Silktoast

@silkertoast

I do an art sometimes. They sometimes also look cool. My beloved says I should not care about how my creation and expression of soul is perceived, and that they’re the only voice that matters. I sure hope they’re wise in that opinion. Oh and expect a gargantuan surplus of reblogs, my posts here are rare and either dumb shit or weird art.

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kittensnax

I think about this all the time

zziazz

Some refs I did for drawing Noelle

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

kosmogrl

get in loser we’re gonna try again despite it all

star-mom-selkie

happy pride month

loveridden1999

the thing about phone in bed is that it's so awesome. almost makes you feel like betraying & destroying yourself for nothing isn't all so bad

You ever start drawing after lying motionlessly for 6 months and then start thinking “I still got it!”

paradise-paradise

(old) request from friend

hashkath-skies

next scene is both Kris and Susie in the tree chewing on bark 100%

podcastwizard

you don’t realize how important lunch is until you’re wandering around thinking about how unloveable and untalented and uniquely cursed you are and then it’s 4pm and you finally eat lunch and you go Oh. oh right.