girlfailure poetics

she/her/hers. transfeminist. 33. lesbian trans woman. Making letters into shapes.

[girlfailure-poetics]

new pinned post incoming

32 year old trans woman, recovering addict, california sober. currently living in [redacted because of the transmisogynist freaks on here].

i mostly post about what i'm watching, reading, playing and thinking about, and i am always trying to bring a critical, thoughtful analysis to anything i engage with. this is not the blog to be trying "it's not that deep" on.

i do not mince words. i do not go out of my way to be mean, but i will be very direct with you, especially if you start nonsense on one of my posts. i also match energy, so if you come onto my posts being rude, i will be rude back

secretly, i'm actually very kind and funny and i like explaining things when people are genuinely curious.

[girlfailure-poetics]

nothing leads you down dead-end ideologies like trying to avoid facing the fact of “trans women are really women for real”

[girlfailure-poetics]

it’s me, trans-girl-hank-hill

[girlfailure-poetics]

ate so much mascarpone whipped cream. feel like a kitten with a full belly. but I also drank the leftover coffee

[girlfailure-poetics]

anyways, enough about that misogynist anon. today im gonna try to make tiramisu

[girlfailure-poetics]

shes beautiful :) I whipped her cream by hand :)

[missstrogen]

some of yall just hate women

[bridgekc]

the love triangle but yuri

[gingersnapsvhs]

anyway, i love labels and i love MY label and i love not being attracted to men and only being attracted to men (which is what the label "lesbian" means btw since some of you seem confused) and yes it does make me better and happier! so glad you noticed! :) i'm kissing the lesbian label with tongue and thinking about how cool it is that i will never fuck or date or marry a man! labeling my sexuality explicitly and closing myself off to men entirely because they disgust me and i've never been attracted to them is legitimately the best thing i've EVER done for myself! dykes are the best people on planet earth, and this explicitly includes transfem dykes! if you know that i'm a lesbian and then start trying to talk about how much you hate labels and how "harmful" labels are and how we're "putting ourselves in boxes", i need you to know that 1.) you are an unsafe person for lesbians to be around and 2.) this "box" has set me free more than anything else on earth and i will gladly stay in there and have decorated it and made it so beautiful and you're jealous because you're not invited, which is what the real issue is here.

[girlfailure-poetics]

i love being a woman :) and not in a sunshine and rainbows way. like. I love being biologically and ideologically a woman. mostly because it like, allows me to diagnose experiences I’ve had my whole life. why yes I did just smoke a joint and watch a postfeminist lecture

[girlfailure-poetics]

watching my comfort lecture

[girlfailure-poetics]

I wish I could remember more of who I was before the panopticon got me. I think a lot about how knowing I am or could be surveilled, even broadcast, influences my behavior

[girlfailure-poetics]

anyways, enough about that misogynist anon. today im gonna try to make tiramisu

[girlfailure-poetics]

did blocking every transandrophobia account actually help you cause every 5 posts you have a post about trans men I don’t think it’s helping you think about it less

unfortunately this website is infested with misogynists so as much as id like to not think about misogynists I am constantly reminded of their pathetic little beliefs and minds and thoughts. maybe take it up with the misogynists

[girlfailure-poetics]

on tumblr they get madder at how women live and post under systemic misogyny than they do the systemic misogyny

[girlfailure-poetics]

like, anon, sincerely: do you not think id rather only ever have to post about Twin Peaks and baking and weed, and never misogyny?? do you think that in noticing the problem I am creating it???

[girlfailure-poetics]

did blocking every transandrophobia account actually help you cause every 5 posts you have a post about trans men I don’t think it’s helping you think about it less

unfortunately this website is infested with misogynists so as much as id like to not think about misogynists I am constantly reminded of their pathetic little beliefs and minds and thoughts. maybe take it up with the misogynists

[girlfailure-poetics]

on tumblr they get madder at how women live and post under systemic misogyny than they do the systemic misogyny

[girlfailure-poetics]

did blocking every transandrophobia account actually help you cause every 5 posts you have a post about trans men I don’t think it’s helping you think about it less

unfortunately this website is infested with misogynists so as much as id like to not think about misogynists I am constantly reminded of their pathetic little beliefs and minds and thoughts. maybe take it up with the misogynists

[girlfailure-poetics]

on tumblr it’s called “malgendering” if you react negatively to a trans man or transmasc person being misogynistic to you. instead you should thank him, especially if youre an amab

[girlfailure-poetics]

if a trans woman defends herself that’s “male socialization,” which is bad and against Intersectional Feminism. a real woman would just allow men to be misogynistic towards her because she knows the patriarchy hurts men too. trans men can’t be male socialized

[girlfailure-poetics]

on tumblr it’s called “malgendering” if you react negatively to a trans man or transmasc person being misogynistic to you. instead you should thank him, especially if youre an amab