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The Circle of Love?
So I got to think about something a friend of mines told me. Now I don’t know if its true or not but she said that when a man and a woman have sex, that it takes 9 months to get that person out of your system. Now I don’t know if its true, nor am I saying I believe it or that you should believe it. It was merely the seed from which this grows and I thought I should say that. So what does this have to do with a “Circle of love” here goes….
Lovers & FrI3Nd$
SO B4 I START...
This is something I worked on before i started using Tumblr for these things so i can be found on my Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/notes/brian-richards/lovers-fri3nd/473814792632949
So that's the rough and this is the now...LEGGO
We're not talking about open relationships here, we're talking two people who:
1) Like each others company, hang out, all that stuff. Tell each other bout their guy probs n girl probs…Uno close friends.
AND!!!
2) Find each other physically appealing and openly express it, at least to each other. They my not necessarily be intimate, they may just make out or what ever…That's not important, you get the idea.
Moving on…
So lover and friends, what’s wrong with it??? Some people ultimately assume it means being fuck buddies but that's now what it HAS to be.Being friends with benefits isn't strictly that, but I don’t know you tell me. I think that if two people don’t see the need in putting a social label on each other to define their relationship(saying that this is my bf, gf, or we dealing), then nothing is wrong with that. Actually I think people who are friends and develop their relationship:
1)Make for better actual future couples
2)Have stronger, better relationships
Why??
‘Cuz they understand each other, they know each other. He was there when that bastard broke her heart, he isn't gonna make her cry, she was there when that chick cheated on him, she don’t wanna see him like that again, and with no commitment there is no room for hurt.
SIMPLICITY AT ITS BEST!!!
Think about it for a sec run it over, the games we like to play and call them relationships or someone who helped bury your skeletons and knows who you are, who understand you, know your needs, can be honest with you ‘cause of the relationship you have and you can satisfy what ever “needs” each other has, what ever it may be…
Ruin the Friendship
You know what I don’t understand with girls these days….You mean so much to them that they could never see themselves spending a lifetime of bliss with you because you understand them, care for them, pick them up and dust them off and all that. But they’d rather have a dude who does the little things like neglect to tell them their beautiful after 10years, or as far as beat them to a pulp or cheat on them. Alright that might be a stretch with the marriage and abuse thing but you get the idea….They don’t want to be with you because it might “Ruin the friendship”
Now let me paint this picture:
I know all the pain you’ve been through with guys, I’ve been there with you as a friend, honest, telling you when you’re wrong and backing you when they are and you need to let go. Then someday God decides “Alright you’re gonna like this girl now!” and I tell you what would you say…what thought process goes off in a woman’s brain when this occurs….ladies???? Well this isn’t a live chat so I’m gonna take a guess and say you evaluate our friendship and then somehow arrive at it would never work.
What the…Just, please...
But back to the matter at hand, and I’m gonna give the ladies an ease cause idiot guys do this to, I said before, if you get into a relationship with someone you know and who knows you it’s less likely you’re gonna find out that...you know....he don’t like skittles when you already bought a pack and put some in your mouth and go “Come taste the rainbow.”
I mean it won’t always work but it’s safer than some random guy you know was ogling you before he came over to put down the mac. Your friend is less likely to put down the smack and what’s the worst that can happen? You’re gonna tell them they’re bad kisser and then they gonna go home and lock you off. People, people try it, get to know someone as a friend before a relationship and see if you still like them and the difference it makes in the long run.
I should really be posting a lot more often
So over the past few days, about a week of observing all the wrongs and mistakes we make as teenagers interacting in different settings and backgrounds, i have accumulated a wealth of material to write on. However its hard to generalize it and contextualize it because its all a muddle and the people i studied i didn't care to have all the details about the situation. So it leaves me in a very biased position and i'm not sure what to do. So i'm trying to make sense of it all and hopefully provide some material.
If i didn't care so much about anonymity and stuff it would be easier but i'm not made that way...
Rules of engagement
I’ve come to realize that we don’t know what a relationship is these days. I’m not gonna be the corny nigger who says “it’s hard work” and you have to put in time and shit…I do that later when I’m in a better mood. Let’s do this quick.
