How can you ask me "How to stop identifying with something?"
You STOP?
If you're driving to New York and realize halfway that you were supposed to go to New Jersey what do you do? You stop. Change destination. Why would you still go to New York if it's not what you want?
Again, why would you add Vanessa to the "I AM" if you want to be Lara?
You ask how to stop being Vanessa - the reason you can't stop is because it's ALL YOU THINK YOU ARE.
First stop thinking you're Vanessa.
You're driving a car. "I AM" is the car. You know how to drive it because you're already driving it by being Vanessa.
Vanessa is something you add to the "I AM" and not you.
To be "I AM" you have to refuse past and future because those are of the character, Vanessa is the one with a memory/personality/habits and not you.
You are, free of any label or concept (ie. space/time) you may choose to be conscious of.
You can't stop being Vanessa while being Vanessa? It's like you're asking me "well how do you stop being Ada", I was never Ada. I choose to express myself as Ada when I want but I AM NOT Ada. You are Vanessa and that's why you can't stop being her. All your "I AM" knows is Vanessa. Undo that. You're either your Self or your ego, you can't be your infinite being while desperately hanging onto Vanessa.
HOW TO STOPPP (the fact that the answer was already up but my asks are the same... are you sure you even want it?)
Disbelieve you were ever her. See what happens.
The body and the mind are only symptoms of ignorance, of misapprehension. Behave as if you were pure awareness, bodiless and mindless, spaceless and timeless, beyond 'where' and 'when' and 'how'. Dwell on it, think of it, learn to accept its reality. Don't oppose it and deny it all the time. Keep an open mind at least. Make your mind and body express the real which is ALL and beyond all. By doing you succeed. -Nisargadatta
But you don't want to stop, you want to "get things" in the world. You struggle to get and achieve things while projecting a world full of desires. You refuse to let Vanessa go, if you did you'd have your full realization right now. Keep being Vanessa until you get sick enough. I can't sell you your Self. All you're doing is for your Self. Vanessa hurts your real being with all its limitations. She is unnecessary. You don't need her. She needs you. You don't have to do anything to her. Just see that you are NOT her. DISREGARD. SEE YOUR SELF.
Tenya has you with your legs spread wide, his large hands firmly anchored on your hips to keep you in place. His fingers dig into your flesh with just enough force for you to feel his control.
His tongue explores every inch of your pussy with an almost desperate hunger. He licks your entire soaked slit with a slow, heavy stroke, then turns sharp and insistent, swirling rapidly around your swollen, hypersensitive clit before diving deep inside you, probing your inner walls.
“Tenya… I feel like I have to pee!” you suddenly blurt out in a trembling, panicked voice, your body wracked with shivers.
Tenya growls against your hot, wet flesh without stopping for even a second. The vibrations of his deep voice travel straight to your clit.
“Mhh… let it go, it’s a good sign,” he murmurs against you, his mouth full of your taste.
“Are you sure?? I really have to go, Tenya!” you moan, almost whining, the pleasure becoming almost unbearable. A burning pressure building relentlessly in your lower belly.
He lifts his head slightly, chin and lips glistening with your juices, and thrusts two thick, long fingers into you in one go. He immediately curls them to massage your g-spot with perfect precision.
“I saw in a video that when that urgent need hits… it means you’re about to squirt,” he explains in his serious voice, even though his eyes are burning with pure lust behind his slightly fogged-up glasses.
You can’t help but let out a weak laugh despite your state, breathless. “You watch videos like that?”
“That’s not the point! Focus,” he replies in a firm tone, almost an order, before diving back between your legs with even more fervor.
His tongue attacks your clit with fast, circular movements while his thick fingers continue mercilessly massaging your G-spot. The pressure in your lower belly becomes enormous, burning, almost painful.
You writhe violently on the bed, grinding your soaked pussy against his face, your hips moving uncontrollably. “Ten-! Ahh ugh! It’s too much! I’m gonna… imgonna-”
Your orgasm hits you like a violent tidal wave. Your entire body tenses, your thighs clamping around Tenya’s head like a vice as a long, high-pitched cry escapes your throat. A powerful clear jet bursts out of you in several intense, successive waves.
You squirt abundantly, soaking his face, his chin, and a large part of the sheets under your ass. The pleasure is so strong that your eyes roll back, your toes curl, and your body is shaken by uncontrollable spasms for long seconds, wave after wave.
When the final tremors finally subside, you lie there completely breathless, body limp, trembling, and hypersensitive.
You look down and see the extent of the mess: the sheets are completely soaked beneath you. An intense wave of embarrassment immediately washes over you.
“Oh no… I soaked the sheets…” you murmur, red with shame, hiding your face in your hands.
