living in my dreams

literally. used to have a crush on my 57yo high school teacher. now he’s my boyfriend

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any updates? I miss your blog :( xxxxx

I stopped posting after tumblr shadowbanned my acc and I can’t get it unbanned. Short life update: broke up with my former teacher who I was in a relationship with for the last 2 years (I guess that was the goal of this blog?) I had a short fwb thing going on for the past 2 months now with a guy in my friend-group, but ended up catching feelings. I’m trying to quit dating/guys for some time now until I find happiness in myself without validation from the outside. Beside that I am among the best students in my law school and part of the top league program where I met many new friends and acquaintances :)

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how are things?

So good! The dean’s office congratulated me on being among the best law students of my year :)

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sorry if this wasn't you, but didn't you used to be dating an older guy that you met in person, while you were walking somewhere (and he happened to be heading in the same direction)? I seem to remember reading a post about it on your old blog. just curious!

Yes that’s me! 🥰 But I’m not with that person anymore. We broke up last summer, when I decided that the relationship wasn’t the right one. I’m with my former high school teacher now and honestly couldn’t be happier with him.

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If someone managed to get their blog unflagged please dm me how you did it or write it in the comments! I feel like staff ignores most issues they get and only reply to tumblr users with a bigger following. Share this post if you have the same issue and are trying to get your blog unflagged. Thank you❣️

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@staff @support could you just please turn off the “explicit” mark on my blog?? I have no flagged posts to review so why did you have to flag my whole blog🥴

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Senior year is fucking ROUGH

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The roughest

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Now in law school thinking back at senior year... what a joke😂

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Don't let anyone discourage you. I am a 35 year old woman who has been 'exclusively' with younger men my whole adult life. Recently I fell in love with a man 12 years older than me. I never would have considered it, but he completely changed my life. His words made me feel whole again. His kisses are like the touch of an angel's wing. I'm madly in love and don't ever want to give this up.

Thank you for your kind words! That sounds wonderful and I’m glad you get to experience such joy. I wish you guys the best🤍🦋

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Imagine spending a dreamy weekend in this house with your tc🕯

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And we did spend a weekend in his vacation home🤍

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I wish this could be us

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Going through my old posts... And it is us now♥️

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don’t you want to live your adulthood with someone who can share similar experiences with you? if you think about the future, you’ll be what thirty and he’ll be 70. taking care of an old man who’s already lived most of his life.

That’s a good question! He and I have and still talk about that regularly, planning out a possible future and how we imagine it might look like. Whether we can see us getting married/moving in together/kids etc. It of course isn’t easy to manage these aspects with an age gap like ours, but we want to try and see where the future takes us. What we both know is that we do want to be together, because we match each other very well. I won’t try to deny that planning a future with a man that age is difficult, because it’s almost for sure that he will pass away while I’m still relatively young. But ultimately there is also the possibility of me marrying someone my age and getting cheated on or divorced... therefore being single anyway (and having to find someone else afterwards). My point is that nothing lasts forever. So I might as well enjoy and cherish the beautiful time I have for now. He also works out every day and keeps a clean diet, so while I know nothing is guaranteed, he is in far better condition than other men his age.

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You are dating guy who could be your grandad?

*dad

Also: “dating _a_ guy”

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Im extremely confused. Did u meet your ex on tumblr while having a blog entirely about having a crush on your hs teacher ? And after breaking up with him u date your hs teacher?

Yup!

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my mother’s best friend always gushed about their science teacher in high school. now they’ve been married for 10 years! so yeah it’s totally possible to have a very fulfilling tc relationship once you’ve graduated and are a consenting adult

Thank you for that precious anecdote!!🥰 it’s nice to hear from people in similar situations.