[softly-sadistic]

Hello everyone, you can call me Anne ❤️

Here are some important rules and guidelines when on my blog/ in my dms:

These are general rules as well as information specific to me and my preferences. Please be respectful or you will be blocked.

1. No sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia, verbal abuse/threats, or any other forms of bigotry and/or endangerment of others. You will be blocked and reported.

2. No minors on my blog!!! My blog has a lot of kink related stuff that is not appropriate for minors. If I find out you’re under 18 you will be blocked.

3. No uninvited nudes/ asking for nudes in any way, shape or form.

4. Never try to force your kinks on me or anyone else. No is no. If you can’t respect basic consent you will be blocked.

5. I only do kink talk with close mutuals/friends. If I want to do it with you I’ll offer it, otherwise it’s a no.

6. If you don’t follow me or interact with my content, and you message me, I will not respond. If you are rude, creepy or otherwise unpleasant, I will block you.

7. Don’t tell me that you love me/ have a crush on me/ etc. That makes me extremely uncomfortable, and I will not message you back.

8. Don’t use my honourifics if we aren’t in a dynamic.

If any of these rules are unclear, please feel free to dm me, I’ll be more than happy to explain.

I want my blog to be a safe and fun experience for anyone and everyone. This means that I also need to hold myself accountable. If I say/do something that you find questionable, please don’t hesitate to let me know so I can make it right.

I’m also on Fetlife as softly_sadistic, feel free to check it out! 🥰

⚠️ Send me a 🍓 emoji to let me know you’ve read this post before messaging me. ⚠️

[houndmother]

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

[this-world-of-beautiful-monsters]

recipe for disaster (from the revolution starts at home)

[houndmother]

reblogging this a second time bc i think it’s really valuable to look at what abuse in kink CAN look like instead of just discussing what it DOESNT look like. I wanna talk about this more but frankly, this isn’t where my experience lies. if anyone has posts on the topic i’d love to read them.

[tickletorturee-deactivated20230]

[ticklishina]

Want to do this to someone 🥺🥰

[pansyfemme]

what they dont tell you about being loudly transgender is sooner or later someone will say you helped/were the reason they transitioned and you just have to. sit with that for a while and how wonderful it is that a person can inspire others to take better care of themselves like that. the louder you are the better, you help strangers more than you know

[softly-sadistic]

Right where you belong.

[city-tickles]

Quiet lers are dangerous lers! (male couple version)

[softly-sadistic]

Aftermath of a lovely knife play session ❤️

[softly-sadistic]

My bf is such a good foot slut ❤️

[softly-sadistic]

It’s too hot to wear a shirt on nightshift, so enjoy some boobs.

[softly-sadistic]

Ever been fucked by a goddess?

[softly-sadistic]

I have successfully Pavlov’ed my partner into getting horny and flustered every time I use my clicker.

I feel so fucking powerful 😏

[city-tickles]

“Oh you’re gonna laugh? You think this is funny?”

This lee is more of a squealer and screamer but lots of taunting and teasing during this interrogation

[sadist-posting]

Unfriendly reminder that Fascists can get the fuck off my blog. This includes Trump Supporters, Conservatives, Terfs, Homophobes, Transphobes, anti-feminists, "Traditionalists," and anyone who supports the actions or government of the settler colonial genocidal ethnostate currently murdering children by the thousand. Block me or I'll block you.

[the-sensitive-sadist]

Kink is an inherently political act. Ensuring that all parties have the agency to consent and participate on their own terms, willfully submitting or dominating rather than being forced into a role by the socioeconomic hierarchical status quo is not apolitical. It is a direct contradiction of the dominant social hierarchy. A deeply personal action defined by its focus on consent and self determination in a system which constantly robs people of both.

You cannot practice ethical kink while being a conservative. You cannot practice ethical kink while being a racist. You cannot practice ethical kink while being a sexist. A homophobe. A transphobe. An islamaphobe. You cannot be anti-immigrant, anti-refugee, or anti-asylum seeker while practicing ethical kink. You cannot practice ethical kink while being a theocrat, whether it be Christian, Hindu, or Islamic nationalism or zionism. You cannot practice ethical kink while being a fascist. Holding any ideology which dehumanizes others, or allows for their dehumanization removes ones ability to practice ethical kink.

Gatekeep your submission. Gatekeep your dominance. Don't you dare give it to someone who doesn't respect others.

[city-tickles]

[tklsh-love]

by the time I’m through with you, you’ll wish you never had the fucking fetish.

[dokidoki-muffin]

Mild Dokidoki Spice Warning 🤭💖🔥🧁

I randomly came back to Grand Blue Dreaming recently 🤣🙈 I swear this anime is so dumb, but it's just the kind of humour I need sometimes 🔥🤪

(There's 3 pics in total 👇 just in case Tumblr shortens the post 😅)

[softly-sadistic]

If you had 24 hours with me, how would you show me a good time?

(And “whatever you want” isn’t a valid answer) 😉