But when you peek through your fingers, you see Tenya. His face is covered in your glistening juices. He looks… satisfied. Almost proud. His eyes shine with a possessive and admiring glint. You can’t help but burst out laughing despite your embarrassment.
Tenya lifts his head and laughs softly with you, a warm, rare laugh that vibrates through his chest. He slowly crawls back up your body, towering over you with his imposing, athletic frame. He kisses you tenderly, sliding his tongue into your mouth so you can taste your own sweet-salty flavor.
“You’re so beautiful when you squirt like that,” he murmurs against your lips, his voice hoarse. “Don’t be embarrassed. I personally loved every second of it.”
He pulls back slightly to look at you better. In one smooth motion, he grabs the hem of his t-shirt and pulls it off, revealing his muscular, perfectly sculpted chest glistening with your squirt from years of training.
Your gaze drifts lower… and you immediately notice the massive bulge straining violently against his pants. His dick is visibly rock hard, almost painfully so against the fabric. A large wet patch spreads across the front of his gray pants, betraying just how turned on he got from your orgasm and squirt.
You bite your lip, both embarrassed and terribly aroused by the sight. Tenya follows your gaze and smiles, a little embarrassed himself, but mostly proud and full of desire.
“See what you do to me?” he says, slowly running a hand over his cock through the fabric. “I’m completely soaked because of you.”
He places a knee on the bed and leans over you again, his gaze burning behind his glasses. “And I’m not done with you yet, baby.”
Let’s be plain about it: Desperation shows separation
Desperation shows that you believe there is a force outside of you
Being desperate for things to “change”, or for a blogger to answer your dms or asks shows that you believe things outside of you still have some sort of power. If you are source and no thing or construct such as time or space exists outside of your awareness, the desperation makes no sense because you are the only thing that can make it happen. You are God. Not the youtube videos or tumblr posts that are apart of the experience created by YOUR awareness, but you, just you have the power
Still looking for answers outside of yourself, “I know i’m everything but…”
“i know i already have it but…”
no. that’s your ego convincing itself because you still see this as a method, your ego still thinks that if it says all of those things it you will get what you want. But if you KNEW these things about yourself, then that is what would be. Additionally, you must know that nothing in this world is fixed, so what are the “things” that need “changing”??,
if imagination is reality, don’t place your power outside of that, if you imagine that you need all these things, and that these bloggers words will make it click for you, then it will be so, you won’t have power because you give that power to others in imagination.
There is nothing to get, nothing to do. If you knew that you wouldn’t be so desperate. Desperation acknowledges an idea that there is a force outside of you (which is flat out false) being the reason you don’t have whatever it is you want. When in actuality the only reason you don’t is your inability to see yourself for what you really are.
It’s the ego that is desperate for “proof”, it’s the ego that needs to rely on false senses to make up its mind, but the good news is the ego is NOT you. You are awareness, consciousness meaning you are everything and from that comes infinite potential, it isn’t you, the God that you are who is begging for a “sign” or for advice, that is the ego.
you are not a human bound by all these “outside” things, stop listening to the egos cries of desperation and stay calm knowing it isn’t you😌, the real you has whatever they want whenever they want, as they are everything.
knowing who you really are kills all sense of desperation
ᖭི༏ᖫྀ . stop sending pathetic, hopeless, ridiculous asks to your favorite creators, hoping they'll give you the answer that makes everything click. stop doomscrolling on social media for any sliver of advice you can find. stop obsessing over your ability to shift or manifest.
you need to stop caring so much about third parties. YOU are the only person who matters in YOUR universe. focus on yourself and the rest of the world will follow.
i don't say this to be mean or harsh, but you are getting nowhere (and only hurting yourself) when you depend so much on others for your happiness. if you feel so strongly about what others think of what you do with your life, take a break.
you don’t shift to a reality, you notice you’re already there ꩜
a non duality perspective
in simple terms, non dualism says there is only one thing happening, not you here and a desired reality over there, just pure experience, appearing as different forms.
when people talk about shifting, they often imagine a movement, so like from wrong to right, from lack to fulfillment, from this world to another, but non-dualism flips that entirely.
you don’t move into your desired reality, you rather stop assuming you’re separate from it.
the feeling, state, or life you want is not elsewhere, it is a way experience can appear right now,the only thing that makes it feel distant is the thought “I am not there yet”, you know that thought creates the gap. non dual mentality means that you’re are not a character trying to escape a scene, you are the awareness in which all scenes appear, scenes that change when identification relaxes.
therefore you don’t force the shift, you release resistance to the present moment and let a new configuration arise. your desired reality isn’t “future”, it’s a different arrangement of the same consciousness you’re using right now.
so when you stop chasing it, you stop reinforcing the idea that it’s missing.
