There are timeâs in our life where we have no choice but to wait. No matter how much we want to make things happen and rush them along. This waiting place or season can be so uncomfortable initially. By nature people do not like to wait, we want things faster and faster. In trying to be patient we are sometimes faced with different disappointments and delays. Maybe you think the wait is over only to find out itâs going to be a bit longer, and you still donât know how long. This on going cycle can be a bit discouraging at times and seem to go on forever. So much so, that I have found there is a danger in it. Something to watch out for. Yes, we need to be patient and remain hopeful, steadfast, and determined, however the danger is to become too comfortable in the waiting. When we become too comfortable in the âwaiting placeâ we can fail to take action on opportunities. We become so comfortable âdoing nothingâ that we forget how to âdo somethingâ. Â
Since this is the month of St. Paddyâs Day, a holiday which represents luck and good fortune to many, I thought it fitting to speak about luck. I love some of the dictionary definitions of luck. Merriam Websters Online Dictionary lists it this way:
1. a : a force that brings good fortune or adversity
b : the events or circumstances that operate for or against an individual 2 : favoring chance; also : success
In regards to the first description (a), perhaps your action, along with your faith that something good will happen, is the very force needed to bring about the positive outcome. As stated in the second description (b), perhaps the circumstances that operate for or against the individual are our own thoughts. If we were to let the duration of the journey deter us for example, or allow ourselves to stay discouraged in a place with defeated thinking, then we may stay stuck in the waiting place forever. Parked, comfortable, settling. In the third definition (2) it mentions a favoring chance for success. Â Are you giving yourself a favoring chance with positive, hopeful thinking and faith with action? Or are you parked in a garage of discouragement?
I do not believe in so called âluckâ. I believe we make our own âluckâ or rather favorable results by the choices we make. We sow seeds good or bad and what we reap is what we planted. If you sow discouraging words: âmy life is always going to be this wayâ âThis is just my luckâ ânothing good every happens to meâ, then you have already settled with that outcome. You have already accepted a negative result. Youâve stopped fighting for more, for better. You have become too comfortable in the waiting and have allowed discouragement to creep in. Unfortunately, the reaping of planting seeds like this end up coming out in bitterness, jealously, and depression.
Our waiting should be a place of patiently anticipating good things are coming. The moment that hope if lost, there is danger of settling for less and/or staying parked in an unpleasant place of despair.
Stay determined to plant good seed, fertilizing your garden (mind, heart, soul) frequently with encouragement and affirmation to bring about a positive outcome. Some of the results here could be: endurance, patience, self control, joy, optimism (Hope), and gratefulness.
Waves may come, but we ultimately steer the rutter and have full control of the anchor. So what direction are you steering for and where have you placed your anchor?
The things I share are directly from my own experience and things I have personally learned. This one especially is close to my heart as it was a very recent learned lesson. I realized that their were places in my life and heart where I had gotten too comfortable in the âwaiting placeâ and have failed to wait with anticipation, cease opportunity, and take actions towards certain goals. The wind is back in my sails and I know the direction Iâm headed for. I hope with all my heart that what I have shared would put wind in your sails again too and help to get you back on course (for those of you who need it).
Here are a few more words of encouragement w/love, Gigi Smallz













