campion ; sileneon

[sileneon]

Sileneon, adjective;

a trans (or otherwise non-cis) person who is typically not attracted to all genders, but is t4t/tlt/campion towards all genders. a trans/non-cis person who prioritizes or prefers relationships with other trans/non-cis people to the point that their own typical gender preferences do not always matter towards their t4t/tlt/campion attraction.

Hey there! This is a trans*-focused attraction positivity blog! You may call me Beo (bay-o); I'm a transmasc nonbinary dude and an adult.

I found this term - Sileneon - a few months ago, and immediately clicked with it as a primarily m/nblm person. I also see very little positivity for queer wlm/mlw relationships (mspec folks, transhet folks, etc), so after a while of deliberation (and struggling to choose a URL) I made this blog :)

My posts will primarily be focused on sileneon/tlt/campion content but the blog is intended to be a queer mlw/wlm safe haven in general. I aim to have my non-explicitly-TLT posts as inclusive as possible. This blog is also generally 16+ but I personally advise you to be 18+ as there may be suggestive content (which will be tagged appropriately, including with #minors dni for easy filtering)

All my mlw/wlm posts include any nonbinary/genderqueer folks that ID with those terms!

You can send in your own gushing or positivity through asks or submissions, and I'll post it to the blog! However, I have the right to delete asks and submissions at my discretion. Anon will be on and off periodically.

Most of the people I don't want interacting probably won't pay any attention to this, so here's a pretty cursory DNI so y'all know what I stand for. If the following could not interact with this blog, that would be great:

Terfs/tehms/swerfs, gender critical/radfems, transmeds/radmeds/terfs, aphobe, biphobe, anti-neopronoun, anti-mogai, believe transandrophobia doesn’t exist, anti-kin, anti-queer, anti-mspec lesbians and gays, gatekeep femme and butch, pronoun policer, etc etc.

As a singlet I don’t participate in syscourse but I stick with the pro-endo crowd.

My content may contain mentions of slurs. I tag as #reclaimed, though I recommend blocking any you’re uncomfortable with through settings > filtering > filtered post content as well.

[sileneon]

actually t4t trans women are allowed to prioritise relationships with trans men. theyre allowed to consider trans men attractive and desirable and theyre allowed to get deep fulfilment from their relationships with trans men. trans women are not so delicate and precious that they have to reject all proximity to masculinity through others. trans women are allowed to love trans masculinity, for themselves and in others, and they are allowed to want trans masculinity. transhet, bi, queer, unlabeled, whatever they call themselves.

trans women aren't traitors, less queer, or less women for having attraction to masculinity.

[sileneon]

Masculine trans men and feminine trans women are good actually and masculine trans men dating feminine trans women are not “inherently straight passing relationships” or “basically cishet”, but we still think that bi people who date the opposite gender are somehow traitors so I suppose this is going to be a revelation to someone.

Anyway trans men and trans women in relationships that look conformant from the outside: you’re doing great sweeties don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

[sileneon]

Trans m/f relationships that are gnc are fantastic. trans women and trans men mixing masculinity and femininity together and helping each other explore what they want out of their presentations my beloved <3

[sileneon]

gnc trans women that wear suits and have short choppy hair and love themselves,,, gnc trans men with long hair that wear skirts and dresses and love themselves,,,, gnc trans men and gnc trans women that reclaim things associated with their agab and love themselves fiercely while doing it are so powerful!!!!

[sileneon]

trans men and trans women swapping clothes from before their transitions as a gesture of love and trust