healthy love exists and it’s worth being patient for

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healthy love exists and it’s worth being patient for
You should never feel bad about wanting to change or re-shape yourself into the person you want to be. Just because people have an old image of you in their minds, doesn’t mean it’s your responsibility to maintain that. Saying things like “what will they think of me?” will only place fear in your heart and paralyze you from reaching your greatest potential. You deserve to meet the highest version of youself during this lifetime. You can out grow, re-new, evolve as much as you desire. There’s so many layers to us, unravel and explore all of you.
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Part of her believes that she’s made to love and be loved. She is full of scars in her soul that could only be mended by someone who cared enough to warm her frozen heart on their hands in these cold days. She wakes up with messy hair. She doesn’t like to wear make up and she just wear jeans and tshirt. She burps too loud and she eats a lot. She has a crazy mood, like, one second she wants to be with you but on the next few seconds, she doesn’t want to see you anymore. Yet despite all these, she believes that someone is meant for her. And that someone would accept every flaws that she’s been trying to hide in the world. But the other part of her is sure that she isn’t meant to be in a relationship.She is full of insecurities that she feels less confident with her body. People tell her that she’s perfect and she smile upon hearing the compliment, but at night when she’s lying alone on her bed thinking about that one guy who never even cared made her realize how ugly she is. She’s pretentious that she makes other people believe that she’s okay even if something is slowly killing her inside. She likes to be alone yet she doesn’t feel lonely at all. She has good books and hot tea mugs that she uses to cover the absence of someone who is not there to hold her heart. She even fools loneliness that she thought she’s fine just by herself. She doesn’t know how to deal with someone in an emotional level. And like this, she knows no one can hurt her. This is me. Broken and fixed. Warm and cold. Complex and divided in two completely opposite personalities who always fight to deal with each other. Yet, someone loves me for me and that’s all that matters.
her two personalities in one breathing body; Khae S. (via escafeism)
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HAHAHAHAHAHA MANGHINGI KA NG KISS KAY ANO HAHAHAHA JHO ANNA OY
Best moments really happen when they are unplanned.
Our very first river ferry ride.
And we strolled around Intramuros.
Manila Cathedral (first timer again).
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Solid na solid ang gala habang adjustment period pa at bago maging busy. I'm thinking when will it happen again. Pero ika nga, unplanned moments are the best ones. Baka bukas magka-ayaan ulit hahaha.
So.. that's it. That's how I spent my thursday and I really had fun!
PS: Forgive me for the blurred and low quality photos. :^)
Bakit nahihirapan tayo magpatawad? Minsan kasi, akala natin tayo lang ang nasasaktan.
KAHIT NA.
Ang sakin lang. Sana alang susuko sating dalawa. Kahit nagkaka ganito tayo. Yun lang ang sakin. Kahit durog na durog na tayo. Kahit na, ang sama sama na ng loob natin sa isat isa. Kahit na nanginginig na yung buong kaluluwa mo sa galit. Kahit na maraming dahilan para sumuko. Kahit na maraming dahilan para hindi ituloy to. Kahit na di na natin maintindihan ang isat isa. Kahit na ang taas ng pride nating dalawa. Kahit na galit na galit ka na sakin. Kahit na nakakagawa tayo ng bagay na ayaw ng isa. Kahit na di tayo sang ayon sa desisyon ng isa saten, kahit na. Nagsimula tayong masaya. Lahat naman ng relasyon nagsisimula sa masaya diba? Kahiy na ngayon. Mas maraming araw sa isang linggo ang malungkot, kahit na maraming araw yung away kesa sa saya. Kahit na inaaksaya naten yung oras naten kakaaway sa isat isa. Kahit na madalas inaaway kita. Kahit na madalas wala nang dahilan para mahalin moko. Kahit na di ko maintindihan yung mga dahilan mo sa buhay. Kahit na di ako tukad ng dati na nakilala mo. Di ako yung perpektong tao. Kahit na di ako nakikinig sayo. Kahit na may mga bagay na napaka liit pero pinapalaki ko. Kahit na madami akong multo sa sarili ko. Kahit na ang praning ko. Ang seloso ko. Kahit na ang oa ko. Kahit na sana paulit ulit yung nangyayari at nakakaramdam ka na ng sawa at kahit na ayaw mo na at kahit na pagod kana. At kahit na nababawasan na yung pagmamahal mo sakin. Kahit na maraming KAHIT NA. WAG KA SANANG SUSUKO. KASI KAHIT NA GANITO, AKO PARIN AKO AT AKO PARIN SANA. AKO LANG HA. AKO LANG.
