhere!

Here's our gofundme!

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So from research The lowest amount given by any state of social security disability is around 900 dollars meaning you and your brother combined would be pulling in almost 2k, (you need 2k to pay rent each month from what I’ve gathered since you say you owe another 2k soon) so your mother would only need to cover a slight bit of money so I’m a bit confused as to how you’re so far behind on rent as well as how you’re still able to afford internet/ a phone bill to be able to post because your home should come first before internet

i dont know what made you think this was an okay ask to send but fine. i'll play, since you asked, anon.

i get $609/m bc i owe SSI legal fees from appealing my case, and my brother gets around $914. thats a total of $1,523.

Water/sewage was $120/m, my phone is $64/m (i pay it with my own SSI), mom's phone is $30/m i think, car ins was $130/m at the time (its $50/m now?? too little too late ffs but nevermind), internet was $130/m at the time, rent was ofc $2k, and thats not including household necessities:

medications - $144/m because my brother and i get our scripts for $4 per bottle (brother is schizophrenic and take 2 separate meds, i have multiple illnesses and take 4 separate meds), and my mom's were around $120 altogether (thats generic meds WITH discounts and without a med she actually needs). additionally, groceries for 3 people with very different diets (about $100/week or more), my cigarette addiction ($90/m), gas (~$50/m), cat food ($90/m), cat litter ($20/biweekly), and idk why but for some reason the electric company never started charging us, bless their souls i guess. that adds up to about $3,328 PER MONTH.

idk if youre aware of this but life costs money and if we ONLY had to pay rent, sure, yea, we'd probably be fine. but we can't not eat, we cant starve our cats or not change the litter, we cant not take our meds, i can't not pay car ins when i have to drive to my appointments 30+mins away, we can't give up our phones, and we can't lose internet bc how tf else can my mom find a job/work without internet??

my mom STILL hasnt found a job btw, in fact Target of all places REJECTED HER APPLICATION. we're homeless now! We're living in a tiny ass hotel room, all three of us plus our 4 cats, paid for mostly by my little brother, who lives in AZ.

thanks for your utterly useless presumptions, anon, i appreciate you assuming i would rather humiliate myself by begging for money online from strangers rather than literally any other option. i waited until things were this bad specifically because i DIDNT WANT TO BEG. i didnt even beg like this to escape my abusive ex but its different when its MY MOM AND OLDER BROTHER AND OUR CATS.

but okay, alright, its fine, i get it, theres grifters everywhere. since i'm sure other people are also skeptical about all the posts i've made asking for donations, heres some proof for you. These videos are from my tiktok, crunchiest_leaves.

this is from the day we found out we were getting kicked out.

this is the same day a few hours later, after we figured out what we would have to do and i emotionally shut off to deal with the crisis.

we had scraped together a couple thousand with the intent of paying some of what we owed but the check with the last $3k we needed didnt show up until this past Monday and the rental folks wanted the full ledger balance by Dec 1st, which was around $8,400 iirc because of the hundreds of dollars in late fees. we just didnt have the money in time. if that check (which i mentioned in previous posts on here) had showed up before Thanksgiving, maybe we couldnt kept the house, but it didnt.

instead we used that money to rent a truck, store our shit in a storage unit, and get a hotel room for a couple nights.

the first pic here is the storage unit ($125/m) after the first truck load (Uhaul, $30/day + mileage). the second pic is me with the back of truck, holding the second load, behind me. we moved as much as we could into that unit in under 24 hours (from about 3-4pm until 1am and then starting again at 4am), left a LOT behind, and were out of the house before 11am on December 1st.

this is the video i took 3 days ago showing where we're living now. we've been here since December 1st and this hotel room is the ONLY reason we were able to keep our cats bc we couldnt find a shelter or foster or even a friend with space who could take them in the few hours we had to move. the only reason we're still here is because my brother has a good ass union job and donations have allowed us to.

on Monday my mom will be able to pay the $10k eviction thanks to a close friend, that $3k check, and the $2k we've raised already with thr gofundme, but she still needs a job for us to get into an apartment and we still need to be able to EAT. my 64yo diabetic mother has been going to the library every day theyre open to send job applications for anything she's qualified to do.

theres literally nothing i can do to help her other than drive her around until she can get new glasses because hers are 4 years overdue, and keep pushing the gofundme.

there are other recent videos on my tiktok that you can watch too if youre that fascinated.

