How Come You Never remarried?
"How come you never married again?" Always ask a divorced or widowed person this question? If so, shame on you. In another article by me (here) I explore the world most stupid question: "Why are not you married?" And interview people who are often made with this issue, and their responses very clever! But a close second stupidest questions is, if someone is a widowed or divorced person asks, "How come you never married again?" What a stupid, idiotic question. It has also asked an insulting question.It 's to make the person think that the widespread search for your perfect soul mate twice as light as butter on toast! I would never stoop so low as to ask someone why she never remarried. I'm just not stupid enough to ask why a person never remarried. In fact, I am not stupid enough to ask why a person never married again, as my aunt who lost her husband to cancer when he was relatively young.They'd already had five children was at the time, but my aunt a young widow and attractive. I never asked why she never remarried. The answer is too obvious. But I was wondering why they never "become obsolete." My mother told me my aunt had never been interested in men again after her husband died. No, she is not gay, just not interested in any kind of romantic relationship whatsoever, even after the five children were all grown and long gone. But it is very common for widows and widowers, and be divorced, the question of why they happen, never remarried.My aunt is the extreme exception. Many divorcees do not have time to find new romance. Many widows and widowers mourn only a few months ago, which are in new relationships, or joining singles groups for widows / ers. They will often join dating services or place singles ads. But why not get some married again? DuHHH! Do not you know how difficult it is to find two soul mates? Is not it hard enough, just a partner who can see only last a few months? It's the old saying: There is someone for everybody.Clue: "Someone" refers to a person. It is not: "There are some people for all." There is someone. This refers to a person. This famous line concludes that each person has only one soul mate on this planet.Actually, I do not think we have only one soul mate. We all have maybe a couple dozen perfect life partner, perhaps several hundred. Therefore, no matter where a person lives or is moving, they usually end up looking for someone they love enough to marry. It is no coincidence that freak my cousin, who grew up in New York, found only by chance a kindred spirit in Germany, after she moved to Germany in search of adventure. After many years they are still married. Had she stayed in New York, I'm sure they would have found another soul mate.Or had moved to California and Ireland, they would have found another soul mate. But because we all have a few hundred potential soul mate is perfect, does not mean it is smart, cool or polite, someone ask, "Why did you never get married again?" Some widows / ers and divorced people can actually give final , complex reasons why she never remarried. But these reasons ultimately all the same, basic, fundamental reason: they have never crossed with a second soul mate. Although a little effort, this (marketing and responding to ads, singles, singles groups, visitors, joining dating services, visit the beach, etc.) is needed, let's face it: much of it is due to luck. Many people are happily married by the way met by chance, as the policeman who pulls over a woman for speeding. Six months later they are married. It's luck of the draw. Or maybe it's like the planets ask aligned.Don 't know why they will never marry again. It really is the world's second-most stupid question. And they can be very offensive. Maybe the person you're curious about has hundreds of data over the years and has become bitter, depressed and frustrated. You can only add fuel to fire by why she never married again.
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