๐Takeda NSFW Alphabet
A = Aftercare (what theyโre like after sex)
He gets pretty touchy during after care, and heโs big on cuddles and making sure his partner is feeling loved as well and not just him. He gives as much attention to his partner as he wants. Takeda canโt handle seeing someone not get as much love as they want/deserve. Heโs a hopeless romantic in that way. He doesnโt like feeling superior, but he does like feeling useful to someone. Heโs more so into aftercare than the sex itself.
B = Body part (their favorite body part of theirs and also their partnerโs)
He really likes his abs. Not out there working out for the attention, but for personal well being. He knows he looks good, and doesnโt mind showing off a bit for his lover.
He likes all of his partner, and appreciates as well as admires all of there body, but if he was given the choice to choose the one thing, heโd pick their thighs.
C = Cum (anything to do with cum, basically)
In a condom. He refuses to do anything else. Heโs also a firm believer that if he wants kids, heโll have them when heโs ready. And today, is not that day.
D = Dirty secret (pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)
Takeda is a bit of a kinky guy. He has a fetish for rope play, and has always wanted to try it out with his current partner. But heโs always denied those thoughts because his partner never mentioned interest in the topic. Heโs never acted on it, but the thoughts have been there.
E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what theyโre doing?)
He knows the basics, but that was something he learned from teachings from the Shirai Ryu, or videos. He spent most of his teen years either training or learning how to fight, so he had little time to explore the more intimate side of relationships.
F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)
He prefers cowgirl. He enjoys being able to watch as his lover takes control, as well as have the view of his partner on top of him, riding him. Itโs an experience he finds intimate and enjoyable, which is what drives him crazy.
G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)
Heโs both. Takeda is very vocal in bed. He tries to balance it out. He likes to make light of things in the right situations, or make his partner laugh to ease any tension that could build during sex. But heโs also serious as well; more so when it comes to pleasuring his partner or showing genuine intimacy.
H = Hair (how well groomed are they? does the carpet match the drapes? etc.)
Takeda manscapes, which includes shaving and trimming down his pubic hair. He doesnโt mind having hair there, but he finds it more comfortable to keep it trimmed. It also helps with hygiene; so all the more reason, also he has a happy trail.
I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)
Takeda is very affectionate during sex. Lots of kissing and touching. He loves to kiss his partnerโs neck, and give a lot of compliments during intimacy. He thinks sex is a way to show someone you care about them; a deep connection meant to be shared. So heโs usually very romantic during the act.
J = Jack off (masturbation headcanon)
Takeda does pleasure himself. Like anyone else, he gets the urge and sometimes he canโt help himself. He usually finds himself masturbating when heโs just too pent up, or when his partner isnโt in the mood, but he is. He usually feels a rush of guilt afterwards, though Takeda believes itโs a natural response to being turned on.
K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)
Shibari- He enjoys the aesthetic beauty of it, as well as the way that it can be both calming and exciting. He likes the way the ropes can bind yet set free. And he enjoys the way that rope play can both cause and relieve tension throughout a personโs body.
Sensory Deprivation- Takeda likes Sensory Deprivation primarily due to the excitement it brings. He enjoys being cut off from everything, and forced into a state of mind where only he and his partner are allowed to exist. His mind is free of distraction, and he can be free to enjoy every sensation thrown at him.
Light/Mild Pain Play- Takeda has always enjoyed the sensation of mild pain. Itโs an adrenaline rush to put his body through slight pain for his personal enjoyment, and he feels a high at the end of it as well. Mild/Light pain allows him to take advantage of those feelings without the risk of harming himself or others. Takeda understands that he doesnโt want to take this too far, and so heโs always been open to the idea of experiencing light pain.
L = Location (favorite places to do the do)
Takedaโs favorite location to have sex would have to be the bedroom. He likes the idea of doing it in a place where he sleeps, it brings him comfort to know that heโs sharing another one of his favorite spots with his partner. Plus he knows itโs a safe space, so he could fully concentrate on his partner and their enjoyment.
