Set aside some time, to allow yourself to work through each step. Don’t rush or skip ahead. Self Care is important, and you deserve to devote some time to it.
You may want to go through this routine as soon as you wake up, as a preventive measure.
1 - Have you eaten in the last four hours?
If you haven’t eaten in a little while, your body needs fuel. It’s time for breakfast, lunch, or dinner.
If there’s a specific food you want, it’s okay to eat it! You don’t have to eat perfectly healthy all the time– no one does! Just also use your brain a little, and notice the quantity you’re eating, and how healthy it is for you. You’re probably just fine at trusting your gut and knowing what your body needs.
Making a meal is hard for you right now, and that’s okay! Everybody struggles with cooking sometimes.
You can cook a meal for yourself.
You might have ready-made meals in the fridge.
You can get take-out or delivery.
You can go to a restaurant.
Take-out, delivery, and restaurants are a little more expensive than cooking on your own, but how you spend your money is your decision. It’s okay to treat yourself!
If you’re going to cook on your own, you have to decide what to make. A friend, partner, or family member can help with this.
Here are some ideas for easy foods you can eat right now:
Pasta with butter, sauce, cheese, vegetables, and/or meat
Grilled cheese (This can have meat on it, if you want!)
Eggs, pancakes, and/or bacon
2 - Have you taken any medication you need to take?
Medication needs to be taken on schedule, or your body might react negatively.
Take some time now to take any pills, do any tests or injections, or apply any ointments prescribed by your doctor.
If this is a persistent problem for you, you may want to set a smart phone alarm so you remember to take it at the same time every day.
3 - Are you keeping yourself hydrated?
Drink a glass of whatever liquid you like best. Water is ideal, but don’t beat yourself up if you’d rather have tea, soda, juice, or milk. Soda will actually make you feel thirstier, but if it’s easier for you, then that’s okay!
4 - Can you take a guess at how many hours you’ve slept out of the last 24?
Everyone is an individual with different sleep schedules, but most people need 8 hours of relatively uninterrupted sleep. If you had less than that, and/or woke up frequently, and/or had nightmares, it might help you to take a nap.
Take a nap. You can finish this self-care guide when you wake up.
Ideally, let yourself sleep naturally, and sleep until you wake up. Obviously, this isn’t always possible. Otherwise, set an alarm for yourself, with plenty of time to wake up and get yourself together between your nap and your responsibilities.
If there is something your doctor has prescribed you for pain, you should take it or do it.
For aches and pains, take an aspirin. You may also want to apply a heating pad or a cold pack on whatever hurts.
If you have a stomach ache, there are medications for that, like Pepto Bismol, and hot tea may also help.
Be nice to your body, and try to do “replace” the unpleasant pain with some pleasant alternative sensations, like good smells and pleasurable textures.
6 - Is something about your environment distressing or uncomfortable? Are your surroundings the right temperature?
If you’re too cold, you can try putting on some warm clothes, using a space heater, turning up the heat in your home, putting on a blanket, and/or snuggling with a pet or another person.
If you’re too hot, you can try putting on cooler clothes, turning on a fan, or turning up the AC in your house.
7 - Are your surroundings dirty or smelly?
It’s hard to feel okay in an environment that is unfriendly for whatever reason. If your surroundings aren’t clean, set a timer for five minutes and take care of the biggest problems, like leftover food, pet messes, or dirty clothes.
Chores can be scary and exhausting, but that’s not what we’re doing here. We’re just taking a little five-minute clean up to make ourselves and our homes happier!
8 - Do you feel unsafe because of the people, or lack of people, in your surroundings?
If you can, try to remove yourself from situations that are overwhelming or feel unsafe. If you can’t relocate entirely, take frequent breaks, or tune out with headphones.
9 - Does your body feel uncomfortable, sweaty, or dirty?
If you have the energy and ability to take a shower, it may be a good idea. If you are unable to take a shower, here are some things to do instead:
Whatever physical self-care activity you like best!
10 - Do you know why you’re in a bad mood, or not feeling well emotionally?
(Remember, any answer is okay!) If there’s something on your mind, we’re going to do our best to take care of it.
11 - If there is something in your mind, set a timer for 15 minutes, and work on a solution.