Happy Holidays, everyone. Except you, anon.

Here's the gofundme.

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Save my family from homelessness, organized by Cain Unabashed

Hi, my name is Cain. I'm raising money to keep my family off the streets. My olde… Cain Unabashed needs your support for Save my family

please share around. donate if you can. thank you.

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im panicking. please please help we're going to lose our house, im begging, someone help us 😭

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please donate 🥺 we're officially homeless and if we cant get this sorted soon we will lose our 4 cats.

[september-softies]

Save my family from homelessness, organized by Cain Unabashed

Hi, my name is Cain. I'm raising money to keep my family off the streets. My olde… Cain Unabashed needs your support for Save my family

please share around. donate if you can. thank you.

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im panicking. please please help we're going to lose our house, im begging, someone help us 😭

[september-softies]

Save my family from homelessness, organized by Cain Unabashed

Hi, my name is Cain. I'm raising money to keep my family off the streets. My olde… Cain Unabashed needs your support for Save my family

please share around. donate if you can. thank you.

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Drum set

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𑁯ᰍ Worksheets for the day: Autumn🍂

All the leaves are brown.../lyc Happy november everyone! The time for (Americas) thanksgiving is on its way! As i always say, if you complete any worksheets, reblog and show it off! That way, my bubby and I can see your wonderful work!

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I had so much fun working on collages today!

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[jellycatsdaily]

Jellycat of the Day | 4th November 2023

↳ Starry Nights Elephant | 2015 Retired Design

"Sleeps best in a trunk bed!"

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anon asks: being tiny & scares (how to help! little tricks and tips! 💗)

being tiny and scared can be a horrible overwhelming feeling to experience, so here are some tips and tricks on how to help <3.

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find a safe place ⭐️

having a safe place to go when you feel overwhelmed & scared can be so beneficial! <3

this can be anywhere too! personally mine is a bathroom & our bedroom where everything feels familiar and safe <3.

but everyone’s is different!

you could even create a den to help when things get tough! fill it when your favourite blankey & a couple of plushies to make it feel more safe and comforting <3.

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music helps too! 🌙

i’m an big believer than music can help lift and put down a mood, so having a comforting playlists that can help when things get too much or too overstimulating can help so so much <3

even if it’s just peaceful sounds or a breathing technique video, use the ambiance and take a couple of seconds to catch your breath and calm down <3

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have a comfort thing ⭐️

each persons comfort thing is different- but it helps in a similar way <3

i know a lot of littles have a comfort plushie, im more of a blanket fan as it helps with my sensory issues too!

but holding your comfort thing close when times are tough can help you ground yourself through a panic attack or a meltdown <3

having it around you or close to you could help your little brain know that things are going to be okay <3.

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journal & get em out!🌙

if you’re like me, writing and physically getting things out of your system could help so so much <3.

maybe hold a ‘destruction journal’ where you write things down to get them out of your head! it doesn’t need to make sense- as long as it’s doing it’s job and it works then that’s all that matters <3.

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triggers & chart! ⭐️

in the journal you could also keep two separate pages for triggers & charts! <3

on the trigger / chart page you could work out words or scenarios which trigger meltdowns or panic attacks! this could help you in the future to avoid certain events! <3

please mark good days though as well to keep your mood up! <3

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take it a day at a time.🌙

bad days will happen unfortunately <3

but if we take them one day at a time, and keep fighting through those dark days! we’ll get there in the end! i promise! <3

we’ve got this! <3

gif isn’t mine

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

i’m trying to be less ashamed of my failures and more grateful to where they have brought me. without them, i would have so much less growth in my life.

[buttercupagere]

snuggly and cozy fawn agere board, with flowers <3

requested by anon!