ShyQuest

39 | She/They | MDNI DMs open 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[catboybiologist]

Tapping the sign.

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“I just need to learn how to seem more normal and they’ll leave me alone,” she thought, lacking any ability to understand why the boys they said were her peers seemed to hate her from the moment they met her

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Patriarchal society teaches boys to hate girls and believe it or not being a girl involuntarily sorted into boys spaces can very often mean being seen as an acceptable (and even deserving) target for that prejudice

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“Hello yes the boys you keep forcing me to be around keep attacking me on sight and the girls I find myself relating to and drifting towards have already learned that ‘boys’ are dangerous, which I don’t disagree with, but as a result they’re keeping their distance out of fear that I’m the exact sort of predator I’m trying to find refuge from, may I have some basic human kindness and connection, please?”

“That’s extremely selfish of you have you considered that maybe you deserve to be abused?”

“I had not! I’ll just internalize that now since it’s the only consistent message that anyone is sending”

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

I literally cannot stress enough the constant societal forces that work 24/7 to make even an unrealized trans girl think that her existence is fundamentally wrong and she deserves to be punished for it

Before I knew it was about gender I still knew that there was something ‘defective’ about me that justified the bullying and the harassment and the total lack of empathy from the people who billed themselves as figures of authority

[boringkate]

If you do hardcore porn and you think you're better than someone who does full service sex work then you're a fool and a traitor.

If you do tastefully suggestive lingerie pics and you think you're better than someone who does full service sex work then you're a fool and a traitor.

If you're a barista and you think you're better than someone who does full service sex work then you're a fool and a traitor.

People that do full service sex work are cool as fuck!

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

This was posted as a sketch a bit ago. Growing up trans, even if you don't realize that's what you are, can be really rough. Sending love to everyone who's experienced that. Remember to check out the Patreon. I'm unemployed, and every little bit helps.

Webtoons, Tapas, Bluesky, Discord Server.

[boringkate]

Not to brag, but I'm quite good at laying in bed and saying stuff like "ugh" and "oof" and "nnnnn."

[uhhhhgay]

googled my symptoms and turns out I have to have a pretty girl kiss me

[skeletal-spire-man]

THE LIKE BUTTON IS GAY FOR PRIDE MONTH??????

Edit; you need to reblog the pride tags for it to work on reblogs (On web at least) (for me you do, may be a me problem)

[boringkate]

You can tell that straight women are more perverted than straight men because straight men only want to have sex with women (as any reasonable level headed person would) and straight women want to have sex with men (which even I only wanna do when I'm feeling EXTRA cum brained and depraved).

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

I just need a beautiful woman to tell me that my bizarre imitation of human social skills is alluring and sexy

[boringkate]

Reasons to take estrogen

Softer less oily skin

Less acne

Prevent male patern baldness

Less cleanup after orgasming

More free time (masturbating feels less urgent)

You can make new friends (membership to a new community)

More trans girls will wanna date you

Jiggle physics

It's something to do

Maybe you're bored

Be spared during the alien invasion and their purging of lesser lifeforms

It makes you smell nicer

More people will like your selfies

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

Hey, I like your comics and they are a bright spot in days indeed them!

As for a question, any advice to a transfemme who's starting to figure things out? Thank you!

Take it slow, and don't beat yourself up for anything difficult in the beginning. When I was just starting, I was very hard on myself for making 'mistakes' as I learned how to be myself again. It's okay to be bad at something; that's the first step to getting good at it.

One good example is that I used to always miss a spot or two while shaving my legs. And then I'd feel awful, like I was failing because I was missing a spot. "Surely," I thought, "Real girls don't miss a spot like that." Not only is that sort of thing unhealthy, but it's also just not true. You need to give yourself grace. I still miss a spot sometimes, and it doesn't make me any less.

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

People will say that trans women are dangerous and then you meet one and she’s just some girl named Luna who hasn’t had a hug in twenty years

[pjharvey]

we have to start running a massive PSA campaign to young gay people so everyone understands there is a difference between being a dom and being a top and between being a sub and being a bottom. and also that sometimes you are neither a sub nor a bottom and you're just like shy. we need to be handing out flyers we need ads at every train station spreading the word

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

If Spider-Gwen had a bi flag on her wall there wouldn’t be any debate as to whether or not she was really bi

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“Oh but I think that it’s that her version of Peter was trans so that’s why—”

This conversation would not exist if it was a bi flag or a pan flag or an ace flag

Why are you so eager to convince yourself that she’s not a trans woman? Why is that?

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

“I don’t mind characters being trans but I hate that it’s made their whole personality can’t it just be that they’re trans and the narrative doesn’t have the call all this attention to it? Just let it be subtly there”

Aight here’s a trans woman who’s narrative is thematically linked with her transness in a way that enriches both her story, her characterization, and the story around her who doesn’t ever mention that she’s trans (but y’know she has a trans flag in her room in the background subtly like you asked)

“Uhhhh yeah she isn’t trans where does it say that she’s trans and also why would it matter that she’s trans? Stop projecting yourself onto fictional characters”

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

I bet some of y’all think the message of Moby Dick is that we should kill whales

[boringkate]

Not to brag, but I'm so tired and sleepy.

[boringkate]

I love girlslop. I can't relate to anyone who only likes girls when they're high quality. I'll take all the low effort low quality low budget unoriginal girls you've got. Just keep churning em out.

[tobiasbones]

The other day i bought this yarn cause that’s obviously the trans flag, and I just saw that this colour is called ‘life’! I’m gonna cry