i can't afford rent because of my abusive ex and desperately need help. if i don't pay, it will cause a domino effect where i'll be homeless, lose my emotional support animals, and eventually i can be sued and my paypal account seized. i'll also fail this college semester, which will mess up all my student grant funding and getting a degree
i'm disabled and was recently hospitalized for a nervous breakdown, and stress is making me sick. i've been diagnosed with an ulcer
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more context under the cut. it will be updated as things change
my ex boyfriend is an abusive alcoholic. he's raped me, tried to medically neglect me, stranded me at our new apartment alone with no food and a clogged toilet, and most recently refuses to pay any rent and is content to allow me to become homeless despite legal obligation
i have been granted a hud/section 8 housing voucher, but to use it a unit must pass inspection
the apartment i applied for didn't pass, and needed repairs. the landlord told me he'd accept the first applicant that could pay first month rent and a huge deposit. the housing authority told me i'd lose my voucher if i didn't proceed with this exact unit
originally, i was supposed to be on my own. but i was shoved between a rock and a hard place with the voucher and deposit. i couldn't afford the deposit despite friends crowdfunding for me, so... i asked my boyfriend for help
he needed a place to go himself, because he broke his lease bringing me and my cats in. (i was unaware of this, and had no suspicion he'd do something that would compromise his 2 bed/bath apartment)
my doctor also prescribed caregiver after my hospitalization so it seemed mutually beneficial from a financial standpoint, even if i wasn't enthused about it
we couldn't afford movers, so over the course of march we'd been moving things by the carload ourselves. the queen bed was too big, so the night before last he informed me he was dumping it while he had help from a friend to move it. i had a bedframe and mattress from the last place i'd lived, but it had already been taken to the new place. i thought we'd agreed i'd basically move in to the new place early so i'd have somewhere to sleep
come saturday night, i messaged him that the toilet was clogged. he refused to bring a snake, and told me i was using him because i don't hug and kiss him enough. (i'm a csem victim, asexual, and autistic and don't like physical affection)
he's decided he doesn't want to proceed with the unit, and it hasn't passed the inspection, so my voucher doesn't cover it yet. i can't afford the rent out of pocket, and i'm broke because i'm disabled. we agreed he'd pay rent until the voucher kicked in, then he would be added to it as my caregiver, because he'd take me to medical appointments, ensure i get my medication on time, ensure i'd and bathe, etc.
but that ship has sailed. now i'm left in a lurch, and desperately need help. a large portion of the security and pet deposits were nonrefundable, so all the previous effort would go to waste if i can't stay
because i was recently hospitalized, i don't know how i'll survive homelessness. my cats are prescribed emotional support animals, and losing them would be devastating
these are text messages from when he refused to bring the snake and dumped me:
after this, he proceeded to continuously ignore me when i'd bring up rent, that he's on the lease, and going to the bank to pay the landlord
he never responded to the above and then proceeded to act like nothing happened
he didn't respond to any of these except agreement to let me get my cats with the help of someone from my weekly ywca meetings
he is now proceeding to STILL not respond or accept responsibility despite me explaining to him in great detail what the repercussions will be if he doesn't help pay rent. he continues to say "you"
as of august 29, i don't have enough to pay the rent on my own, but i am keeping all of these text messages to present in eviction court if it comes to that. i also intend to take my ex to small claims court
the landlord's maintenance guy also """plunged the toilet""" after leaving me without a working one for five days, and after i was informed there was a problem with the entire complex's pipes. i was not here, so i can't vet if it was true. they """plunged""" without permission, and then sent me an invoice after the fact. i also can't afford this fee, and find it predatory in nature. the maintenance company is owned by the landlord
i have reached out to legal aid to ask about the legality of the landlord handling the situation like this. i will reach out to them again if i get an eviction notice
My friend Erin is finally in her own apartment, safe with her cats, and just needs a little help to stay stable another month until her housing voucher kicks in.
the landlord told me he's going to proceed with a notice to quit then eviction process so this has become even more dire
so folks who may not have been in this situation understand how bad it is, it means:
i will be homeless, which will result in me losing my emotional support animals and possessions
there is no local shelter i can get to, it's 45 minutes away in a town with no bus line; even if i got there i wouldn't have a means to get other places i would need to go
i will have to drop out of college when i'm supposed to graduate in spring, which is in turn going to throw off any possible career for at least a year since certain classes are only offered certain terms, if i'm even able to return as a student at all
i will still owe the rent, then the accrued fees ($15 per day late fee, then additional 1% late fee for the invoice), and then the court fees
if the judge rules in the landlords favor, and he will because it's true that i haven't paid, then all of my assets such as my bank account will be seized for the purpose of repayment. i bank with paypal. if someone wanted to send me money for dinner via paypal for example then it would still immediately go to the landlord and i'd have no means of getting help in the future
because i won't have an address, i won't be able to utilize the local ride service that exclusively provides transport to medical appointments, which means i will no longer get treatment for my conditions. not getting treatment for my conditions means they'll get worse
because i am disabled and because winter is coming, i don't know if i can physically survive these consequences. since i was recently hospitalized for a nervous breakdown and suicide attempt, and therefore i don't know if i can mentally and emotionally handle these consequences. the local humane society is at capacity, so i don't know if my cats will survive either. i'm sorry that this sounds so awful, but that's my reality. it's at a point where losing this apartment really does put our survival in jeopardy
Hey everyone. I don't know this person but I'm willing to write fic and draw if it means you donate/contribute resources/help out in any way possible. The fic and art will be slow-coming but if you give me proof that you donated or offered/helped find her shelter I'm good for it. You could get a little mention in one of my Lawlight fics; whatever you want. It's an awful situation to be in. If you could help, please do. Please contact me via @monsterskissingmonsters for your free request.
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