Dating/Courting
This is not a normal relationship. Just because you’re dating someone does not mean you’re together. You’re seeing each other on a romantic/semi-romantic basis, but it does not have to become serious, you’re getting to know each other and its not a commitment. If you have sex and you feel that seals the deal then you’re also wrong. That’s legit if your dating but taking the relationship beyond that is not automatic. Stop watching Disney folks!
Keeping it short and moving right along…
Together/Daz my man/Daz my ‘oman
Simple enough, y’all in a romantic relationship, ball and chain, sing it from the mountain top. Anything else is something else.
Something like what???
Open relationship..
Oh this where shit get real! Y’all an official couple, but you see other people on the side, have threesomes and stuff. The main thing is where you emotions lie. Anytime you have feels for one of your flings you are violating the code of this relationship.
Friends with Benefits
“Oh nigga that shit will never work, someone always has feeling.” Don’t let the movie fool you. It’s not impossible, I know a guy that did it, does it, I don’t know. Look sometimes an attraction is physical, lots of girls I know I never wanna be with but if I can give them the D once or twice I’d do it without second thought. And its not talk, think about it, cute face, bad attitude, dick her occasionally but don’t stick around long enough for y’all to piss each other off. This won’t work if you try it with someone you like who does not like you. At any time someone can end up in a relationship and this shit will violate that. Go back to Together…
Fuck Buddies
You know what take out that last bit on friends with benefits and put it here, you don’t even have to like them! Its all D with no C…cuddling. We meet; we do It like some dogs and rabbits and split. Don’t even buy them a coffee, to personal and you’re gonna spoil it. Give them the Angry Pirate Instead!
So that’s basics…
If you’re in a relationship with yourself and shit then you’re on your own. And stalking does not count. But people really, you need to sit with your partner/potential partner and define your relationship, let people know what they’re in for and what your willing to do. That will avoid a lot of confusion and heartbreak and stuff. Don’t violate the rules and please be safe, use protection…for your heart and your privates.
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Relationships Explained:Diminishing Marginal Utilities
I’m tired of going on social media and seeing people crying over ended relationships. “But she loved me!” “How could he do this to me?!?!” and then they post every Adele they can find. I can tell you why relationships end and why love is never enough. We’ll I can type it and post it…you can take the horse to the water but you can’t make it drink.
If he loved you then why did he lie???o.O
If she love you why are you crying all over social media?
Now don't get me wrong, I love....to make love...but the emotional attachment we have is not love. Let me put it like this; I like you just like all the other girls, however I'm putting in work because potentially I’ll get more satisfaction being with you. That is the number of utils I’ll get for my effort or sacrifice is acceptable for whatever reason. Let’s not go into reason though, we’ll just say you’ve give great head or something…your good with cars, you like anime, something the other girls won’t do you’re not special...your talented...your special (retarded) if you think you special. So bam, we’re together.
However as time goes by, the satisfaction of that good or service decreases but the expense does not. More than likely it increases, as I require more of the good/service to feel satisfied. That is, let’s say today I come over, we make out you give me head. As time goes by not only do I grow accustomed to your head game but now I gotta bring chocolates and flowers to woo you to get that head. Or in normal terms I eat one sandwich and the satisfaction is a lot, however as I get older I have to not only eat more but, its at a higher price. Now I’m fat and depressed and hungry….wait…side tracked….
Anyway, after a period of time, whatever you do, you won’t be able to satisfy each other doing the same old things. So you keep taking it up but everyone has their limit…so maybe he won’t eat you out so you find a guy that will and leave him…so what?!?! That’s love and that’s life.
That's that diminishing marginal utility theory shit tweaked a little...some MoB for y'all #MoneyOverBitches
I know some of you still didn’t get it so think of it as getting a high…after a while you need more in order to get the satisfaction that you did the first time. It becomes more expensive, you take more risks, experiment with other substances and the next thing you know your base head…
So what did we learn….being in a relationship is like finding a good cook, it’s all orgasmic in the beginning but after a while the menu has to change or you get a new cook. Also don’t do drugs…or you’ll become a base head…or the relationship equivalent…get married.
Friend with Benefits: Friend Zone Benefits
SO a friend of mine was saying she hates telling me her problems and stuff and I was like don’t worry about it, I don’t have a problem, its what I’m here for….And it hits me…I’m a friend with benefits….friend zone benefits….
