Why Are Bisexual Black Men Scorned/Criticized by Women
I overheard a conversation between 2 Black female co-workers discussing Bisexual Black men. I'm only orally bi, but I wanted to hear their thoughts on the subject
"If a Black man is bi, he's just gay. That's just what he is to me. WTF is bi? He likes men. He's lying to himself and any woman he's with if he is attracted to men. Fuck that. That's not cool..."
She just went in. Another woman interjected, "Women can be bi because women are soft, beautiful creatures - I mean, I look at me and say, 'Damn, I'm hot.' If I was a woman I would want me. But a man wanting to be with another man? Yuck. That's just disgusting. To let another man...uh-uh. A man can't be bisexual, he's just gay as fuck..."
As I said, I'm orally bi. That's as far as I've been with a man and as far as I'm ever going. I don't look at man ass, or men's bodies, just their dicks. But to hear them talking I was thinking, 'Damn. How many other closed-minded Black women are out here thinking like this?'
I posted a story of how I hooked up with a Black Bisexual Couple exactly how that situation played out: I went to play with her, found out they were swingers, fucked her while he fucked another woman in another room.
After his girl left, the wife called me in the room and her husband said, "Suck his dick. I want to see you suck his dick."
Then, while she blew me she asked me if her husband could help. They both blew me...WELL.
After that, she asked if I'd reciprocate and I did and I enjoyed doing it. In part because I'm a freak, but the whole situation was a turn on, caught up in the moment thing and it was hot.
Still, I'd do it again if I could find a Black couple again, FUCK YEAH.
I know this is microcosm of just a couple Black women and how they think, But hearing how strongly they feel about "There are no Bisexual Black men, but simply Gay and Straight Black men," you understand why so many Black men are closeted about their true feelings/desires and so many creep on the DL rather being free to be who they are, and this isn't the first time I've heard this stance on Black Male bisexuality from Black women.
No different than women, men can be Bisexual. We can enjoy sex with men and women both.
As I said before I am orally bi, but I'm not going to be in a relationship with a dude, just suck an occasional dick (really, not all that occasional since Black couples are so damn hard to find). I'm not leaving my woman for a man, cuz no man could live on head alone.
Women need to be open to letting men be who they are and we willing to accept us as we accept you. Men can be Bisexual same as women. Gay men are exclusively attracted to men and lesbians are exclusively attracted to women. If you would still fuck someone from the opposite sex for any reason, you're bisexual
(p.s. This is not an attack on Black women, but I've met far more White women okay with their husbands/boyfriends being bi. The entire cuckold porn genre consists of 99% White couples who the white man either sucks the extra guy or cleans up the nut with his tongue.)
I love sex, and I love watching others have sex, but I wouldn’t be turned on watching my man suck dick or another man sucking him 🤷🏽♀️ White couples are into sex with animals as well, u too? (Most men are easily turned out because they think with their dick) doesn’t make it wrong doesn’t make it right either, accept you and stop with the DL excuses
