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@slmwife
Couple things stood out...
The psi at an early age to be successful and not loose what I found... relationship... what new life skill do I begin? Christianity was the model behavior forgiveness and thriving with the nine gifts of Holy Spirit..
Autopilot mode- my auto pilot would back fire in relationship behavior rooted in Limbic system 4F response.
Emot. Numbness- going thru motions w/o the ability to regulate emotions.
FUNCTIONAL FREEZE 20-40yrs
Vs
Attunement, emotional regulation
25:20 - emotional flashbacks... treating loved ones with over the top Hard /harsh behavior suppressed feelings from childhood.
Shame and inability to be authentic..(42:00) judgement today,
Relation Dynamics LEFT UNTREATED
14:21 healthy repair looks like emotional equals
Types of temperament
Undeliverable communications in relationships
-(14:00)dominate or belly up conditioning in conflict
-14:21 healthy repair looks like collaborative "emotional" equals...we are both on the same team, both emotions matter,
-turbo charged material from childhood
Song · 1983 · Duration 4:14
Master the skills that change lives — enroll in your free human behavior course today: https://nci.university/learnPlease note that the cont
Emotionally in debt
What is trauma bonding ?
We dated and were witnessed during a cathartic cry ... we were witnessed without judgement...
Our nervous systems were attuned
We also experienced physical intimacy...
Watching In Treatment S2E10 Paul at Gina's talking about Tammy Kent at 14yrs Paul remembers how her presents transcended him from daily issues at home.
Flash... how SLM did the same for me... I wanted to be a prized boy friend but my unresolved childhood twisted my view of emotional vulnerability in relationship. My devotion to Christianity was a common value shared... my unintegrated nervous system was too of high maintenance...
Kids were not cared for emotionally therefore feelings not seen... so they don't value as a core belief (wound)
QUESTION:
Did I marry a golden child?
Nothing I did was good enough??
Was that an internal compass of hers I was attracted to??
Also, to Adam lane Smith's point... as a fearful ... I also didn't deposit safe emotion and bonding.
Dating SLM - we trauma bonded with emotional connection... crying empathy...
My Part... unable to be vulnerable with her and others... the shame base was too constructive... stuck in Limbic System ... unable to live in awareness state PFC curiosity... stuck however in autopilot (subconscious/shadow self)
