ride alive.

20+ ◇ male ◇ DID ◇ nsft blog. squid who yells about squid cock. (it's really good, have you tried it?)

[thejuicingmachine]

welcome to furry porn website! i see you are transgender. can i interest you in: intersex slur, different intersex slur, slur for trans women, slur for trans people, another intersex slur, intersex = trans, crossdressing, genderswap, futa, or femboy? :) or we could invent a new slur for you!

[cheaphalloweencostume]

i’m so obsessed with this 6 seconds of an eminem freestyle it’s not even funny

[powerfulwizard]

I just realized this is actually Eminem and not a guy making fun of him

[raptorific]

I'm probably gonna get yelled at for saying this but sometimes something isn't a real problem in fandom, you just learned a Japanese word describing a general fandom practice and got scared and decided it meant "The Bad Ones" of that practice

[raptorific]

Whenever you see someone being like "we don't mind when women enjoy or even create m/m content, we just hate fujoshis" you are being racist. If you mean "I hate the way some female fans treat gay men like fetish objects" then say that, and we can have a conversation based on that, but "fujoshi" is, I cannot stress this enough, just a word for any woman who likes M/M content, for better or worse. It may have started out as a reclaimed insult (by the way, the insult was based on "liking gay shit makes you perverted and sinful," not "please respect the humanity of gay men") but it does not make a distinction between The Good Ones and The Bad Ones. You just decided to No True Scotsman it and that the English word for that should describe The Good Ones and the Japanese word for it should describe The Bad Ones

Same goes for the people I saw just the other day whose discord server explicitly disallowed "Yaoi" but said that M/M content was allowed. What they meant was "M/M content is allowed as long as it isn't pornographic and fetishistic." What they actually said was "M/M content is allowed, but M/M content is strictly forbidden," and expected you to understand that the Japan-Adjacent term has porn/fetish connotations while the English-language term for THE SAME THING refers to the "normal, non-perverted" version.

It'd be like if you used the word "cartoons" to refer to all Family-Friendly animation, regardless of style or country of origin, whether it's Japanese or American or French or whatever, and used the term "anime" to refer to all animated pornography regardless of style or country of origin. There's plenty of animated pornography that isn't Japanese! There's plenty of anime that's not pornographic! But this is the sort of thing you do when you say shit like "obviously women can read stories about gay men, but NO FUJOSHIS"

[mortimermcmirestinks]

OP is correct and smart for saying this. this is related to/a subset of how people are about non-fandom foreign words, too, like how people say "Christians worship God (good), Muslims worship Allah (bad and scary)" when gues swh. gu. guess what. gues s w hat Allah mea. guess what the word "Allah" means--!!

[squid-something]

i think there's a good amount of things that should be said differently, though it's hard to over the internet without tone. you can't tell whether or not someone is going, "by being ignorant, you are complicit in the harm that you do to others," and, "BY BEING IGNORANT, YOU ARE COMPLICIT IN THE HARM YOU DO TO OTHERS."

it's kind of why i've fallen off of a lot of posts and responses, because there's many different ways for things to be said, and infinitely more ways for something to be taken.

i also think this site has an issue with assuming people are just... actively malicious? very few people actually are. even the people who harass others are usually just processing what they're ignorant about. obviously, this does not justify their behavior, but they're not evilly tapping their fingers together working out a plan to ruin someone's day or life. usually it's something without thinking, even. i've definitely been in situations where i've spoken before i thought.

yes, premeditated stuff does happen - "rare" in this case would still add up to thousands of cases - but your everyday slur user is just generally ignorant of your own life. most often they're confused, trying to cope with things changing by expressing something. again, NOT justifiable, and they need to find ways to cope better (asking questions, learning to properly listen to someone, etc.), but it's rarely just pure hate.

we can acknowledge some really bad shit happens every day without assuming the worst of people, i think.

[sugar-petals]

hot take in a roundabout way i think that's also why so many of us opt out of becoming parents ourselves

[squid-something]

we need MORE transgender porn MADE BY TRANSGENDER PEOPLE. NOW!!!

[pigswithwings]

the fascinating thing about being abused is that years later youre gonna be there sitting around going "okay so what now". cause like theres no instruction manual is there

[pigswithwings]

youre gonna be buying groceries and then youre gonna remember you went through all that for literally no good reason and youre gonna go Oh Okay and put paper towels in your bag or whatever

[pigswithwings]

like there was no good reason for anyone to do that to me. at all. and now that its over, what. i get to live? i get to live i guess

[pigswithwings]

remembering ur alive after all that moodboard

[squid-something]

i need to huff balls NOW.

[squid-something]

i'm kind of furry about it.

[ultraohwormhole]

trito and kinoga in their soldier days ^_^ see more of this img here and here

[armandology]

i love men crying #mencrying #freak #pervert #myfreakperversions #mytruth

[squid-something]

you. the FTM reading this.

you're beautiful and i want to see your body. it's a temple and i want to explore your caverns for treasure. i want to get your rocks rolling.

[squid-something]

it's not like i think it's problematic or anything, but i just cannot help but be curious about people being into futanari.

like... what separates "girl with dick" from, like, a trans woman..? perhaps it's the idea that she wants her dick? i mean, i guess you could even mix in some gender role commentary, but like... i don't know. it just kind of irks me how people will enjoy a futa but not a trans woman.

[squid-something]

we're all cogs in this big, bright, beautiful world. we're also all cogs in the machine. these two concepts can exist at once, and life is about the one you put the most torc into.

[squid-something]

yeah, i think the "tough love" approach is severely damaging to someone with BPD, ADHD and/or autism (not an exhaustive list), but especially BPD. i don't know why so many teachers insist on treating their students, particularly mentally ill ones, like they're soulless manipulative leeches that all want to do absolutely nothing with their lives.

this kid puts their trust in you, respects you as authority, and then your immediate reaction when they're asking for help or trying to make conversation is to close all forms of communication and to tell the "truth" (AKA, what *you* think is the truth, regardless of context or the kid's view). i just don't get it.

also, don't hit pause on a prison documentary and point out the main guy's stims, and then say that you look for those things and report it to the school board. try not being ableist for a change, hm?

[squid-something]

very interesting thumbnail.

[squid-something]

remind me to grab the sound byte of, "that's fucked up, ness," from vinny.