Sa panahon ngayon, mahirap na talaga magtiwala. Ang dami ng manloloko, ang daming pa-fall, ang daming pa-pogi nalang ang alam, mga tao ngayon hindi na talaga naniniwala sa forever. Para sa kanila, laru-laro nalang ang love, parang pampalipas oras, gusto lang nilang kiligin pero ayaw nila ng commitment kaya ang resulta, madaming sawi ngayon sa pag-ibig. Pero may mga lalaki pa din talaga na wagas kung magmahal, hindi man halata sa itsura nila pero takot din silang masaktan kaya hanggat maaari, ayaw din nilang manakit ng iba. Dumadaan sa torpe stage, yung sa lahat ng social media accounts ng babaeng nagugustuhan niya, sinusundan niya, kinakaibigan niya pero hindi niya talaga masabi na may gusto siya dito, nagpupuyat makausap lang niya ito ng mas matagal, nagiging korny kasi inlove na inlove tsaka nagbabago kasi ayaw niyang mawala at masaktan sa kaya yung taong mahal niya. At kapag nasasaktan o nagkakamali siya, umiiyak, nagmamakaawa, nagso-sorry, kahit mapride siya, kinakalimutan niya to para magkaayos lang sila ng babaeng mahal niya. Oo, naglipana na ang mga manloloko pero may iilan pa din namang seryoso. Kaya sana huwag natin silang pagsarhan ng pinto. Huwag tayo manghusga agad, huwag tayo matakot sumubok ulit magmahal. Malay mo, yung taong nagmamahal sayo ngayon, siya na pala yung lalaking nakatadhana para sayo.
Walang perpektong relasyon. - May mga araw na masaya kayo, mag mga araw din naman inuulan kayo ng problema. Minsan nagkakasundo kayo, minsan naman may mga bagay na pinagtatalunan kayo. Maliit na bagay pinapalaki, dumagdag pa yung pride, edi isang malaking away. Pero hindi naman ibig sabihin nun eh hindi kana niya mahal. Ang selos, tampuhan at away naman ay parte din ng pakikipagrelasyon. Kung wala yung mga yan hindi niyo rin maa-appreciate kung gaano kasarap magmahal at mahalin.
Lahat ng bagay nadadaan sa maayos na usapan. - Bago ka magdesisyon, mag-isip ka muna. Huwag kayo magpadala sa galit, minsan kasi kapag galit tayo may mga bagay tayo na nasasabi, nakakasakit tayo pero hindi naman talaga totoo yung mga sinasabi natin. Subukan niyo munang mag-usap, linawin niyo ang mga bagay-bagay, pakinggan niyo ang isa’t isa. Tsaka dapat matuto din kayong umunawa, dapat hindi lang yung sarili ang pinapakinggan. Kung dapat magsorry, magsorry! Kung dapat mag-effort, mag-effort! Matuto tayong tumanggap ng pagkakamali at matuto din tayong humingi ng patawad.
Kung gusto palaging merong paraan. - LDR ba kayo? Magkalayo ba kayo ng school? Busy ba kayo sa mga schedule niyo? Sa tingin ko hindi yan sapat na rason para hindi mo magawang i-text at kamustahin yung taong mahal mo. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 30-31 days a month, grabe naman na sa mga oras na yan wala ka talagang panahon para sa taong mahal mo? Kahit sa simpleng tawag at text, matutuwa na yan na naalala mo siya kahit madami kang ginagawa. Kahit yayain mo siyang magsimba para mapanatiling matatag yung relasyon niyo, hindi mo ba kayang gawin? Kahit maglaan ka lang ng konting panahon sa kanya, malaki na aabutin niyan. Lahat naman ng bagay nagagawan ng paraan, maliban nalang kung ayaw mo din talaga na mag-effort para mapasaya siya.
Ayaw ng parents ko/Ayaw ng mga kaibigan ko/Umiepal si Ex. - Sabi nga nila, sa lahat ng lovestory may kontrabida na sagabal at haharang sa magandang takbo ng relasyon. Boring din naman siguro kung wala nun, kung walang problema kasi hindi niyo din mapapatunayan sa isa’t isa kung gaano katatag yung pagmamahalan niyo. Masusubok din yung kung gaano kayo katatag para ipaglaban yung isa’t isa, dyan masusukat kung hanggang saan ang niyong isakripisyo para mapanatiling matatag at masaya yung relasyon niyo.
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Hi! What would you do if some of your used to be so-called friends suddenly act like as if you're not friends anymore even when you've been always there for them. Parang isang araw nagising ka nalang tapos nagulat ka, nagbago na lahat?
All things change simultaneously and that’s something we can’t control most of the time but what we can control is how we react with the changes that occur within out reach. But it depends you know, what if you just feel that way like… naprapraning ka lang pala. This is the time when you need to evaluate things. What if busy lang sila o kaya may pinagdadaanan, o kaya ikaw pala ung medyo nawala. You don’t need to overthink everything.
And I gotta say… just because you’ve always been there for someone doesn’t mean they will automatically do the same.