hii!! i go by val on here n pretty much exclusively go by they/them, exception is if u know me irl (hi to all 3 of u!!)
im nonbinary, bisexual, n a vers switch, and SO good at sitting directly in the middle or outside of dichotomies.
this blog is where i post nsft pics, text posts, and sometimes lil things abt my life that im scared to post on main, including vents. u can ask 4 my main if we're mutuals btw!! most of the things i rb are queued!!
i have a kofi here and if u can afford 2 tip i would appreciate that a lot!! ;w; thank u!! (yes it is in gbp sorry for Being English crimes)
feel free to dm me but if i don't respond it's not on u!! i am not super confident and get anxious talking 2 new people
bondage
d/s
body worship
praise
light s/m (with occasional Severity i am Not Stable u know)
choking
biting/bruising/scratching
degradation
petplay
knifeplay
idk probably a few others there are no comprehensive lists
RECIEVING ONLY
dont often feel up to doing these 2 others unless they can convince me gjfjsk
cnc
somno
intoxication (mutual or recieving)
NO THANKS
DDLG/LB
foot stuff
feeder stuff directed at me (feel neutral abt this unless it's directed at me i got my annoying body stuff still 2 resolve ;ω;)
"sissy" (let's be honest most of this kink just boils down to transmisogyny or homophobia)
detrans (specifically as a kink but if ur weird and transphobic abt having detransitioned ur not welcome here either)
standard dni criteria kinda stuff also applies, if i see you posting raceplay or if ur a "MAP" im going to splatter u up a wall u know the drill. no reactionary scum on my posts, that includes you, zionists
i post pictures of me under "my body" and "nb nsft" and either do not tag my nsft text posts (don't enjoy seeing too much of a containment breach u know how it is) or tag them with "nb nsft" or just "nsft" (tagged this post with em for ease of access too!!)
i don't currently tag vent posts but they're usually just a "." with a load of tags under it so if u see that just know that what's in the tags may be a complete fckin emotional gamble and may be depressing. sorry gkfks. if u would like something tagged lemme know!!
ty for reading all this, recognise that it's a lot but!! i appreciate it!!
wow we're movingggg but i'm still an unemployed tgirl which is really scary
hi hiiii it's j again .. thank you to everyone that's helped keep me afloat over these last few months,, it's been! rough! on a lot of fronts! but we're pushing through.
my partner got us a house and we'll be moving over this next month! thankfully our first big house payment won't be until the beginning of august, but moving is an expensive endeavor, i still have utility bills to pay, and i need to eat :')
any and all help is appreciated, even if it's just a reblog 💕
august is quickly approaching so,, house payments and all my other bills are quickly approaching too. i have a bit of money in my account but i'm still unemployed at the moment ... trying to figure out a way to secure some sort of income, but in the meantime i definitely need help :') thank you all for being so sweet and generous
my fwb is coming over today so im scurrying around tidying and cleaning but like. also it's gonna be 24°C today which means it's gonna be like 27°C in my flat im gonna explode
my fwb is coming over today so im scurrying around tidying and cleaning but like. also it's gonna be 24°C today which means it's gonna be like 27°C in my flat im gonna explode
“It's taboo to admit that you're lonely. You can make jokes about it, of course. You can tell people that you spend most of your time with Netflix or that you haven't left the house today and you might not even go outside tomorrow. But rarely do you ever tell people about the true depths of your loneliness, about how you feel more and more alienated from your friends each passing day and you're not sure how to fix it. It seems like everyone is just better at living than you are. A part of you knew this was going to happen. Growing up, you just had this feeling that you wouldn't transition well to adult life, that you'd fall right through the cracks. And look at you now, it's happening.”
