A young submissive's mind

Anna, 26, bi, sub. NOT interested or looking for a Dom/daddy 18+ only, blank and ageless blogs will be blocked. Love books. Shy extrovert (read: please talk to me, but you'll have to message first). Interested in domestic discipline. Based in UK. Minors DNI. I will use the report and block buttons liberally.

[sobbingsub]

About this blog

This is a 18+ only blog, if you are a minor or don’t have your age in your bio you will be blocked. 

I am not looking for a Dom/daddy.

Empty blogs and pro ED will also be blocked.

If you are a TERF, SWERF, mysoginist, pedophile, homophobe, rightwing, neon*zi piece of crap DNI. 

If you are over 50, DNI.

In this blog we believe that feminism must be interselctional, Black Lives matter, women should have the right to chose what to do with their bodies, all bodies are worthy of respect and protection.

LGBTQ+ folks, POC and SWers are welcome here.

If you want me to tag/remove something, please tell me!

If you add creepy stuff under my posts/pictures you will be blocked

Unless I’ve asked or you’ve asked and you’ve been given permission to do so, I do not want to sext with you or see your genitals. Failure to comprehend this will get you blocked.

Unless I’ve asked or you’ve asked and you’ve been given permission to do so, do not adress me with honorifics (little girl, princess, kitten etc.) or degrading names (slut, whore, bitch etc).

I am not yours, my submission is earned, not assumed. 

Now the fun stuff about me:

My name is Anna

I’m 26

My prononouns are she/her

I am bisexual/queer

I live in England

I am a submissive masochist

Other than engaging in shenaningans on Tumblr, I spend my time reading, watching hockey, dancing, cooking and crocheting!

I am shy, but really extroverted. I like talking to people, but I consider myself rather bad at it. 

I play four instruments and I am fluent in 3 languages

I have a degree in English Literature and History of Art and an masters degree in museum studies.

I am obsessed with tea

I have three tattoos and seven piercings

My ask and dms are open! Chat with me/ask me things/recommend books to me!

[pride-knightess]

Some of you want to be on your knees, defeated with a sword tip held under your chin while I look down upon you smug and triumphant, and it shows.

[dominants-dominion]

Ensure your sub makes time for themselves. Whether that be with colouring, knitting, sewing, taking a bath, or something that's relaxing and isn't doom scrolling on their phones. Especially with service subs since they don't think of themselves first or littles as they get overstimulated easier. Taking care of your subs mental health is YOUR task.

[flowerytale]

[little-ponys-deactivated2026010]

My favorite position is being a priority.

[sticksandstans]

the rise of conservatism and gen z puritanism while still simultaneously trying to be hip and woke is so annoying because you have these people saying "match my freak" and then they get mad at ageplay and petplay and cnc and somno and anything raunchier than a pair of fuzzy handcuffs. you're not a "freak" if you think having a fetish is synonymous with being evil

[sticksandstans]

the rise of conservatism and gen z puritanism while still simultaneously trying to be hip and woke is so annoying because you have these people saying "match my freak" and then they get mad at ageplay and petplay and cnc and somno and anything raunchier than a pair of fuzzy handcuffs. you're not a "freak" if you think having a fetish is synonymous with being evil

[onelittlekingdom]

I'm sorry to hear your sub is having a hard time. What are you doing with the power they gave you to help them recover?

[onelittlekingdom]

Three Lessons Kinky Tumblr Could Have Taught Neil Gaiman about BDSM

(if he had cared to pay attention)

A consensual relationship is one in which consent is consistently looked after throughout the entire relationship. It involves constant monitoring and discussion from all parties. It's not something you can agree on at the start, and then use as a shield when things go wrong down the road. You can't say, "Hey Bess, let's have a consensual relationship.", and then consider anything that you decide to do after that as their confirmation that it's consensual.

A consensual BDSM relationship contains safewords. I have a hard time understanding how a seasoned adult, who claims to be engaging in a lifetime interest in BDSM, doesn't give their partner a safeword, unless they don't want their partner to have a way to stop them.

If you are going to play the part of a dominant, you have to be ready to perform the role. That means looking for a partner to have a negative reaction to what you're doing. That entails understanding what "fight, freeze & fawn" means, and being ready to stop activities and scenes when a partner shows those signs. Looking after consent is mission number one. If you can't manage that, you're no dominant. Go enjoy vanilla sex. Leave the kinky sex to the professionals.

Information regarding Neil Gaiman's sexual assaults found here.

[roseyrex]

i just want my nipples sucked!!!! is that too hard to ask !!!!!!!!!!

[mi-ciudad]

come join me in this oversized shirt

[daddy-dom-snapchat]

💼 How a Good Dom Should Behave 💼

Being a Dominant is not about control for control’s sake. It’s about leadership, responsibility, and trust. Whether you're in a 24/7 D/s dynamic or enjoying occasional scenes, here are some foundational traits of a healthy, respectful Dom:

🔹 Consent is Everything A true Dom never assumes control—they’re granted it through informed, enthusiastic consent. No scene or dynamic should ever start without clear communication and agreement.

🔹 Respects Limits and Safe Words Limits exist for a reason. A good Dom knows, respects, and never crosses them. Safe words aren't optional—they’re essential, and they’re honored immediately.

🔹 Leads with Care Dominance is not about being harsh or cold. It’s about guiding, protecting, and nurturing. A Dom should prioritize their submissive’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being at all times.

🔹 Communicates Clearly and Openly Good Doms don’t guess—they ask, listen, and check in. Communication is constant, especially during and after scenes.

🔹 Self-Control and Emotional Maturity Being Dominant means knowing yourself, keeping your ego in check, and handling intense emotions without lashing out or manipulating.

🔹 Continually Learns and Grows No one has all the answers. A responsible Dom seeks feedback, studies their craft, and evolves with experience and education.

[sicklittl3kitten]

Yeah, you think I'm cute when I'm gagging on it, but will you still think I'm cute when I'm being neurotic and need emotional support?

[angeldeleche-deactivated2025112]

wearing his shirt, sitting in bed, legs spread apart and mouth agape as you watch him eat you out

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

you deserve to be a priority. not an option. a damn priority. you are worthy of that.

[highfunctioningfuckup]

I need a massage, a forehead kiss, and a 9 hour long cuddle

[dominants-dominion]

Ensure your sub makes time for themselves. Whether that be with colouring, knitting, sewing, taking a bath, or something that's relaxing and isn't doom scrolling on their phones. Especially with service subs since they don't think of themselves first or littles as they get overstimulated easier. Taking care of your subs mental health is YOUR task.