— now onto a simple exercise. ꩜
1; sit or lie down comfortably, don’t try to leave your body, don’t visualize yet.
2; notice that you are aware, and not what you’re aware of, just the fact that awareness is happening.
3; ask quietly “what is aware of this moment?” and let it dissolve.
4; now think of your desired reality, as a feeling or state.
5; ask “is this feeling allowed to exist here, now?”
6; don’t try to create it, let even a 1% version of that state be present.
7; rest as the awareness that contains this room, this body, and that desired state all at the same time.
8; stay for a few minutes, with no expectation.
that’s it, you didn’t go anywhere, you just stopped believing you were locked into one version of experience. again, you don’t shift by becoming someone else, you shift by realizing you were never limited to one identity to begin with.
edit: I don’t know why but this app flagged this post as adult content, I don’t get why, could it be just for the bare back of the guy in the pic? this is stupid, but ok.
Non-dualism + manifestation for dummies (and that includes me,because sometimes I still forget who I am and act like a dumb dumb,which is totally fine anyway)
There’s only one thing : Awareness
Think of reality like one big ocean.
Every person, object, and event is just a wave in that ocean.
You’re not a wave inside it , you’re the whole ocean, just pretending to be one little wave for fun (go figure 🤷🏽♀️)
The “human you” is a costume
Your name, body, memories, habits, morals , all of that is just the costume Awareness is wearing right now.
It’s not bad or fake, it’s just how the game looks from this point of view.
Manifestation = choosing what movie to watch
Because you’re the ocean (Awareness), whatever you decide is true becomes the next scene in your movie.
You don’t “attract” things from outside , there is no outside.
You just decide what story you’re in, and reality rearranges to match that choice.
Old story: “I’m unlucky.” ➡️ world plays out that script.
New story: “Everything works out for me.” ➡️ world shifts to that one.
That’s all the “law of assumption” is , you assume the new movie is already playing.
Why it doesn’t change instantly...?
Imagine you’re steering a big ship.
When you turn the wheel, the ship starts to turn right away, but it takes a bit for the body of the ship (your mind, body, surroundings) to catch up.
The ocean (Awareness) is instant; the ship (your human story) has momentum.
That’s the little “lag” you notice when you permashift or change identities.
So,how to live it day to day?
1. Remember: you’re the ocean, not just the wave.
2. Pick your new story,like,for example, "I have always been wealthy"
3. "Feel" it as real for a few seconds (and if you don't feel anything is ok. I mean,if you always had money why would you feel anything special anyway,they money was always there 🤷🏽♀️)
4. Let the world catch up instead of checking whether it worked.
Keep doing that, and the old story naturally fades not because you fought it, but because you stopped giving it attention.
So,in plain words,you are the Awareness imagining being a person.Whatever story you choose to imagine and decide is real becomes the movie you appear to live in.
BUT,BUT,BUT the circumstances,3d,my thoughts,my feelings... 😭
So,you realized you’re Source, you started to feel free… and then the old story pops up like, “Hey bestie, remember me?” 💀
First, you’re not doing it wrong. That’s exactly how the illusion works.
Let's talk some examples of how you can "deal" with it ⬇️
🌊 The Ocean & the Wave example:
Imagine you’re the entire ocean, calm, infinite, peaceful.
Then one day, you decide to pretend you’re a single wave.
As that wave, you start having experiences , ups, downs, old memories, annoying thoughts, whatever.
They’re just movements of the water.
When you say, “I want that old story gone!”, that’s still the ocean talking, just forgetting it’s already free.
You don’t need to fight the old waves. They fade naturally once you stop pushing them.
Because when you push, you’re still saying “this wave is real and powerful,” and the ocean keeps reflecting that belief. What you resist persists(I used to hate this phrase,but it's ironically true)
So here’s what to "do" with old stories:
1. Notice them “Oh, there’s that annoying thought again.”
2. Don’t argue. Don’t fix.
Just remember: that’s an echo of the old movie.
3. Refocus on the new scene.
Feel the new identity (in whatever way you like best,affirmations,visualizations,scripting,or even just saying it once and then going on about your day,that's what I do) . Choose to know that one’s playing now.
4. If it annoys,upsets or triggers you, that’s fine.
Let yourself feel it for a sec, but know it’s just momentum.
Say to yourself,if you want to:
“This annoyance doesn’t mean it’s real. It’s just noise in awareness.”
Over time, when you stop reacting to the old story it starves.It loses fuel because it only runs on your attention.
Ok,one more example I guess.