Now this isn’t your normal kind of friend, this is the ultimate friend zone. My brothers and sisters if you find yourself in this position then know only the lord can save you!
You see, you are now too valuable as a friend to be anything else. If you’re anything else she/he loses that benefit which is potentially hard to find. You have to understand, you’re a confidante, you’re the pages in their diary, they tell you stuff they would only cry into their pillow. Your in so deep it drowns your chances. So it’s like you apply for manager and end up in the mail room. Hard luck bro…and welcome to the team!
If you want out…. Not even I can help you right now, whole new theory, whole new game….
Tonight we dine in hell boys….and girls….
If love can't be defined, does that make it meaningless?
SolomonTheWise
Trinidad: Highway Re-route
Gov't should not have built highway: people are loosing all the estate they have with little compensation
Gov't should build highway: small businesses in these areas will be easier to access and as such will have a larger market. Will be easier to access raw materials and services outside community. Increase in investment and development in these areas etc.
Reality: Small businesses cater to niche markets and as such will either fail to meet demand if market expands or will have to expand to supply market. Probs with this include a decline in quality of good/service. Also larger firms may force them out, substitutes and etc. Residents will be moved moving labour supply. Dissatisfied citizens will be moving into new areas having to find jobs instead of getting jobs in the expanding areas.
Could prob state a few more. My solution? Pave and widen existing roads, update maps, develop communities.
Words
These words are a shovel.
The thoughts in my head,
Manifesting in what i say.
Digging me deeper yet.
These words are a pit,
That the shovel done dug.
Hollow,empty and filled of nothing.
These words are a coffin,
From a "box" a came,
And in a box again.
Lifeless i lay.
These words are my Sunday finest.
I'm rapped in them yes.
Like the skin on my flesh,
Except these words are something i can't shed.
These words are from the darkest depths of my soul.
Nobody knows the depths from which this monster arose.
The water is deep and its cold so hold your nose.
This stan is a fan even 'Em won't wanna know.
I AM
They say, “It’s not what they call you, but what you answer to.” Interestingly enough I’d have to agree but at the same time say it’s neither…..It's what you call your self. It’s what you say after you’ve said “I am”.
A couple years ago I used to do karate in Purple Dragon and when we go to tournament we introduce ourselves and one day my sensei was like “Change it up! Announce yourself!” So I said the most basic thing I could… “Greeting Judges I AM Brian…” He stopped me right there….
You see….”I am”, is you, you saying who you are, what you stand for. With those words you define yourself, and it is those words you will be associated. The things you state after that phrase could very well shape your life. So when you say “I am” think very well about what you say because even if they call you by your name, the reason they call you and the manner in which maybe very well a representation of who you are.
I am…Solomon The Wise
Life Lessons
If its one thing i've learnt is the people you have to please in life and the people who appreciate you are never the same, how could they be. You don't have to prove anything to the people who care about you and value you, they'd be there if you were rich today and dirt poor tomorrow. The ones you have to please obviously have something up on you so as long as you have to please them your beneath them, whether its by force or choice.
Ignorance is Bliss...for those who don't know
I think personally that...this saying needs to be expanded to this.
My mother was talking to her friend the other day and my sister was like
"mah i not doin A's"
and my mum said
"good luck telling your father that!"
Now what does this have to do anything...
last year i thought i had a choice of doing A levels...or at least that's what i was tricked into believing... because at that moment i found out i didn't have a say...my father only acted like that. But because i didn't know *definition of ignorant* I let myself be tricked into a false sense of independence which then led to me making the choice my father ultimately intended...IT LIKE A FREKING BATMAN GAMBIT WITH A TROLL....
But if you still don't understand...
The guy with his zipper down does not feel bad until he notices or some points it out...if he never does...he never cares
The girl who's pad just leaked...if those tricks she have for friends don't tell her....her Bf will know what week it is...if yah know what i mean 3:)
We're happy till we know the truth is a lie...so if you wanna keep the ignorant happy don't tell them anything....actually thinking about it now i don't think this is original...it seems that Governments and Bosses and stuff have been doing it for centuries!!!