Hey everyone! So since I unfortunately lost the original post due to my previous blog being deleted, I thought I'd repost this resource list of Feedist, Fat, and Food mods for the Sims 4. Under the cut I have mods that control weight gain, feedist traits and gameplay mods, general kinky mods, as well as fat body presets, sliders, and overlays! Oh, and also some food and feeding type mods too. WARNING - it's been a while since I've downloaded/used some of these mods and there's a chance that at this point they might be out of date or may not work in game. I recommend testing mods out as you download so you don't end up with a busted game, and to google any broken mods that you find on this list because the mod creator may have come out with an updated version of the mod.
Lumpinou Open Love Life (Polyamory/Throuples, etc.): https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/mods/open-love-life-additional-relationship-types
Lumpinou Toolbox (download this if you do the mod above): https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/mods/lumpinous-toolbox-script-library
AEP Career Mod (Porn Industry career): https://ksuihuh.wixsite.com/corner/aep
Not a huge fan of WickedPerversions but this Succubus mod seems cool: https://www.loverslab.com/topic/90553-nisa%E2%80%99s-wicked-perversions/#comment-2094493
Body Presets
Feminine
Better Heavy female sims (fave)(technically a mod): https://www.curseforge.com/sims4/mods/better-heavy-female-body
Heliotropic Heavy Boobs (technically a mod) (NSFW link): https://www.loverslab.com/files/file/4185-sims-4-heavy-boobs/
PlayersWonderland Plus Size body preset: https://www.thesimsresource.com/downloads/details/category/sims4-mods-caspresets/title/plus-size-body-preset-n06/id/1624729/
SSNL CAS body preset: https://www.thesimsresource.com/members/SSNL2/downloads/details/category/sims4-mods-caspresets/title/a-tease-cas-body-preset-for-males-by-ssnl/id/1469871/
Vibrantpixels Man Bods body presets: https://www.patreon.com/posts/man-bods-body-4-25117311
if you could give only one piece of for beginner feedees, what would it be?
Iβm assuming you want one piece of advice! Hereβs my response:
You have to be okay with being fat on your own.
I think some feedees get caught up in the fantasy of having a partner that is a feeder that will stay with them forever and never leave them. While that is the case for quite a few people, you still have to keep your relationships grounded in reality. People break up, people die, people move on and grow apart. A feeder is not bound to you just because they helped make you fat. A feedist relationship is still a relationship. Thatβs why, if you decide to enter a feedist relationship, you need to seriously consider what will happen if your relationship doesnt work out. Will you be okay with being significantly fatter without a partner in the picture? Will you be okay existing as a fat person without the validation of a partner reassuring you how attractive you are? Will your mental health remain stable?
Unfortunately, no matter how hot you think it is, there are real life social/health/political/familial/daily consequences to voluntarily becoming obese and/or gaining significant amounts of weight. You need to be prepared to face those consequences with or without someone at your side.
If you feel unprepared you either need to do some serious self reflection and research, or keep your feedist fantasies as strictly fantasy only.
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