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I just feel like a potato

*sigh*

I just don't feel good enough

I've been thinking about my first tattoo

I really can't wait to get my first tattoo- something generally small since I don't know my pain tolerance in that sense. But I was considering getting my zodiac sign/symbol, which would be Virgo, and get it in a pretty forest/jade green. I know tattoos are meaningful, fun things but i sort of feel like that's really simple or basic? I really do love my zodiac sign and green has always been my favorite.

#just spades things #me #tattoo talk

you obviously have better options

Seeing you so enthusiastically interested in others may make me feel physically sick, but I’m glad you are enjoying yourself

#i mean that's why i unfollowed the blog #but i just can't help hurting myself : )

baawri

latinarebels

wow so powerful. what film is this?

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Lajja. This film is called Lajja. Lajja, in a general translation from Hindi, means Shame.

It talks about different women in different situations overcoming the shame instilled by the society to keep them under the control of men.

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Wow

bimbocracy

every single negative stereotype about women was dreamt up by men who were projecting. fight me about it.

bimbocracy

“women can’t drive”

It is so well known that women are better and safer drivers than men that OUR CAR INSURANCE RATES ARE LOWER. Women get into fewer accidents, get fewer DUIs, and receive fewer speeding tickets than men.

“women never shut up”

Several scientific studies have shown that not only do men talk more than women, they also think that women have been talking for much longer than they actually have. Men interrupt and talk over women, dominate conversations, and still think women talk too much.

“women are shallow”

Lol next

“my wife is my ball and chain lmao”

Multiple studies have shown that marriage between men and women: Increases male lifespan, decreases female lifespan Decreases male depression rates, increases female depression rates Decreases male stress levels, increases female stress levels Increases male health and happiness, decreases female health and happiness Increases a man’s chance of getting a raise or promotion, decreases a woman’s chances of getting a raise or promotion

“women are too emotional”

Men love to say this about women after hurting them, in order to shift the blame and dismiss their feelings in one go. In reality, women are taught to hold our tongues and control ourselves quite literally from birth. We’re taught to put men’s needs and wants ahead of our own emotions regardless of the personal cost. Men are taught to do more or less whatever the fuck they want to women. Men take their emotions out on women while women are expected to shove theirs down.

I could go on and on but I don’t really think I need to.

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“women can’t drive” (The Guardian) (CBS News) (Insurance Institute for Highway Safety)

“women talk to much” (PBS, resources included)

“women are shallow” (just read the book, Dataclysm. by okcupid founder (?) that includes data about sex, gender, race, in finding online romantic partners)

“ball and chain” (University of London)

for all you pissbabies crying about sources

justsomeantifas

FYI Shia LaBeouf’s “HE WILL NOT DIVIDE US” exhibit was shut down today because so many neo-nazi, white supremacist fucks went to his exhibit to harass him, a Jewish person, and use his art project to promote their hate. It created a public safety hazard for the museum and they shut down what was supposed to be a 4 year project.

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#This isn’t about your opinion of LaBeouf as a person artist or actor. #This is about neo-nazis effectively using anti-Semitic violence and hate speech to get what they want.

have some pupper

#just spades things

iraffiruse

marigolds-sorry

I really really needed this wow

temerairie

i caNNOT STOP LAUGHING

lovealishadawn

LOOK AT THOSE POSITIVE ROLE MODELS

SAY NO TO PEER PRESSURE

girlactionfigure

“A very old man came in to my Starbucks. Halfway through struggling to understand his order through his thick accent, he noticed my necklace. He stopped and said “Your star is beautiful.”, and I thanked him. There was a long pause before he spoke again. When he did, he said “It is beautiful, but I am having a hard time looking at it. The last time I wore one, it was mandatory.” We then spoke to each other in Hebrew for a bit. But soon enough he stopped again, and looked back to my star. With one hand he held mine, and used his other hand to shakily touch the sapphires on my necklace. His lip shook, and tears rolled down his cheeks. In a shaky, heavily German-accented whisper, he said “I am so happy you are here. Your generation is here. We won.” and kissed my hand.✡”

From Humans of Judaism

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Everyone should start out their day sobbing a little, right?

awarew0lf

ATTENTION TRANS PEOPLE

if you are looking for a name change but cant afford the basically $400 like most people then go to your local court house and ask for an “indigent form” that form you will state that you cant afford to change your name. so then it will be free if very little.

feel free to add to this if other states have any more information

seethestarsablaze

Landon told me to do this so when I went to the county clerks office I asked for a fee waiver, I had to go to the law library to get the right paperwork then filled out my income and my monthly expenses and they waived my $290 court fee. I still had to pay for the notary and fingerprints and whatnot before all that but it ended up being around $50 total rather than $300+ definitely look into it if you need some financial help with this process!

Additionally this link had all the info for name changes in TX that I needed: http://www.transequality.org/documents/state/texas

(I think you can go on that site and select other states as well so it should be helpful!)