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22. aro/ace. she/her I DO NOT TAKE REQUESTS

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oh god, I love new york, it's my religion 𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶཐི༏ཋྀ

ྀིྀི m.list

ྀིྀི about this blog/me

writing status: snail pace, incredibly slow.. kinda lost interest in writing and my new hobby is painting… I’ll come back around

requests: I do not take requests.

fic(s) I’m working on: in order

baran smut/comfort

mel x parker x reader fic

vi fic

cassie mckay smut

lara croft one shot

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IM GONNA ADOPT A CAT

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we miss ya babe... come back soon....

im looking forward to your next fic

thank you!

lowkey got back into harry potter... wish there were a wlw character to write about i love the hp world.. there's just no wlw women unfortunately... :(

i guess moreso i have interedst in writing, just no character really appeals to me rn... which depletes my interest

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BABY WE MISS YOU WHERE ARE YOU

melted into my bed..... gone forever, floated with the wind....

but realistically trying to find energy to write in my free time!

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guyssss no matter where i go in life i always have a soft spot for abo and wish there were more it has my hearttt ugh

its lowk all i wanna write

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any fics coming soon? what r u thinkin of firstyyyy

probably this Baran Al-Hashimi fic ive been working on... wives, hurt/comfort, slight angst, sweet! :)

Probably later this week..?

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im ace and i folow u... im here for you... i get ts, the world is so sex-obsessed

thanks for the support! and yes it is... when you're outside the club, you can see how the club truly looks.. and it's a mess

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as a fellow asexual i read ur post and gurl i feel you its rough out here... but i have a gf and weve been togther for three months now, there's women out there

aww congrats!! I wish you a happy relationship! how did you two meet?

There are, we're literally as rare as unicorns tho lol...

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AYO a lot of likes and roses on hingeeee girlypopu must be hot asf

and no rush on the new fit, just wanted to see if there's any timeline

AYOOO!! no. thank you that is very nice though :) lol

lol ur fine.... i'd say probably my next days off work im drained asf.. or if a really good idea hits me outta the blue. i did start my volcano blast season as it does each month, so maybe i might get influenced by sadness and write a hurt/comfort fic and cry whie writing it lol

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any preference in masc or femme

nope

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where would you say you fall on the spectrum

I feel closest to the specific "labels" of a Graysexual and/or Demi Aro-Ace Lesbian... but to not be annoying I just say aro/ace bc i am on the spectrum

SOO BASCIALLY SLOW BURN FRIENDS TO LOVERS lmfao

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oh hon you're always welcome in queer wlw spaces and im so sorry that others have said and done such things im so so so sorry.

thank you lovely, thank you all for the love truly... all of you.... :(

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ah fuck all them who said that shit thats batshit insane

lmao thank you. truly fuck them. learn to respect others and what they choose to do with their bodies!

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despite everything that you've been through w/ queer women disrespecting your sexuality which on behalf im so incredibly sorry nobody desrves that. hav you ever met someone ok? at all?

Only one. We went on one date and it ended at one because we came to realize that we worked for the same company, and she was a manager at her place... and i wasn't a manager... and she'd get fired for that so LMFAO we were gagged when we found out

but our friendship fizzled out eventually lmao so there's that. it gave me some hope that some women are truly okay with it. whether they're on the spectum themselves or not.

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whats a hote take of yorrs

Many queer women have an unhealthy tendency to bully others in the community with no sexual expreince.

please read more below

I'm an aro/ace lesbian (more so on the demisexual scale), and before I understood that about myself, I had zero sexual experience—not even a first kiss at 20. (which I still have not had btw. im 22)

What has always bothered me isn't that some people prefer partners with experience. That's a valid preference.

What isn't okay is the amount of judgment, belittlement, and shame I've received simply for having no experience.

I've heard it from women in person, through friends, online—almost everywhere that I've met other women at. I have received such, honestly cruel statements/treatment on this behalf, that hurt and still hurt. The comments have stuck with me for years and have made my relationship with sex, and even my comfort in many lesbian spaces, much more complicated. I don't feel welcomed in the slightest.

To be clear, I know there are plenty of lesbian women—including aro/ace lesbians and others—who would never treat someone this way. But this is like 0.01%.... I'm mainly getting at the fact that sexual inexperience is often treated as something embarrassing, suspicious, or worthy of ridicule when it fucking shouldn't be.

People can have preferences. What they shouldn't do is shame others for their lack of experience, whether that's because of their sexuality, trauma, personal choices, circumstances, or anything else. No one deserves to be made to feel lesser or be shit faced on because of it. That's truly shameful. RESPECT WHAT PEOPLE CHOOSE TO DO WITH THEIR BODIES.

idk if this is a hot take or idk i guess i took this and ran into a rant idk? it started somehwere and ended elsewhere lmao. Point A to planet Zion

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whoever is thinking abt me needs to stop immediately. I NEED TO SLEEP

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oh my god MEEE RN ITS FUCKING 4AMMMMMMMM