XXVIII

[lunar-skies]

[purplebuddhaproject]

“Nothing is as chaotic as it seems. Nothing is worth diminishing your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety, and fear.”

— Steve Maraboli (via purplebuddhaquotes)

[fluffgawd]

Pls teach your son how to apologize.

[sadburgerboogie]

If you forgot, the 3 parts to an apology are

1. Saying sorry for the initial hurt you’ve committed.

2. Explaining how you’ve understood how you hurt them.

3. Promising them that you won’t do it again.

[cutiesncantrips]

4. Keep the fucking promise.

[hartchive]

anyone: *says something to me*

me: haha yeahh

me in head: what did they just say

[jbirdoftheriverlands-deactivate]

Emoji spell for extreme good luck for the next two months

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[fromanotherroom]

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Mr. Brightside playing from another room The Killers

[oatmilfcoffee]

This makes me wanna cry

[espikvlt]

I have seen a lot of these and usually I haven’t understood the appeal of this aesthetic but this time…… this time I do.

[thepeacockangel]

This feels like being on the stairs at a houseparty in Jersey in the early 10s

[i-want-spankings-deactivated201]

[i-want-spankings-deactivated201]

This is possibly the coolest video I’ve ever taken.

[mygirlsaremollymarylucy]

wow I love this!!

[pissed-wav]

This is so good for my anxiety

[uniofadifferentcolor]

I’ve reblogged this so many times

[eliminated]

[catchymemes]

[sleepy-sheepie-deactivated20190]

This shouldn’t be this funny but it’s painfully funny

[wild-cabins]

Kyle Finn Dempsey

[cheese24k]

Walter is my cousin’s dog. He really has a thing for swimming.

[nasty-twerp]

that was a religious experience

[mightyfemme]

me

[pseudo-human-deactivated2021061]

I’ve never seen a butt-mounted camera, but damn, this dog knows where he wants to go, and goes there fast.

[hoediac]

His little ears flopping in he wind

[cuttleskulls]

THIS IS THE QUALITY CONTENT I WANT TO SEE

[pickleston]

[thebuttkingpost-deactivated2021]

this is exactly tumblr when someone makes up some historical bullshit

[rockhardgeologist]

[urso2000andlate]

“dinner’s ready”

“there’s 5 minutes left can you set the table”

[bre-is-changing]

[sohighsosara]

This nail polish color is sooooo cute 😭 I just wanna know what name/brand it is

[real-pcys-deactivated20190118]

hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas

[real-pcys-deactivated20190118]

a classic example

daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldn’t do it

mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too

[daeranilen]

a common variant

mom: well i’m having a really hard time right now and you know that i’m doing my best and that i didn’t mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time i’m having

[lierdumoa]

This is a very important post about how to recognize problematic behavior in narcissistic mothers. It is also something we all need to watch out for in ourselves, especially if we were raised by a narcissistic parent.

Because if that’s what you’re used to, you can grow up wrongly believing that this is what sympathy is supposed to sound like.

I have, numerous times, talked about having a bad day, and had a well-meaning acquaintance tell me how much worse their day was, honestly believing that they were being sympathetic – that telling me how much worse their day was would somehow make me feel relieved, or grateful, that my day wasn’t as bad as theirs.

Of course, it did not make me feel better. It made me feel like my experiences were being trivialized, and like my feelings were being invalidated.

I know these people weren’t trying to be cruel. They truly just didn’t know better. They thought they were empathizing.

If you didn’t grow up learning what genuine sympathy looks/sounds/feels like, it’s hard to know how to show genuine sympathy for other people, even when you really do care about them.

[ihatemoe]

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