🎬 Movie Metaphor
You’re watching a movie in a theater, “My Life Sucks: The Struggle Saga.”
Halfway through, you decide you’re done and want to switch to “Only Rich People's Problems: Nepo Baby Energy.”
But… the old movie keeps playing on the screen for a bit because you haven’t walked out of the theater yet.
So what do you do?
You don’t yell at the screen,you just get up and walk into the next room where the new movie’s playing.
At first, you can still faintly hear the sound from the other room, but eventually it fades out completely.
So,in short,the old story only hangs around because it’s used to being the main character,you don’t fight it. You just stop being it's audience. You can focus on the new story if you want to,or you can just let it all be as it is since you already know a new movie is about to start anyway,the old one is already ending.
And that's it. It's so simple that our brains want to complicate it,ask thousands of questions,etc,but that is just noise in awareness too,passing thoughts and doubts. The less you entertain them the less they'll come up with their annoying endless quizzes.
I hope this cheat sheet helps you as it helped me. It took forever to organize everything I understand about these topics in the most simple,straight to the point way I could think but here it is.
Non Dualism Basics + Manifestation (for people who want to be freed from limitations)
•°. *࿐ Honesty non dualism changed my life for the better and I will always be grateful to know about this :)
Non-dualism is the recognition that there is no separation between you and reality, awareness and experience. There is only awareness, appearing as all phenomena: thoughts, sensations, perceptions, what is called the external world.
The person you believe you are is not a fixed identity, it is merely a pattern of thoughts and memories experienced by awareness.
In non dualism, your true nature is consciousness or awareness. Everyone's true essence is consciousness, and it makes up everything you see: the ego, the physical world, the imagination, everything. This all exists because consciousness let it exist, meaning you, as the creator, expect it and allow it to be.
There is no authority higher than awareness, yet awareness is not a being. It is not human, not otherworldly, not a force, not a person. It is everything and it is nothing. The “power” to shift, change, select is not owned, but it is simply the fact of identification. Whatever awareness identifies with, it materializes. Whatever is taken to be “I,” becomes experienced in the external.
You are simply awareness identifying/living as a human, which means you aware of a ego. An ego is simply the human you are aware of: their visual field, 5 senses, thoughts, emotions, feelings, all of it!
The ego is not an entity, it is the illusion of being a person, the thought “I am this.” It is simply a cluster of sensory data and thought appearing in the field. The sense of “my senses,” “my thoughts,” “my experience,” arises only through misidentification. Drop that, and what remains is pure being: awareness itself.
You’re not a human trying to reach awareness, you are awareness appearing as a human. The only limitation is believing you are the ego: the thoughts, the personality, the sense of being a separate self in a physical world. That belief filters your experience to match it.
The ego isn’t the one manifesting anything. It’s just the appearance of a character in the dream (the physical). What’s actually manifesting the dream is awareness itself. The moment something is fully accepted as true, it appears. Not because a person made it happen, but because identification shifted.
Everything is consciousness. Imagination and "real life/3d" are not different from each other, they are the same appearance, made of the same thing. When awareness identifies as the ego, the ego’s world plays out. When that identity drops, the experience shifts.
You don't become awareness, you just realize you never were anything else. Theres nothing to fix, nothing to get, because as awareness, you have everything already, you just need to decide/select it and it is done. There is no desiring when you already have it. You just refuse the old and accept the new.
Selection is not a doing, it’s simply no longer denying what is already true.
Ok but get to the burning question, how do I "manifest" something?
You don’t. Not really, but hear me out.
You dont "manifest" as a person. What’s called “manifestation” is just awareness identifying with a new version of reality.
Because all possibilities already exist in awareness, nothing needs to be created. You’re not making something happen, you’re dropping the identity that says it is not already so.
What you are being = what you are claiming as “I am.”
Not what you say.
Not what you visualize.
Not what you feel.
Only what you be.
There is no gap between desirer and desired, as both arise within awareness. The “thing” and the “one who wants it” are the same illusion.
Drop the self who wants the thing →
The thing appears because there is no one left to need it.
You can’t lack anything if you are the source of all of it. Lack only appears when you think you’re a separate self (ego) who has to get. If that identity isn’t claimed, neither is the feeling of want or desire or need.
From non-duality, there’s no “manifesting” something outside of you, because nothing is outside. There’s just awareness appearing as whatever is identified with. That’s it.
It’s not about making it happen. It’s about not identifying as the one who lacks.
So:
Drop the story of “I want it.” Ignore the ego, do not claim its thoughts or feelings or external world as yours.
Be the version where it’s normal, obvious, already here. Decide what it is the ego "wants" and claim it to be true now. Identify as the ego (person) who has it, rather than the ego who doesn't. As awareness, both those identities hold equal weight, so pick the one that suits you best.
