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🌧₊˚ ·welcome to my dessert store!!₊˚ ·

╰ 🍑. ․the basics. ․🍑

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🝯 oak ♡♡♡

🝯 lulu ♡♡

🝯 doe

🝯 dolly ♡

🝯 angel ♡♡♡

🝯 daisy ♡♡

🝯 peaches

🝯 kiwi ♡

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♡ next to the names i prefer more- the more hearts, the more i love it

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if there's no hearts, that doesnt mean i don't like the name! i just rather other names over it

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❀ •┈my bloq┈• ❀

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my bloq mainly focuses on twords and art ૮꒰ ˶ˊᗜˋ˶꒱ა

꒰ ´͈ ꒳ `͈ ꒱ i also write tword related stories!! yay!

i will sometimes post stim gifs and agere stuff, but my account does not focus on just that

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╰┈➤ soft and gentle, please be nice ྀི 100000% soft lee, no ounce of ler in me

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keep in mind i am an adult!

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↳ ⚠·basic boundaries·⚠

❀ randomly roleplaying with me 🚫

❀ teasing me if we're strangers 🚫

❀ requesting art atm 🚫

❀ trying to get super close with me in less than a day 🚫

❀ !! i will not tease you if we are not close and are below the age of 16 !!

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╰⚠𓊆general DNI𓊇⚠

ྀི MAPs 🚫

ྀི proshippers 🚫

ྀི any blogs that reblog fet!shized tword gifs 🚫

ྀི any blogs that are primarily just tword gifs, even if its sfw 🚫

ྀི blogs that are below the age of 13 and above the age of 30 🚫

ྀི minors involved in k1nks 🚫

ྀི blogs that are anti-furry or anti-agere 🚫

ྀི primarily foot twording blogs, even if sfw 🚫

ྀི primarily foot worship blogs 🚫

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૮꒰ ˶ˊᗜˋ˶꒱ა support me!🩷

╰┈➤ commissions

i only take cashapp!

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↳ 𓏭find me on𓏭⌕

╰ deviantart

╰ discord (ask!!)

╰ caard

╰ pronouns page

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⩩logging off...

my sixth reason: this has gotten better, generally speaking, but sometimes i think about the underrepresented body types. such as people with hourglass syndrome (something that i have) that causes the stomach to look like the letter “B”. but honestly, that’s more of my self projection.

my seventh reason: one of the biggest issues i have. trying to talk about ocs with someone who’s in this community, but they keep circling around and relating it to tickling. i know people fantasize about my ocs tickling them, and i don’t mind! but when i want to talk about my ocs in a non-tickle intended way, please don’t start listing off the ways my oc can tease you or pin you or fluster you. my characters have feelings. they’re sensitive, they have emotions, they aren’t just your tickle machines.

my eighth reason: ok, i lied. this is one of my biggest reasons. this community does not understand basic boundaries. there is a sfw side and an nsfw side. let’s stay on each other’s designated sides, alright? nsfw blogs, stop liking content from minors— thats GROSS. sfw blogs, stop liking content from NSFW blogs, that’s equally as GROSS. check the profiles from which you are liking content from. stop reblogging sfw tickle art and branding it as nsfw for your fetish. i don’t care if you get turned on by tickling. i really don’t. but stop liking content and reblogging content from minors (because majority of the tickle artists on here, come on let’s be honest, ARE MINORS.) i’ve had my fair share of weirdos dming me and liking + reblogging my content, as a minor, and it’s disgusting and honestly, hypocritical. i’ve had to block 40+ NSFW accounts, and i know bots can exist, ofc, but majority of them were run by actual GROWN ADULTS. now, i say it’s hypocritical because the accounts say “MINORS DNI” ect, ect, yet they’re liking MINORS’ content, that usually has “SFW” RIGHT IN THE TAGS.

my ninth reason: i’ll be honest. this is something more to do with me. jealousy has honestly because a really big (and unhealthy) part of this community. i know there’s people who don’t admit they’re jealous of someone else because they’re getting tickled in front of them, because they don’t want to be labelled as “toxic” or “clingy”. and it’s really sad that the lees in this community feel this way. i was jealous to the point that i would self deprecate. i would have to deafen calls, or leave calls, because i wouldn’t be able to handle someone else being tickled that WASN’T me. and it’s sad that i was thinking like that, but it happened.

so these are all the reasons i’ve been thinking about in the tickle community. my nine main reasons i want to leave this community— and so far, i haven’t had a single reason shown to me as in why i shouldn’t leave. now, i don’t want people to start beating themselves up over this, this is not aimed at ANYONE. especially the friends i have made in this community. this is merely just my opinion on how this community has affected my mental health and my social life. again, i’m not COMPLETELY set on leaving, but i haven’t been given a single reason as to why i should stay here.

#second part.#tickle blog #tickle thoughts #lee #ler #tickle content #i just see no reason to be here.#i am unwanted and unworthy.#i never get tickled.#ever.#why would i stay in a community where i have to constantly fight others to get what i want?#a community should bring people together #but it tears all of us apart.#and its sad how toxic this community has become.#i don’t care if people disagree or get offended by this.#i already made it clear its not aimed at ANYONE specifically.#just the community as a whole.#i think we all need to do better though.

i’ve been doing a lot of thinking. i haven’t been active on this account in forever— and it isn’t because i forgot the password (obviously because i’m posting this), it’s because i’m not sure i’m happy in this community anymore.

my first reason: this community has honestly changed me. for the worst. i’ve met so many horrible people on here. i’m not going to drop their names, because i am not someone to humiliate others, unlike how they were.

my second reason: lers aren’t treated well in this community. i know because i’ve been forced to ler. the lees ALWAYS want to talk to you when you’re in a ler mood, but then when their lee mood is finally cured, or you have no energy to ler them, suddenly the conversation is dry, or they just stop talking to you completely. i understand some lees are needy, i am one of those lees, but don’t make this as an excuse to only talk to someone if it benefits YOU.

this community is HEAVILY unbalanced with its lee to ler ratio. for every 20 lees, there’s only 1 ler that they flock to, trying to be the “uwu im so cute— let me tell you this one specific thing that flusters me and then tell you NOT to tease me about it, even though i know you will heehee, heehee!!” type of people.

my third reason: there are too many minors in this community for me to feel comfortable in it. i don’t want to tease minors, because God forbid a minor coming out and accusing you of “grooming them”. say goodbye to your internet presence.

my fourth reason: this community always made me feel as if… i wasn’t good enough. i’ve had people not tickle me, because i am not “lee enough”. at that point, just say you don’t want to tickle me. this community portrays lees as hypersensitive people who have adorable laughs. now, i’m not completely sure about this, but i don’t think i’m hypersensitive— honestly, i don’t think i’m that ticklish. i just have to act that way because, otherwise it’s seen as “boring”. “oh, you don’t have tears streaming down your face as i trace my fingers up and down your stomach?? booorrringgg 🙄🙄🙄”

fifth reason: people sometimes go painfully OVERBOARD when they want to show that they’re in a lee mood. like, omg, we get it already. this tease flusters you. they want to be the center of attention every second, even when the people they’re around aren’t even in ler moods. it’s quite literally why when people do this and talk about a specific tease that flusters them, i just say, “i don’t care” BECAUSE I CANT BE BOTHERED TO, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ACT LIKE THAT😭

part two

#this is just part one.#sfw blog #honestly #the whole community should see this.#so i’m not adding “sfw interaction only”#pink aesthetic #tickle blog #tword community #ler #lee #tickle thoughts #tickle vent #vent post #vent #cw vent