"I Want & I Allow, Therefore IT IS." Its Always Me

Welcome to the side of me that doesn't care what anyone thinks. This is my domain & current happy place until I make a reality in my current life. I love God, myself, my moms, my daughter, & everyone else accordingly. I love basketball, shopping, eating, traveling, & putting myself first. I love women too. I'm focused on being beautiful (internal & external). If you feel you beautiful as well, feel free to express it.... *SEND YOUR VERSION TO [email protected] (PICTURES of all forms welcome too)* You will find humor, positive thought/affirmations, thought provoking questions, & random things/issues on my mind. Hopefully you will find it entertaining & educational.

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⭐Vitamin Cheat Sheet⭐

Vitamin A: Vision, immune system, skin health.

Vitamin B1 (Thiamine): Energy metabolism, nerve function.

Vitamin B2 (Riboflavin): Energy production, skin health.

Vitamin B3 (Niacin): Cellular energy production, skin health.

Vitamin B5 (Pantothenic Acid): Metabolism, hormone production.

Vitamin B6: Brain function, mood regulation.

Vitamin B7 (Biotin): Healthy hair, skin, and nails.

Vitamin B9 (Folate): Cell division, DNA synthesis.

Vitamin B12: Nervous system, red blood cells.

Vitamin C: Immune system, collagen synthesis.

Vitamin D: Bone health, immune function.

Vitamin E: Antioxidant, skin health.

Vitamin K: Blood clotting, bone health.

Calcium: Bone and teeth health, muscle function.

Iron: Oxygen transport, energy production.

Magnesium: Nerve function, muscle relaxation.

Zinc: Immune system, wound healing.

Potassium: Fluid balance, nerve function.

Iodine: Thyroid function, metabolism.

Selenium: Antioxidant, thyroid health.

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How to not put others before yourself:

Set boundaries and say "no" when needed

Prioritize your own mental & physical health

Make time for personal goals and hobbies

Avoid overcommitting to others' needs or demands

Take breaks to recharge without feeling guilty

Focus on your own growth and self-care first

Say “yes” to things that align with your values, not out of obligation

Communicate your needs clearly without apologizing

Avoid seeking validation by pleasing everyone

Delegate tasks instead of taking everything on yourself

YOU COME FIRST ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS!!!!!!!!!!!

Start creating a schedule, put everything in the schedule that YOU need to do for you. Any free time you have after that is the time you can make available for anyone else. Never compromise yourself, your plans or your goals for someone else. The right people will align with you and your plans will fit perfectly with each other.

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Ready for winter arc?

• Drink a gallon of water a day

• Wake up early

• Take 10k steps a day

• Stick to your diet

• Work out 5-6 times a week

• Enjoy 1 active rest day

• Limit fast food

• Sleep for 8 hours

• Try a new hobby

• Drop fake friends

• Study for 2 hours a day

• Read books

• Keep your phone on DND after 8 PM

• Remove toxic people from your life

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HOW TO STAY UNBOTHERED!

1. Never say more than necessary.

2. Don't allow your emotions to overpower your intelligence.

3. Lower your expectations from others.

4. Let your success do the talking.

5. 10 people 10 different opinions. Stop pleasing.

6. Remember your haters are your fans.

7. Don't be afraid to say "NO".

9. Know your truth and be okay with someone else not believing you.

10. Stop taking things personally.

• Let go of control: You can't control others' actions or words, just your reactions.

• Humor: Learn to laugh things off when appropriate.

• Set boundaries: Limit contact with negativity and prioritize supportive people.

• Communicate clearly: Ask for clarification Instead of assuming negativity

• Shift your perspective: Consider the source and if their comment reflects on them more than you.

• Focus on what you can control: Improve your own communication and self-care.

• Thicken your skin: Build strong self-worth and know your value.

11. Healthy detachment.

• Let people be who they want to be, then decide if you want them in your life.

• Trust that rejection is always redirection to something bigger and better.

• Some people are only meant to help you grow, not be in your life forever.

• What if everything is falling apart to come together in a way you can't guess?

• Focus only on what you can control.

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Men’s Size 7 Red/White/Silver Prada Shoes

Men’s Patent leather and technical fabric Prada America's Cup sneakers. These patent leather sneakers with bike fabric inserts are inspired by an iconic aesthetic. The unmistakable Prada Linea Rossa logo on the tongue and sole enhances the design. Color-Red/White/Silver Size 7 Men’s Brand New With Box

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Custom suit

Made for a 6 ft 6 man Bd tailor shop Chicago by Bill Adjustable pants from 36-42 waist

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Tan dress shoe

Leather upper and lining

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Custom suit with vest

Single button closure jacket Vest 6 button Made for man 6 ft 6

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Retro Jordan 9 University Gold

Taking a more subtle approach to the Air Jordan IX, this rendition pairs subdued tones of black and charcoal on genuine nubuck leather with pops of University Gold throughout the sockliner and branding on the midsole, tongue and heel.

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Boys loafers

Wore once perfect condition

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Faded Black 38W ROCAWEAR Tapered Jeans

Black faded ROCAWEAR Jeans. 38Waist. Tapered Fit. Gently Used. Great condition

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Large Argentina Hoodie Sweatshirt. Two toned blue colors with yellow lettering

Large Argentina Hoodie by Mitré. Light blue with dark blue sleeves and hood. Yellow Lettering. Used

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Sleek! Brand is Forté. Size XXL. Black Studded shirt, with drawstrings & chains

Very sleek and stylish Black shirt by the Brand Forté. Size of shirt is XXL/2XL. Shirt is studded with drawstrings. Chain links going up the side. Worn two times. Gently used

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Denim & Supply Ralph Lauren. Dark Blue Jeans 38W 34L Straight Leg

Denim & Supply Ralph Lauren Dark Blue Jeans. Barely worn. Gently used. Tag on back is Vintage. 38W 34L Straight Leg

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Sean Jean Track Jacket XXXL or 3XL Ivory color with Beige/Tan & Orange Stripes

Sean Jean XXXL/3XL Track Jacket. Ivory with Tan/Orange Stripes. Vintage/Retro look. Gently Used. Pockets and zippers work

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Calvin Klein Blue Jeans 36W 34L Straight Leg

Calvin Klein Straight Leg Blue Jeans. Gently used. In good condition. Classic

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Original Outerwear XXL Camouflage Vest

Original Outerwear Camouflage Vest. Nylon. Gently Used. Good Condition

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