Don’t wait for it. There’s no waiting in being. If you’re waiting, you’re still wanting.
That’s literally it. "Manifestation" is not doing. It’s being.
But how do I become a new identity???
Identity is not built. It’s selected. You don’t need to feel like it nor think like it. You only need to know: This is who I am now. And you refuse to claim anything else.
Think about it like choosing clothes, you dont need to "become" a new outfit. you put it on. done. no waiting, no steps, no convincing.
You are awareness, you can be anything and have anything. So select it and in that moment, it is DONE, it is now your truth. Stand firm in that decision and ignore anything against it.
Wait Evangeline...but what about thoughts or affirmations??? Arent they what manifests???
If you are coming from a loa perspective, this might be what you are thinking.
Well its not the thought or affirmation themselves, it is the stance behind it. They don't create reality, the identification does.
If you identify as the version who has it, the experience reflects that. If you identify as someone trying to get it, then trying is what shows up.
Think of it like this:
When you open a door, you don’t have to affirm “I open the door” over and over. You just open it, because you know you can. You already identify as someone who opens doors. It’s natural.
Affirmations can help if they express what’s already true for you. But if you’re using them to convince yourself, then you’re still not being it, you’re still trying. I find that affirmations are often not necessary, as if you know you are something, you don't need convincing. The only thing that needs convincing is the old ego, but you aren't that anymore so ignore it.
Like, if you have a car, you don’t affirm it 10k times daily to keep it. You just know it’s yours. You are the version who has a car. That’s the only reason it's there.
Same with anything else. You have it when you're not trying to get it. You are it when there’s nothing left to prove.
Doubts from the ego don’t matter. Ego doesn’t choose. Ego has no part in what is identified with, nor what is "manifested." Awareness does. The one watching the doubt (awareness) isn’t doubting. Ignore the ego, don't claim its thoughts and doubts as you. It is not the real you, you are the observer.
Now for the big guy in question... the 3d:
The "3d" is not real in itself, it is simply a mirror of identity. The external world is not separate from you. It is a reflection of identity, projected through awareness. It appears “outside,” but it is arising within consciousness, just like imagination. The 3d does not exist independent of awareness.
You don't change it by pushing on it or screaming at it, you change it by dropping identification with what it reflects.
The "3d" is not a cause, not a source, and definitely not a judge. It is a reflection of what's being identified with (not what's being thought, affirmed, or forced by the ego).
There is no need to worry about the external because:
It is you projected as form, it is not separate from you
The "3d" is not the source, it has no authority to determine what is real. You do.
It has no power, so it cant show anything that isn't being projected by you as the creator.
It always has to mirror who you are being, it has no choice
No need to worry. The 3D follows you. Always. Because it is you.
If it’s showing something unwanted, it’s because identity hasn’t shifted yet. That’s all. But do not get caught up in this, as time is not real to infinite awareness. Choose to stop observing the "3d" of the old ego, choose to stop giving it attention, and it will cease to exist.
If you get doubts from the ego, ignore them, remind yourself that it is "not me" and "not mine." You are the observer, the one who has everything, so don't pay attention to the ego with lack. It is not you anymore.
Be indifferent to the old ego's "3d," be indifferent to its lack. If you see it still, just observe, and know it is not yours.
Do not think this means you have to abandon the old ego's life if you still "see" it. You can still do things in the old 3d without identifying with it or claiming it. Simply know it is no longer you.
How to know you are the new identity:
You no longer ask "Am I doing it right." You no long chase proof and you no longer entertain the old storyline. You stand in: "This is what I am. Nothing else matters.”
It is not about effort, it is simply refusal + knowing + indifference to all else.
inexperienced!simon practicing his form in your bed. he's got a little mirror set up and everything, so he can see if his waist is curling the right way. his cock is all leaky and aching while he grinds it into a lup of blankets. the guy's got to get it perfect. he needs to know what it feels like now to find different paces and rhythms.
he gets sweaty and sensitive, the cotton beneath him sticky with at least three loads of cum, but keeps going despite his shaking. completely lost in the vision of you under him, taking him, breathing into his mouth. just the thought of it wrings out another peak from him–dry, but powerful enough to knock every part of breath from his lungs. out of his mouth sobs your name. his best thing.
you find him naked and fast asleep. mirror fallen off the side of the bed, and snoring with his nose stuffed into your pillow.
THE PHYSICAL AND THE IMAGINATION ARE NOT SEPARATE FROM EACHOTHER
I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this, You are NOT "waiting" on the 3D to "catch up" and you'll never will. Why? because the physical isn't separate from you nor your imagination, so whatever you experience in imagination, you instantly experience in the 3D.
