soft summer girl

"Fix your hearts or die." - David Lynch

[diidona]

THE LOST BOYS (1987) • dir. Joel Schumacher

[seungminogie]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SEO CHANGBIN!

[valarrs]

Zendaya via ernestocasillas

[uptownthots]

already can't pretend to care about the male loneliness epidemic because it isn't real but listening to the way men actually talk about their friends/what they think friendship entails makes me care even less sorry

[uptownthots]

read an AITA earlier today about a guy who would walk his female friend home to her dorm very often UNTIL she rejected his romantic advances*, then when she asks him to walk her home bc she's drunk and feels unsafe he says no. Men in the comments were clamoring to insist he "didn't owe her anything" and that she was a deceptive harpy who wanted to use her #femaleprivilege to get "special treatment"

and idkkkkkkk that could never be me sorry!! wym you don't care about your friends safety and are willing to mildly inconvenience yourself to ensure they are okay? no compassion or care for the people in your life but its an "epidemic" when you don't have friends? lol

[meangirlnurse]

#my favorite thing about every invented problem men have that is dire and world ending #is that it's none of their responsibility to fix it #'if men can't talk about their feelings are you making an effort to do that and check in with your friends?' #'no I'm acting exactly the same but now when I'm called out on being a dick I have an excuse that says it isn't my fault :)' #and now men being bad friends is women's job to fix not theirs lmao

⬆️ i've only ever seen the "male loneliness epidemic" used as a means to scold women. never as an encouragement for men to be better friends to each other

[meangirlnurse]

#also as far as i can tell the social penalty for men being good friends to people#is being perceived as feminine and/or gay#which.#if you're going to let your repulsion for women and gay men stop you from having friends#that seems like a you problem!

[oinkhop]

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[laurens-german]

HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN 10 DAYS 2003, dir. Donald Petrie

[i2n8]

CHANGBIN in (almost) all eras

[andreauxminyard]

you really do turn thirty and everything is different and sometimes better. if you're in line for thirty stay in line bro

[demoncity]

Howl's Moving Castle (2004) Porco Rosso (1992) The Secret World of Arrietty (2010) Kiki's Delivery Service (1989) Whisper of the Heart (1995) Only Yesterday (1991)

[faceandfit]

africanjawn

[theparadoxspace]

those posts complaining about greasy hair arent exaggerating btw, it really makes you feel like everything in your life is going wrong and falling apart. and then you shower and it turns into a normal tuesday

[candelila]

ILLIT (아일릿) I Got Your Back Concept Film - FRUiTS Ver.

[changbinseource]

Livestream vs. Fancam © dddamind

[tvandfilm]

THE TWILIGHT SAGA: ECLIPSE (2010) Dir. David Slade

[meangirlnurse]

fascinating how often men expect women to sympathize with their fears of being perceived as or treated like a woman

[meangirlnurse]

so much "masculinity" is constructed around the certainty that being gay or being a woman is inherently demeaning. and we're supposed to nod along supportively

[meangirlnurse]

"male loneliness crisis" ok so like.....what would happen if you started acting like a better friend to other men in your life? what's stopping you? is it the fear of being perceived as one of your inferiors?

[meangirlnurse]

"men aren't allowed to show emotions" ok so like…..what would happen if you started being more emotionally expressive? what's stopping you? is it the fear of being perceived as one of your inferiors?

[princessnamora]

Grace Kelly as Frances Stevens in To Catch a Thief (1955)

[candelila]

illit 'i got your back' mv [behind-it]