I've never developed an obsession for anyone, or became a fan of someone on social media bc of how they looked. In this video he talks about how easy it is for ppl to reach different levels of "fame" or being well known threw taking selfies. But he said males have to seem like they have money, seem very popular and must be likeable or even funny to gain followers. That men don't get praised for just being attractive. They must be attractive AND ________. However women can. A woman can gain millions of followers just for being beautiful. For having nice clothes, nice makeup, nice hair, nice bodies. They don't have to be smart or display a personality at all, yet ppl will still be drawn to them. I'd have to agree to an extent. But like I said, I've never been a fan of someone simply bc they were attractive. At this point I follow ppl back mainly on ig, bc they request me, and I usually just follow right back. But when I was active on tumblr, I followed ppl bc I liked their taste in art, music and photography. That's what caught my attention. Idk. I do think this "selfie culture" created this acceptable shallowness, that allows certain ppl to become more well known than they really should be. I do think it's weird. Idk if it's bad yet. However in terms of how it affects women, I could never co-sign objectifying yourself to the point where ur basically a walking trend, that both males and females only come to look at. Yeah no... That can't be good. I wonder what draws ppl to me at this point. There's not much to see on my ig, but a lot to read.lol Case in point... 😌
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