If imma keep it a buck, the 3D IS the imagination. you don't "manifest" into the 3D because you ARE the 3D, you just have to be aware of what you are wanting and know that it is already done in the 3D.
the “physical world” is just imagination with texture. you’re literally inside your own mind right now, scrolling on a phone that’s made of the same substance as your dreams.
stop separating them! the 3D isn’t over there and imagination isn’t in here. they’re the same mirror, one side polished, one side silvered,
reflecting the exact same thing: you.
you don’t "manifest" INTO the 3D, YOU ARE THE 3D!! YOU ARE YOUR IMAGINATION!
what must I do if I want to change my appearance and life (like totally diff than this one) when the life i don't want is against me all the time
you keep fighting against the life you don’t want, you breathe life into it as you do with everything, since you are god.
the only objective fact is that YOU are aware. labels aren’t fact, there is no good or evil, no easy or had, no visible or invisible. Just pure awareness, so no matter how much you hate this reality, how evil you see it, all it needs is your awareness to stay alive , so starve it of that and it will collapse into nothing, and out of nothing you can create anything. instantly.
you need to start not giving a fuck, take your power back and declare what life is yours. Your life doesn’t need changing if you’re already there, your face doesn’t need fixing if you already had the face you want.
Have it or not? which one is it? Have that desired life and face or not? Your decision.
You can give birth to any experience you want to attain, you must trust in your ability to do that, or KNOW. You are not separate from the life you want, you don’t need a “how” in order to “get there”, there is nowhere to get to, all you must do is realise you’re being fooled by your own dream,
the way you hold reality in imagination is the way it is going to appear, and that doesn’t take time or effort. If you stop holding a certain variant of “reality” in your mind it will cease to exist, without your awareness giving life to it, it will be dead.
To be triggered by circumstance “in your face” shows you don’t know who you are just yet. Your suffering would completely come to an end if you would realise what you are. There would be no moments of doubt anymore.
You still have a deep belief in what your senses are telling you. and to that i say you can’t serve two masters, do you serve your imagination or the senses that you generated.
“Reality” as you see it is sooo mathematical, you as consciousness even generated the concept of senses to tie you down to the illusion.
There is a part of your consciousness still not ready to let the dream fall apart so easily, like a child not willing to give up a toy.
But it is for YOU to decide whether you want to break free. Your reality is happening now and i’m not stating that to make you happy, it’s just that you must decides whether you can see it infront of you or not.
if someone’s going through a shit time would you still say to take that as feedback that they’re putting themself through that?
it sounds so harsh and dismissive, but yes, yes i would.
you are always creating conscious of it or not. not just when it benefits the character you’re playing, nope. it’s ALWAYS.
this shouldn’t be seen as failure, the only reason failure exists is because you breathe life into the idea of trial and error, of effort and failure. But you must take this as you said, result and feedback.
But that’s good news, if YOU are the one generating all this, YOU can turn it off, even when the character you’re playing is “fighting against all odds”
All you must do is realise this prison cell is a creation, this cage. And when you do it all stops. Like in a dream, unless you are lucid dreaming, you immediately wake up when you realise that it’s not a dream.
Realise you’re dreaming.
And for those of you who still feel a sense of impending doom and that a clock is ticking, this is for you too, realise that this is all a mind game you are playing with yourself.
Laugh at the dream. Laugh at the fact that you can experience anything and everything, any life you wish to, if you realise you are there already.
This sentence is the simplest way that I could explain manifestation. There is really nothing else to it. You are not seperate from your desire. This isn't something that you have to win and earn. This isn't something you're trying to get. This isn't a competition. It's not about whether you're good enough for it. And this certainly doesn't come with a box of instruction manuals and rules.
You have what you want. Simple as that.
It's already done. Simple as that
Outside isn't your validation. Simple as that.
The end is guaranteed no matter what you see now. Simple as that.
Decide it's yours. Simple as that.
You are the creator of your reality. Simple as that.
Nothing outside of you can affect what you want, no matter what. Simple as that.
Outside circumstances means nothing. Simple as that.
You can have/change anything. Simple as that
You decide, you assume what you want is true. Simple as that.
You have created everything in your life till now, so you can create anything you want as well. Simple as that.
You will not fail. Simple as that.
If you decided that you have it and stay firm in that, you cannot fail. Simple as that.
Refusing to change something means accepting it. Simple as that.
Constantly seeking validation is proving to yourself that you don't have it. Simple as that.
Affirming the whole day and then asking where it is, is proof that you're telling yourself that you don't have it. Simple as that.
It's already done. If you decide so, it's yours. As simple as that.