M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)
Takeda is turned on by a lot of things, but primarily it would have to be intimate acts of affection, or teasing and dirty talk. He likes the feeling of being desired, and teased into a sexual state of mind, and he really gets off when itโs all focused on him. He gets so adorable and needy, and heโll melt when you whisper sweet things in his ear or leave marks/hickeys on his neck.
N = No (something they wouldnโt do, turn offs)
Takedaโs biggest turn off would have to be poor communication. He hates wasting time, and hates when he gets no indication of what his lover actually wants. A lack of communication or clear lack of interest is a total turn off for him. He also gets annoyed when his partner doesnโt show they want to interact with him. He loves it when his partner wants him and shows it.
O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)
Takeda is more of a giver than a receiver when it comes to oral. He enjoys knowing heโs satisfying his partner, and heโs never been one for receiving. Heโll do it when heโs asked, but if given an option, heโd rather please his partner than receive anything back.
P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)
Takeda varies between being fast and rough in the act, or slow and sensual. He does this based on what he sees makes his partner most satisfied. He likes to adapt and change up his style to fit who heโs with. At the end of the day itโs not about HIM being satisfied, itโs about the both of them enjoying the experience.
Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)
Takeda loves quickies. The rush of adrenaline just excites him. He doesnโt like to do it all the time, but when he gets the urge, he doesnโt hesitate. He usually prefers to do it when he and his partner are alone and he can be loud and messy. But when the feeling hits, he usually has quickies roughly once or twice a week.
R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)
Takeda is a curious person by nature, and is always down to experiment. However, he doesnโt take unnecessary risks, and wonโt do anything that could result in serious injury or pain to himself or his partner. Heโd rather learn to play safe first rather than dive into the deep end right away. Heโll experiment once he has a solid understanding of the risks involved.
S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)
Takeda can usually go about three rounds before heโs had enough, and he can last an hour when heโs fully in the zone. There are rare occasions when he lasts longer than that.
T = Toys (do they own toys? do they use them? on a partner or themselves?)
Takeda does indeed own a few toys; some of them more so focused on pleasuring his partner than himself. They typically come in the form of vibrators and dildos, but he does have some other interesting ones. Heโll use them on his partner but not use them for himself. Takeda feels that the toys are there to aid him in satisfying his partner, and if he does well enough without it, he wonโt use them.
U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)
Takeda loves to tease, it feels like a game to him, something so simple that can make his partner feel a rush as well. Takeda enjoys seeing the way you react, hearing your moans, and feeling how your body responds to his actions. He loves making his partner feel good, and teasing them when they donโt expect it; itโs the thrill of seeing them beg, that drives him.
V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)
Takeda is about average when it comes to how loud he is during sex. He gets vocal and isnโt afraid to let you know how much heโs enjoying himself. Takedaโs vocalizations are typically just low grunts and soft moans, he likes to let his body do the talking. But if heโs really in the heat of the moment you might get some louder sounds out of him.
W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)
Takedaโs sometimes takes things to the extreme. Heโll show the affection he has for you in a new way you might not have experienced before, or take a normal action and make it into something completely outrageous. Takedaโs a little impulsive, and he knows it. So sometimes heโll give in to his impulses and let them show when heโs at the point where his emotions take complete control.
X = X-ray (letโs see whatโs going on under those clothes)
Takeda is quite fit and lean. He has a nice mix of muscles and flexibility. Takeda has put in time to train his body, and to keep himself healthy. Heโs not extremely muscular or chiseled; his build favors agility and speed, not strength. Takedaโs fit and toned enough where you can see the definition of his muscles, without him being extremely bulky or big.
Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)
Takedaโs sex drive is on the higher end of average. He likes to be intimate with his partner, and to show how much he enjoys them. For Takeda, the intimacy aspect is a very important part of his relationship. With that being said, heโs able to handle going without for a day or two before he needs to have a release. He doesnโt feel the need to satisfy himself if he knows heโs going to see his partner soon. His desire only grows as time passes, but heโs patient and can wait.
Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)
Takeda falls asleep rather quickly after sex. His body naturally produces the chemicals necessary to do so, and after the deed he just wants to curl up next to the person he enjoys having intimacy with. He likes to hold his partner close and just let sleep set in. He likes falling asleep with another person, as it makes him feel comfortable and content.
