The Domination, Control and Feminization of my Sissy slaves @sissy-master-4-u - Tumblr Blog

New Chinese Copy of Fancysteel design

Why Chastity?

Before listing some key reasons, let’s emphasize that chastity encompasses more than just caging a penis. Submissive men with great self-control can be perfectly chaste through obedience alone, a very impressive feat. Dominant men may also prefer a sub with an unusually small penis to have it fully visible. So with both options (caging and pure obedience) in mind, here goes:

Ownership: It reflects someone’s ownership over your body. He decides when it’s right for you to climax. Your orgasms are secondary. It is about the fact that you have ceded control over them to the man who owns your body. He can decide to have you beat off on a whim, or deny it for discipline.

Arousal: Chastity will make you unusually horny. Being unable to release that sexual tension makes you sexually charged. Your feelings of sexual attraction are revved up, and you become more open to new sexual experiences. Paradoxically, you feel more like a sexual person than when you were free. You are always in a state of readiness.

Realignment: Chastity leads to drastic changes in sexual behavior. Being unable to jerk off leads to exploring other forms of sexual activity, such as focusing on your ass, mouth, and nipples (and male breasts for those who have them).

Self-Control: This is particularly true when chastity is achieved through pure obedience. For those unprepared for this leap, who cannot control their own urges, a cage is like a bike with training wheels. Your key-holder can help you learn the virtues of chastity, to the point where you are eventually able to exercise full self-control. Admittedly, some may never reach that point, and may need to remain caged.

Role Clarity: You enjoy being in a relationship characterized by well-defined and contrasting roles - Dominant and submissive, top and bottom. Sublimating a defining trait of masculine identity - seeing your penis small, limp, and useless except to pee - is psychologically potent. It helps you focus on serving your obviously more masculine partner, both in and out of bed. Especially when caged, it unmistakably signals no need for reciprocation. Your penis is clearly marked as not a sexual organ, focusing your partner’s attention on your ass, mouth, and nipples.

(Inspired by an illustrated post by @chastestories, but extensively rewritten to expand the concept beyond caging)

deniedumpling

Eloquently put. Stay locked!

elfieschastityworld

I am not gonna lie, I thought about re-spinning this.

So lockdown 03/18 was over and I spun to see how long I would be free. Two days was not much but hey it would be uncaged days. But when I spun to see if I could cum I got a relock.

The very first time I use them in this wheel and I land on one of them!

I am sentenced to another 25 days locked! That will be 49 days straight!

Damn if my Challenge post gets the 100 reblogs that would be another 50 days…

nikkiprincessssi

sisyvanessa

Mmm ya

sissy-slut-roxy-deactivated2022

Yup

chastitycollection

“Recommended Annual Ejaculations” Chart

I created my own, more extensive “Recommended Annual Ejaculations” Chart. It lists how often you’re allowed to cum, depending on your age and cock size.

The two smaller tables to the left show you the age you will have your last orgasm (permanent chastity for life after that), and the recommended method of cumming.

The green highlight is just for myself (I’m in the 6in bracket and will be permanently denied at age 27).

lockedstoner-deactivated2025010

So hot to think about! I’m 20 years old and my little dick is only 4.5 hard when unlocked, so, according to this, I’d only get to orgasm 8 times this year. In each my cock would be untouched and I would just get an anal orgasm. If I was only unlocked for each of my orgasms, I would be get one orgasm every 45 days :O

theoriginalcrazyferelden

Benefits Of Male Chastity

1. It stops your man from wasting his time and libido masturbating. If you are in a relationship, all of his sexual energy should be directed at you. It should not be wasted on him touching himself and thinking about other women. As long as he can masturbate, he is psychologically cheating on you - and lying to you by default. 2. Your sex life will improve. Because he’ll have to please you in order to get his release, he’ll become a more experimental and better lover. You will have more orgasms per week than you’ve ever had before. 3. Your relationship will become stronger. Male chastity encourages open and honest communication about each other’s needs. This is an incredible benefit for any couple, and why male chastity can help any couple improve their natural bonding. 4. His orgasms will improve. As long as he can masturbate regularly, he is taking action that desensitizes his penis. Once he is on a more normal ejaculation schedule, his penis will become more sensitive and his orgasms will become stronger. 5. You will never have to worry about him cheating on you. Face it - most men, no matter how much they love their wives, can’t turn down an attractive, sexy woman. Male chastity makes it impossible for him to act on these urges, so you are helping him remain faithful. 6. The romance will come back into your relationship. As long as he knows he can have sex with you any time he wants, there’s no reason for him to romance you. That’s why the romance stopped after you got married. By limiting his sexual access to you, you’ll train him to be the romantic lover he was when you were still dating. 7. You’ll never have to perform oral sex on him again. Of course, you can if you want to; but he’ll be quite happy with any sort of release, and certainly never bother you to do it for him. 8. Your friends will compliment you on what a wonderful, attentive husband you have. They will be so jealous of your strong, committed relationship. 9. He’ll become much more helpful around the house. Knowing that the only way he can get the release his body craves so badly is by pleasing you, he’ll actually volunteer to do the dishes, clean the bathroom and make the bed every morning. Won’t that be nice? 10. He’ll feel better about himself. Most men are ashamed that they masturbate so often (usually seven to 15 times a weeks! Ewww!). But, they are slaves to their libido and can’t help themselves. It’s an addiction. Mostly it makes them feel like little boys who can’t control themselves. Once he no longer is able to give into the temptation to masturbate, he’ll feel proud of his self-control and behave more like a grown-up man who releases his sexuality into his wife, instead of down the shower drain.