Whatever it is, whether you have it or not - YOU DECIDE. As simple as that.
when clark’s fucking you too good you just have to rub your clit to get yourself over the edge — but then he’s just so big, everywhere, that you can’t squeeze your hand between his heavy body on yours.
so what does he do? turn you the fuck over, forcing your thighs apart as he lays you — with your back to his chest, and then those big hands of his would slide down your soft, sweat-slick body to rub your clit for you.
circling his flattened fingers, palming her so fast n’ good until you’re squirting cumming on his cock.
Hi my loves, I missed you guys and as you can see I have taken a long break, the longest break since i’ve started blogging. And in that time it lead me to reflect on so much, especially when it comes to manifestation.
And i’m here to tell you that
1. You aren’t separate from what you want
2. Creation is instant
You are an instant creator, as soon as you decide you want something it is done. For instance, let’s say whilst playing League of Legends, you get a notification telling you to come play Candy Crush. That notification wouldn’t exist without the game Candy Crush itself. If there was no such thing as Candy Crush you would not be getting a notification while playing League of Legends. It’s just like desires, a desire is like you getting a “notification” in your current reality, telling you that better one exists. If that reality didn’t exist, it wouldn’t pop into your mind like a notification. That’s how instant creation is. As soon as you want it, it exists, and you ARE it.
If you can see it in your mind you can have it. I don’t care what it is, jumping to a whole new reality, getting your dream body, revising a major event. If you can desire it, there is already a reality where you have that thing. Nothing is impossible, only the ego assigns labels to things.
And what do you have to do to get there? Absolutely nothing, nothing but living in the knowing that you are it. Once you realise that creation is finished and that time is an illusion, you collapse the illusion of time and space and you get what you want instantly.
Now why is it so effortless? Because as god, you are everything. You are not separate from your desires. The need to do techniques shows that you believe that you must do something to get your desire, and that is the illusion of separation, you believing you do something or try and be someone to created. When in fact, creation is finished and you need to do nothing but be in the present moment, knowing you have what you want.
The Idea that you need to move from A to B is an illusionistic concept. When in actuality, you are A AND B. Whether A or B is visible or invisible to you is where you decide to shift and place your consciousness.
I’m not gonna use the wording “your fault”, because you are never at fault. The word fault makes it sound like you did something wrong and you never do. It has negative connotations and nothing is negative about you. As God you never do anything wrong. I think the word to use is “responsibility”. You must take responsibility.
Because the thing is you are not human, you ARE GOD. Things do not happen to you they happen from/through you. Because of things in your subconscious. Nothing in reality is random, there is nothing outside of you, once you realise that you got yourself here, you will start to see how easy and natural it is to get yourself out and to where you want to be.
only you got yourself here only you can get yourself out.
See when it comes to circumstances you’ve got to do two things:
1. Understand that this was your creation
Example: let’s say you want to manifest your specific person, you’ve been doing affirmations, but all of a sudden you see you’ve been kicked out of their private insta. You must understand that this did not happen TO you, this happened FROM you.
You are not some NPC that gets pushed around by the events, twists and turns of the game, you are the game developer. There is nothing down to the last detail that you haven’t created, even the words you are reading now.
2. Refuse to see this from the eyes of your ego
Your ego is the one that assigns meaning to things, but everything just is, there is no such thing as big and small, hard and easy, bad and good, everything just is, it’s neutral. And when you understand that you will see that the 3D doesn’t happen TO you, it’s a feedback loop. In terms of the example, you wouldn’t see being kicked out of your sp’s insta as a set back happening to you, you would see this as input and feedback, because that’s all the 3D is. It’s the ego that spirals, put a negative or positive label on things.
“This is a situation I created, and why?” Look into your subconscious and find the answer as to why you created a situation where your specific person distanced themselves. And yes, you have the answer because you are the only one with answers as no one is outside of you. You have created everything here, this whole illusion, even the words you are reading right now.
Once you see that the 3D isn’t against you, it’s just this input and feedback game, you will honestly start to find circumstances laughable.
And once you see that you are the creator and that this is all your doing, you will be able to collapse time between you and your desires
Choose which game to play by inputting things that benefit you
Do not panic at the life that has been sculpted for you as it has been done BY you and only YOU can change it.
Pete Sapper said “When you know who you are, your mirror will reflect it, when you don’t know who you are, it will also reflect”
You don’t need to anything for your manifestations to materialise, as they already have, creation is finished, but self concept is something that really helps you wrap your mind around it.
When I say that you are God, do you really and truly know that? And I ask for knowing and not believing because beliefs change all the time. Do you KNOW you are God, or do you just get this rush of excitement and adrenaline after reading some motivational posts just to fall back into old patterns a few hours later?