If it’s something you can change, then great! If not, do your best to reach out to someone and talk about it.
12 - Remember, 15 minutes and only 15!
You can go back to whatever it is after we’re done working through this together. We’re just taking baby steps in the right direction.
13 - Sometimes, we don’t know the source of our bad feelings, and that’s okay.
14 - Do you feel anxious, nervous, keyed-up, paranoid, scared, or on edge?
If you’re generally anxious but don’t know why, that’s okay!
If you’re feeling anxious about something specific. That’s okay! Set a timer for 15 minutes and do something to take care of that worry. Maybe chip away at a task that seems insurmountable. You can do it!
15 - Here are some ideas for grounding activities:
Notice and list things in your surroundings.
Expose yourself to strong, pleasant sensations, like a pleasing smell or a favorite blanket.
Say out loud your name, your age, the date, and your location. List some things you’ve done today, or are going to do.
Splash water on your face or run your hands under the faucet.
Do a body scan meditation, or pay close attention to each of your body parts one by one.
Make tea. Feel the warmth of it in your hands, and the taste as you sip it calmly. Listen to music.
Play a categories game, and name some types of dogs, or clothing items, or gemstones, or countries, or anything else you can think of.
Take a mindful walk, either inside or outside. Pay close attention to your body and your surroundings.
Squiggle. Wiggle around. Dance. Stretch. Be silly and active for a few minutes.
Any other favorite grounding technique you’ve heard of or can think of.
There’s nothing wrong with experimenting!
16 - Do you feel triggered? Are you having flashbacks? Is something traumatic or upsetting from the past weighing on your mind? Did you have a vivid nightmare?
If you’re feeling triggered, see if there’s a practical action you can take to lessen your distress. Can you block that unsafe person from your Facebook, for example?
If not, reach out and tell someone safe how you’re feeling. Just express yourself! Human contact works wonders when you’re not feeling well emotionally.
Remember that you’re here in the present, and nothing from your past can hurt you. If you like, you may want to try some grounding exercises to reinforce that idea.
17 - Are you feeling dissociated, depersonalized, or derealized? Do you feel far away, foggy, or unreal? Are you not sure who you are?
Go back to number 6 and try the grounding activities.
18 - Are you feeling depressed, sad, or upset?
Feeling depressed isn’t fun, but it doesn’t last forever! Don’t be mad or disappointed with yourself for feeling depressed.
Take 15 minutes and accomplish something small, like loading the dishwasher or making a friendship bracelet. You are not a failure, and your situation is not hopeless! You are a superhero, even if it doesn’t feel like it.
19 - Are you feeling lonely?
Everybody feels lonely sometimes. If you’re feeling lonely, there’s ways to reach out to people!
You can talk to someone in your house, or call someone on the phone. You can also use texting or Facebook messenger to speak to someone. You may want to talk about how you’re feeling, or you may not. Anything you want to talk about is okay!
If that isn’t or doesn’t seem possible, you can post a general message on Facebook, Tumblr, Vent, or another internet service, about whatever you want!
20 - Are you feeling foggy?
If you are feeling foggy, you might need some exercise.
21 - Do you have the energy and ability to go for a walk?
If you can’t take a walk, that’s okay!
Here are some alternatives:
Push ups or sit ups, if you like doing them
Walking up and down the stairs
Wiggling, squirming, jiggling around; being silly and active and having fun!
If none of those are or seem possible, just sit outside for some fresh air!
22 - Do you have pets at home?
Playing with pets can be a great way to take the edge off when you’re not feeling well. It doesn’t matter what kind of pet you have, just take some time to interact with them. Pet your cat, take your dog outside, feed your fish, hug your lizard…
23 - Take half an hour and do whatever you want to do right now.
This can be anything: crafts, watching TV, laying on the couch, taking a walk, playing Farmville… your choices are literally endless!
Obviously, don’t do anything that’s bad for you, like feeding addictions or harming yourself or others
24 - It’s time to reassess.
Maybe now that you’ve done all this self care, you feel better– great! Maybe you don’t, and that’s okay too. But hopefully you’ve cleared things up and you know what to do next to take care of yourself.
You deserve self care, so even if it’s hard, do your best!
source: Jace Harr - Please do not remove the source
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