I think some women who claim to be straight are honestly just lesbians or bi when they say theyre more attracted to pretty/feminine boys and think very masculine looking men look to “ugly” and “ogre-ish” for them. I also think it has to do with a lot of women denying the self-expression of their body despite being adults. Having lots of inhibitions about their womanhood and whatnot.
This is ironically why i think more heated, yang women tend to be more traditionally feminine and “girly” in nature, like Mars women, Jupiter or Sun women. Because they dont have as much reservedness and shyness towards their existence as women with age. Theyre not shy about their bodies and they are comfortable being girls when theyre girls and being adult women when theyre adult women. They usually love stereotypically feminine things like dolling themselves up and they also tend to have the stereotypical feminine bodies and personalities. It’s so strange how polarities work….i hear Yin women, for example, having deeper and more gravely voices whereas more yang, and even neuter planet women, tend to have more high pitched and nasal voices. I also weirdly see women with more feminine planetary energies in their charts being more attracted to more effeminate men. Very yang and heated women tend to be the ones who ironically desire to have traditionally heteronormative relationships with men.
I think this also has to do with how Yin people tend to be all about exclusivity and tend to have a fear of whats different and foreign to themselves and what theyve known all their loves. I hear a lot of heterosexual (allegedly) Yin influenced women saying they prefer men who are more moody and emotional, more pretty and more willing to gossip/be petty/chat shit with them or more willing to do stereotypically feminine things with them; almost like they view a male partner as an extension of themselves rather than a genuine companion that can compliment them in a spiritual opposition. You see a lot of Yin women being the ones who are always saying they hate men and wish they would die whereas Yang women tend to have a sort of idgaf neutral energy towards men. He will come on his best behavior or she will kick him tf out on the curb zero hesitation or looking back to constantly commenting on him and try to get his attention. A lot of yin women are obsessed with constantly commenting on men and getting in men’s faces to challenge them (not that thats a bad thing) while simultaneously claiming they are trying to decenter men in their lives. It’s just the wishy washyness for me that i dont get….
Yeah this is controversial but i kinda dont care at this point. This is my blog and i just say what i observe, messy or not 🤷♀️ i might edit this later im kinda tired rn. Some sentences are running and my brain is sleepy. Maybe im saying nothing at all here. I’ll figure it out tomorrow. 😴💤🛌