What colour hair do you have? Let’s say you have black hair and maybe you dyed it blonde, would you constantly go back on the fact that you have black hair, i mean if it was a dye job you got done yesterday, you might forget for a moment, but you’ll be like “oh that’s right, i have blonde hair” and go on about your day, because 1. You KNOW that’s it’s true and 2. You KNOW that you are the person who has blonde hair. That one time you forgot doesn’t negate from the fact that you have blonde hair.
A lot of you “persist and persist”, and wonder why your outer world hasn’t changed, let me tell you something i’m not gonna bullshit you and tell you that these are old thoughts playing out because they aren’t, it’s just not true, there is no separation between your outer and inner, A mirror doesn’t have a mind of its own, it can’t “test” you or show you something that you are NOT, because think of a literal mirror (that’s what this outer world is), when we say that, it isn’t some cute metaphor, it’s the truth. The reason things haven’t changed is because YOU haven’t. Again, think of a mirror, instant reflections are the ONLY TYPE OF REFLECTIONS!! be the person who assumes otherwise? you will stay waiting, looking for posts to motivate you instead of living the life you want.
You can do as many things to manifest your dream body, but if you’re still being the person who is a loser with a shitty figure, guess what?… Have you heard the phrase “You cannot trick God”, since we have now come to terms with the fact that we are God, the term can now be written as “you cannot trick yourself”, you also can’t run from who you are. God, you, your consciousness can tell the difference between believing, and KNOWING. If you KNOW and accept your unfavourable life as true, no amount of wishful thinking and hopeful attempts at techniques will change what you know. So what is there to do? change SELF.
ꨄꨄꨄ
Become God, step into that state of being now, you ARE pure consciousness now, there is nothing to do, nothing to induce. You ARE the void now. You are limitless, you have always succeeded in anything you do, so why not know? Your outer world reflects instantly because you are God and what you say goes. There is no one above you, now if you knew that why are you getting triggered with all the limiting beliefs, why would anyone tell YOU, as God, how to create.
When someone says “your manifestation will ONLY take 3 Days if you do this magnificent method that-”.
Instead of mindlessly following another method like a junkie. You say “wtf i’m literally GOD not you, 3 days?? pfft my shit is instant because i’m just so fucking unlimited and ethereal”
You are God, the only free thinker in your reality. Not even im freely thinking from your perspective, im just a projection. So what if someone tells you that you have to do this and that to get what you want? everyone else is a lowly human, YOU are God. Absolute Intelligence. With words that instantly create. Once you get that through your skull you will never have a day in your life where you are experiencing unfavourable circumstances.
Who cares if Nancy’s dream bod took 3 months?
Who cares if Wyatt took 2 weeks to shift to his dream life?
Who cares if Jessica looped affirmations all day to get her grades?
YOU ARE GOD HERE. Not them. Time is not real and Creation is finished, WHO CARES ABOUT THEM?? YOU. HAVE. EVERYTHING.
I am not religious by any means but i believe a lot of religious books were guides to understand self, that got, as we can see, heavily misconstrued. And there’s this verse:
Joshua 24:15 “As for me and my house we will serve the Lord”
Do you know what that actually means: It means who cares what everyone else’s limiting beliefs are, who cares what everyone else “had” to do, or what everyone else believes. As for you and your mind, You will serve God, That is You.
You are one perception away from everything materialising. This isn’t the Law of Desire, if so everyone would have everything they could ever want, by simply.. wanting it. It’s the law of Being, BE GOD, and put YOURSELF on the pedestal, then you will wake up in this illusion, you will start to see that there are no big and small manifestations. You will start to see that your consciousness created all of this and none of it is real, and nothing will be hard or easy for you anymore, it will just be. You will start to understand that time doesn’t exist, and all this other noise matters not anymore, for you are sovereign. You will start to understand that you are one decision away.
Idc if you have to repeat it, or to visualise yourself as this godly being, idc what you do, even so much as a one-and-done decision as long as you understand who you are.
I get all these asks and dms too (before i turned them off) with problems that would not be problems if you guys understood who you actually are. Some of the things you guys complain about WOULDNT EVEN EXIST if you just stepped into that knowing that you are God.
And I know time doesn’t exist, but for those of you who still resonate with the 3D and human concepts (even tho that’s like, soooo dumb 🙄), you will spend a lot more “time” without what you want if you don’t start BEING the person who has it all.
Focus on that self concept, be the most egotistical, self-obsessed, head-up-your-own-ass typa bitch. For you are God and any lesser treatment of self would be nonsensical.
When you know you are, the world will reflect your power
