rogu

22, she/her, tramsgebder bnuuy, trying to poast on @gremlishpoaster

[awatime]

pondering on the time i said i liked eating yummy fruits or something and a woman at my college whom i previously held in quite high regard took the opportunity to tell me they like "chubby trans girls". the next day i ate a large sandwich in front of my trans guy coworker and he commented on it going straight to my hips ass and breasts. no objection from bystanders in each of these incidents. for context im like recovering from being deathly skinny all my life. makes you think about the way that people think and speak about weight gain and trans women.

[loveridden1999]

[gremlininho]

let me. innnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

[herpsandbirds]

Malayan Slug-Snake (Asthenodipsas malaccanus), family Pareidae, Yala, Thailand

photograph by Leah Khananashvili

[yay-bunnies-world]

out od all animals, bunnies have the highest level Gay Little Paws skill

[ryebreadgf]

once I snorted a fat line of nuance and everything started depending. watch out

[gazeldhazel]

can we stop treating mages as the party toy. im sick and tired of being laughed at and kicked to my knees every time i suggest one of the many ways i can help the party. i just dont fucking underst-lgkl glk glkglk

[medievaljournalist]

can i borrow the mandate of heaven for like 5 minutes

[blemgoid]

entering the polycule not as a conqueror, but a liberator

[doemiqwerty]

girlfriend's phlebotomy class

[nulltwink]

[wintercorrybriea]

Mangalica pig

[miyoria]

beach day ~ 🏖️

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[wolfsteax]

I humbly offer this contribution.

[shegayonmygirl]

let's stop platforming transandrobros with mama, I really don't give a shit if their addition was good or their post was funny, stop it.

[dogpuppy]

[trashgoblin11]