[soft4brainz]

📌 iNTRO: RATED M FOR MATURE !!

hiya there, u can call me ellie softie! if u wanna learn more about me, my interestz, and socialz u will find it here. profile picture made by @dogiitailz

CW / TW !! drawn gore, body horror, self injury, drugz, artistic nudity, and non-explicit kink. everything here is strictly fictional and tagged accordingly.

🚷 USER DiSCRETiON IS ADViSED !! U HAVE BEEN WARNED. . .

🥀 BLOG SPECiFiC TAGZ:

MY ART: #s𖦹ft4brainz

REBLOGZ: #s𖦹ftreblog

ANON ASKZ: #asks𖦹ftie

GiFT ART: #fridgew𖦹rthy

GORE / iNJURY : #snuffnstuff

KiNK / PARA ART: #s𖦹ftophilic

🔗 STANCES: pro-fiction, pro-paraphilia (NO-ACT), radically inclusive, fleur-adjacent, and more

🪦 WHAT WiLL WARRANT A BLOCK? abuse apologism or encouragment and any behavior or reoccuring themes that makes me uncomfortable (examples: post-radqueer, basedqueer, LSDqueer, xenosatanism, ZETA movement, N.I.N.)

HARASSMENT TOWARDZ ANYONE iS NOT OKAY !!

[soft4brainz]

I rlyy hope by the end of the month I will have time to draw pride art, even just one piece or even sketch. ive got many symbolz and flagz I wanna use,, ugh I hope

[necrofoxfang]

paraphiles who be posting art for pride month.. pls start using the tag #para pride

I want to see all of it so its easier to find i love seeing art of those celebrating their queerness alongside of their paraphilias or attractions

[the-rat-trapjaw]

Happy pride month!!! Be vibrant!! Be safe!!!! BE EXTRA GAY!!!! 🎉🏳️‍⚧️🎀🏳️‍🌈

[soft4brainz]

sure, pet names used in romantic and sexual relationshipz, BUT-!! what about platonic relationshipz? (unironically)

[oakims]

Goop dog! :)

[necrofoxfang]

HAPPY PRIDE TO ALL!

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i really did not expect to stay here for as long as i did, i only made my tumblr presence originally to cope with abuse i have recently gone through, i did not intend to stay here.. but i have realized that i am here to stay for good. these communities are the only ones i feel safe and truly loved and accepted in, pro-para and radqueer spaces are the only spaces i have been in that have not harmed, harassed or witch hunted me due to my disorders and sexuality. The only communities that are aware of my origins, who i am, and simply do not care. It feels refreshing to be in a place that does not instantly antagonize me and accuse me of horrible things, but see me as an equal, a role model and inspiration.

ever since i was a kid my dream was to make an impact with my art, to leave a staple, and even though i have succeeded in making my mark, i somehow did it again a second time with my pro-para activisms and movements, i have always dreamed to make a necrophile movement the same way maps and zoos did, and i have succeeded.

before this community, i was full of hatred towards myself and others, if it wasn't for this community i would still be the miserable person i used to be. i have learned kindness, compassion and acceptance towards other paraphiles, i have made and met friends i would of never had if i haven't learned to accept others. i have learned things about myself i would of never had if i didn't ever decided to come to para tumblr to comfort myself.

i feel like i have become a more open minded person, a more kind person, i want to change and make up for my past behavior by using my platforms and art for positivity and awareness. thank you all so much for supporting me and making me learn things about myself and others. I love you all, happy pride!

[soft4brainz]

having to trust intuition, disconnected pieces of memory, and otherz own word over how certain eventz happened (or if they happened to begin with)

[ivipl1]

having memory issues while also being mutuals with several people who like to change their url & pfp on the regular is really funny bc its like. ok i dont recognize you but you Smell Familiar so i guess you can come in.

[arwfiez]

🎲DOMINO💙

(🎲headmate) ref

[pawbleh]

puppy gets gift frum his owner ^^ he luve plushies...wuff wefwfuff

[pup-prince]

made a new icon for bsky and went overboard

[soft4brainz]

not to sound old, but why does everyone call selfshipz yumeshipz now? liek yay more ship culture, but also wheeere did "yume' come from

[the-rat-trapjaw]

he/they.

Hot weather doesn't mercy anyone..

[sacred-pro-fiction]

Im so tired of noncon fantasies being defended exclusively from the standpoint of women who fantasize as the victim

"Accusing ppl with rape fantasies of wanting to be raped is disgusting apologism!"

I fantasize as the rapist. I like imagining scenarios where someone isn't attracted to me, because I'm used to being treated as an object and it pisses me off. The only fantasy that feels empowering is one where I'm 100% sure the other person isn't using me for their pleasure because they aren't experiencing pleasure at all, because I'm in control, because it's all about what I want and nothing else.

That doesn't make me a rapist, and most of the people condemning rape fantasies have people like me in mind, so it would be nice if that was acknowledged more.

[oakims]

@kinkosnekros 's OC Cavity! Love his design!

This got so compressed </3

Here’s a higher quality version! the image is large though, be warned

[123gocat]

the thing i realized is that most people who hate transID don't like, actually know what it means.

like deadass i heard someone confidently say "transID is when somebody pretends to be disabled for attention" and it's like,,, that's blatantly incorrect on so many levels. 1, it's not always disability. it can be anything, including species, age, gender, etc . 2, it isn't always for attention, and most people say it just helps them understand themself better! ^^

a transID individual is overall: "an individual who uses identities different from those assigned to them by society based on their physical appearance or bodily experiences" - transID.org (technically, by definition, that includes transgender as well!)

most people who hate on niche controversial groups like this dont really bother on educating themselves and are pretty closed off to learning new things, though.

[soft4brainz]

transharm and tranharmful identities fascinates me yet confuses me, it kinda remindz me of nonsexual kink.

liek, how does one consentually harm another being? is that truly harm anymore? idkk my brain is soup